xpub is exactly what I was looking for. This shows my entire balance. I remember reading about xpubs but it didn't click until now. Thank you all!
when you have a private key seed. its a master private key
with a master publickey.
from that you can theb make child keys(new addresses). which for every receipt of funds goes to a new child public address
your funds are on the child public addresses. not the wallets master key address
analogy (online bank accounts)
think of the master public key not as a real balance total seen publicly.. but just a name of a particular bank services login username
which you use yourname and password to gain access to your funds. but those funds sent to individual account numbers(addresses)
thus you can tell and see those individual bank account numbers to see individual balances without revealing your bank username and password to get access to move those funds
privately via your bank access using the username and password your bank system totals up a total balance. but thats the benefit/feature of the bank software at your private view end. not the public view.. as the public view can only see account numbers