Topic: If you had a son and he became homeless... (Read 1586 times)

Quote from: Vod on June 28, 2014, 04:00:26 PM

Please answer. I'm praying there are still some humane people out there.

Are you homeless now?

Yes.

Why are you seeking justification from the cruel Internet nerds on this forum? Obviously you are in the know about bitcoin technologies, and you obviously know that you can leverage this knowledge to make money. It has always struck me as odd that words such as babylon get used yet the tools of babylon cannot be escaped.

Please do go to the gathering and learn to control your energy better. You are focusing on the negatives in your life and manifesting it through every act including this post. There is no homelessness only home. There are no humane people, only people. Everyone has two dogs inside. It just depends on which you feed. After utah, then humboldt.

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Quote from: dank on June 28, 2014, 02:57:36 PM

Quote from: Vod on June 27, 2014, 11:22:34 PM

Quote from: dank on June 28, 2014, 02:57:36 PM

Then she cornered her in the corner of the seat and the wall and started hitting her. It was downright disgusting, I had to leave.

You're quite the stand up hero donkey...

You really think someone who does that would change their ways just because I speak?

You clearly don't.

You have much to learn about how humans operate vod.

No, you were a coward. I would have stepped in and stopped the assault, like I have done dozens of times.

It is not always going to be safe to stop an assault

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Quote from: Vod on June 27, 2014, 11:22:34 PM

Quote from: dank on June 28, 2014, 02:59:32 PM

Then she cornered her in the corner of the seat and the wall and started hitting her. It was downright disgusting, I had to leave.

You're quite the stand up hero donkey...

You really think someone who does that would change their ways just because I speak?

You clearly don't.

You have much to learn about how humans operate vod.

No, you were a coward. I would have stepped in and stopped the assault, like I have done dozens of times.

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If I had a son and he became homeless...

I would name him "dank".

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Quote from: DannyElfman on June 27, 2014, 11:40:25 PM

Quote from: DannyElfman on June 27, 2014, 11:40:25 PM

Please answer. I'm praying there are still some humane people out there.

Are you homeless now?

Yes.

I voted yes. Anyway, it doesn't sound like upscale living.

What belongings do you have with you?

Also, what was the main reason why you made this poll? Were you already told 'no'?

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Quote from: Vod on June 27, 2014, 11:22:34 PM

Please answer. I'm praying there are still some humane people out there.

Are you homeless now?

Yes.

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Quote from: Vod on June 26, 2014, 08:15:39 PM

Then she cornered her in the corner of the seat and the wall and started hitting her. It was downright disgusting, I had to leave.

You're quite the stand up hero donkey...

You really think someone who does that would change their ways just because I speak?

You clearly don't.

You have much to learn about how humans operate vod.

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Quote from: Gimpeline on June 26, 2014, 03:45:30 PM

Quote from: Vod on June 25, 2014, 11:07:39 PM

And please explain your reasoning if you say no. Why would you not let your own child sleep at a house that isn't being used by anyone and hasn't been for quite some time?

How about their own child is a criminal and shouldn't be let anywhere near their property?

You would throw out your own kid just because he had a criminal record?

Not just if he had a criminal record, no.

If if he is actively committing crimes, is wanted by the police for dangerous driving, and is trying to steal money from people? Yes.

Wow. Hope you dont have any kids.
Dont know about the stealing money (I might have, don't remember), but who havent driven dagerously or commited some kind of crime when they were young and pretty much braindead

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Please answer. I'm praying there are still some humane people out there.

Are you homeless now?

Vod

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Quote from: BadBear on June 27, 2014, 02:22:14 PM

Then she cornered her in the corner of the seat and the wall and started hitting her. It was downright disgusting, I had to leave.

You're quite the stand up hero donkey...

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Quote from: ShibaWow on June 27, 2014, 02:03:24 PM

what kind of a parent would you be if you wouldn't let him crash there?

I'm really surprised so many people voting no, why??

Are you a parent? Being a responsible guardian doesn't mean spoiling your child and giving in to his every desire and want. That's enabling. Sooner or later you gotta push them out of the nest and let them learn to fly on their own, as long as you allow them to mooch off you they will, and you are not doing them any favors by allowing them.

Really depends though. I mean dank is a junkie thief who avoids responsibility any way he can, so no I wouldn't let him, for the reasons above. If he were actually trying, responsible, and just needed some time and a little help, then sure.

Junkie:

Hippy:

dank:

yeah... I'm not a junkie, thanks.

And btw, the other day I was in Mc Donalds (to use their internet) and this mother kept screaming at her child whenever she would enjoy herself. The girl was real young and was just moving around having a good time until she kept screaming at her in a threatening voice with an arm up like she was about to hit her.

Then she cornered her in the corner of the seat and the wall and started hitting her. It was downright disgusting, I had to leave.

But I guess that's what parenting consists of these days, am I right? "Tough love"?

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Quote from: BadBear on June 27, 2014, 02:22:14 PM

Quote from: ShibaWow on June 27, 2014, 02:03:24 PM

what kind of a parent would you be if you wouldn't let him crash there?

I'm really surprised so many people voting no, why??

