Downside of BitPay is that they charge a ridiculous extra fee. It's not ridiculous as per its value, but more that they find it necessary to charge it. I'm sure Roger has something to do with this.
Ah, not double confirm on Bitpay then, makes sense since all the Bitpay merchants I've used confirm the order after 1 confirmation or even some with 0 as long as that "miner fee" is deemed enough not to trigger that refund issue.
Confirming with the hotel again, how does that work though? Doesn't the merchant already receive the paid invoice when you pay through BitPay? Seems like a really unnecessary hassle to have to contact the hotel again.
Exactly I read same issue with another person. What I basically did was lookup the hotel website and called them to confirm it. You can try emailing them also (in my case even it being a 5 star hotel they didnt respond back to the email so its better to call. If there is no confirmation then just contact destinia which is what I did and they resolved it.