Are you a parent? Being a responsible guardian doesn't mean spoiling your child and giving in to his every desire and want. That's enabling. Sooner or later you gotta push them out of the nest and let them learn to fly on their own, as long as you allow them to mooch off you they will, and you are not doing them any favors by allowing them.

Really depends though. I mean dank is a junkie thief who avoids responsibility any way he can, so no I wouldn't let him, for the reasons above. If he were actually trying, responsible, and just needed some time and a little help, then sure.

No I'm not

And I understand your point

But this isn't spoiling, giving your child a place to sleep isn't spoling

Buying him iphones, laptops, computers,games is

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Quote from: ShibaWow on June 27, 2014, 02:03:24 PM

what kind of a parent would you be if you wouldn't let him crash there?

I'm really surprised so many people voting no, why??

Are you a parent? Being a responsible guardian doesn't mean spoiling your child and giving in to his every desire and want. That's enabling. Sooner or later you gotta push them out of the nest and let them learn to fly on their own, as long as you allow them to mooch off you they will, and you are not doing them any favors by allowing them.

Really depends though. I mean dank is a junkie thief who avoids responsibility any way he can, so no I wouldn't let him, for the reasons above. If he were actually trying, responsible, and just needed some time and a little help, then sure.

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what kind of a parent would you be if you wouldn't let him crash there?

I'm really surprised so many people voting no, why??

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If I had a son who became homeless, I would take him to my own house. You never know what might happen so we need to help each others (especially family)

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Quote from: Gimpeline on June 26, 2014, 03:45:30 PM

Quote from: Vod on June 25, 2014, 11:07:39 PM

Quote from: Vod on June 25, 2014, 11:07:39 PM

And please explain your reasoning if you say no. Why would you not let your own child sleep at a house that isn't being used by anyone and hasn't been for quite some time?

How about their own child is a criminal and shouldn't be let anywhere near their property?

You would throw out your own kid just because he had a criminal record?

Not just if he had a criminal record, no.

If if he is actively committing crimes, is wanted by the police for dangerous driving, and is trying to steal money from people? Yes.

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I'd probably just buy him a house, unless the one that was abandoned for five years is still somehow in good shape which I highly doubt it would be.

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And please explain your reasoning if you say no. Why would you not let your own child sleep at a house that isn't being used by anyone and hasn't been for quite some time?

How about their own child is a criminal and shouldn't be let anywhere near their property?

You would throw out your own kid just because he had a criminal record?

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What I think is, as long as he agrees to basically take responsibility for the house as long as he's there (like maybe doing some fixer-upper things; like Commandrix hinted at, who knows what kind of shape it might be in after being abandoned after five years), it would be all right for him to sleep there. It's interesting to me how having to do work can cause people to shape up real fast. I don't have a son, but if I did, letting him sleep in a house nobody uses would be better than seeing him on the streets with everybody else who are either down on their luck or made some bad choices. My only suggestion is to get any agreement you make with your (I'm assuming) adult son down on paper, get his signature, and you'll have a leg to stand on if he burns the place down or otherwise refuses to keep up his end of the deal.

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Depends on many conditions:

How old is my son?

Does he have a drug problem?

Why doesn't he have a job?

Mental Illness? Physical illness?

Has he been given opportunities before and squandered them?

It's not always as black and white as the way you have it worded.

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Quote from: BadBear on June 25, 2014, 11:56:54 PM

Please answer. I'm praying there are still some humane people out there.

Why let him sleep in an abandoned house without any love,care and rehabilitation from being homeless,

when you can bring your son back into your life, your home, your attention until he can live for himself(get a job etc.)

That's what I would do if I had a son, but I'm only 14.

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If my son was about to become homeless I would support him.
if my soon to homeless son was a selfish scammer junky I would not support him.
Why won't karma give you the trillion dollar house you deserve ?

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I would ask what kinda shit had he gotten into to get into that state and offer help monetary or otherwise.

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There are many ways to contribute to a society that would fit perfectly with your worldview, but that would mean not being a freeloader so it's not surprising that you would choose to focus on the negative.

Besides, if you truly feel that way, then why would you be okay with benefiting from it? Such a hypocrite.

If you truly believed what you say, you would REFUSE to stay there, not whine when like an entitled brat when you can't. But conveniently enough for you, your principles only seem to matter when it benefits you.

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Not if he was a freeloading scammer like you,, because at some point he needs to grow up and realize everything isn't going to be handed to him by others who actually contribute to society.

By contributing, you do mean contributing to destroying our planet, correct?

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Not if he was a freeloading scammer like you,, because at some point he needs to grow up and realize everything isn't going to be handed to him by others who actually contribute to society.

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Quote from: Vod on June 25, 2014, 11:18:23 PM

Yeah, you mentioned that before. I can't control your thoughts. Undecided

umm, you did say a few months ago you finally realize dank is nothing more than a troll and you will not feed him any more. but here you are months later and you are still feeding him. why is that vod?

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Kick 'em to the curb

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Quote from: WEB slicer on June 25, 2014, 11:14:11 PM

i thought you were gonna stop feeding him vod?

Yeah, you mentioned that before. I can't control your thoughts. Undecided

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i thought you were gonna stop feeding him vod?

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