Topic: In third world china, men are begging women desperately for marriage (Read 498 times)

I think women have simply lost interest in marriage because they don't need men's strength and skills. Many women were disappointed in men when they were young because some men simply do not know how to give pleasure or have a low libido and cannot satisfy a woman for health reasons. I am 48 years old, and recently I started having problems with potency; my wife told me directly that she only needed me for sex. Since I could not give it to her, she would leave me. I started taking drugs to increase potency. Now my wife can't get out of bed after every sex

There is a very cruel phenomenon in China that there are more men than women. In some economically developed areas, this problem is not so serious. However, in some backward areas, people generally prefer men to women.

What's worse, with the change of marriage barriers. More and more men are finding themselves unable to cope with the tremendous financial pressure that is causing them to marry later.

But it is in the nature of man to reproduce. These men are in greater need of spiritual comfort. Even in the Ming Dynasty, eunuchs who had lost their ability to reproduce were eager to have a family. It's just that the cost of marriage in China today is too high.

https://www.mdhist.com/eunuch/3867/

 Happy international women's day!

women worldwide should unite to form their own race and state. so they can finally have what the want and do what they want without men preventing them to take and do what they want.
but don't destroy the west with toxic feminism first, start with the middle east and africa first. and then move on to asia and latin america and last the west pls.

Being a strong advocate to “not all women are the same (TM)”, nope, women in the other part of the hemisphere don’t create chaos and very decent, they don’t flooded the internet with sjw politically corrected manners and jurisdiction.
Joke aside, they’re miles ahead of women lawyers, they’re now a religion, a women religious group, women only schools, women first service is already a common knowledge among folks, as aggressive as vegan.

mmmm, NAWL national association of women lawyers, i like that.

do women have such feminist organisations also in nonwestern countries?

It’s what most men do, they rather spend money on getting laid, grooming bride with money is becoming a trend, too bad radical feminist aren’t going to give into this gynaecentric(pussy centric) culture, and smart women who know how to push the button of this desperado beta men and take advantage financially, men spending hard earned millions to buy bride, but they’re hoping the women they groom will be decent and please the men everyday. Hey, sorry, we are not living on Stone Age where women are oppressed to please men. Women today rather send nude over the internet than please their boring beta men who dunno how to push women buttons, and very soon they will rebel and make their life full of drama.

True, slavery life, who want to suffer forever
Better to go wonder lust
Of course spend your money
What's wrong to be wander lust?
Women happy we more happy
Pick up artist enjoy banging wander lust whore
Of course bang new one everyday
Don't cohabit long term with anyone
Many whore is free one, Twitter got dozen of them,
Why would anyone spend money on whore?
I think it's a rat race, too many people compete in this same job, this jobs got too many people, that's why the reward to this type of job is getting very low, not only it's very low pay, it's even suffering to work on this job.
This occupation is what I call spending money on woman. Or paying money on whore to get what you want in life. When everyone suggest paying wife with money to take care of child, this job become too abundant to men, and the reward to work for job this is minimum.
The other occupation that nobody want to take one is make women spend money on men, the complete opposite, this sort of job is too obscure, nobody want to do this sort of jobs, they think it's too hard to be working on this job, retard.
Very stupid but it work wonder.
99% men is low EQ high IQ by default. Only 1% is doing opposite.
That 1% men who is doing opposite is working on what 99% men won't do and make money out of it
Can say they have no competition
The 1% is working on the high EQ low IQ jobs for the men
Very rewarding job
Same goes for women too, the 1% women work for high IQ low EQ job and rewarding through Internet, namely monogamous goddess angel that please men in doing everything.
Very few woman work on engineering field many work on accounting.
Because engineering require high IQ from women
Don't even need to worry about jobless because all men are dumb they hate to improve EQ
They think it's shame to the family to bend over women.
Funny?

The good part is women are not common to failure in life, they hate rejection too that’s always associated with failure, they would always only commit to anything that they feel confident they would success. Whereas men don’t have the luxury of get away in life as easy as women, men constantly face rejections, failure in life in doing anything, the rejection make them stronger, it also make them smarter and independent. The men that face too many rejection and failure in life is possibly the reasons why many women fall into love scams, because the men are too smart that they know how to push all the button that “can’t-go-wrong, can’t-make-mistakes, always-win, always-correct” women that they crave the validation so badly, they fall into money scams, they are manipulated but they’re not gonna listen to your advices, because they’re “can’t-never-get-wrong” type of women, they hate you for comparing them since they’re not all Women are the same (TM) hardcore worshippers.

The society that treat women like princess is the culprit, they indulge themselves with perfectionism lifestyle, never make one mistake in entire life, everything is fall in love on first sighted or not gonna work, they get always in life too way almost they’re not required by the society to change their attitudes, their well being or even their physical being, and they’re also unable to tolerate to women shaming all over the internet, because all the women shaming over the internet is making the perfect themselves that look like garbage full of mistakes to the eyes of angry mobs, they get triggered badly, it impact all women of all age group, wonder why young daughter cry to put up make up and dressed up in princess to attend school? Because women shaming are rampant inside the school through the social apps just a few inches away from their fingers, women shaming could be part of the reason alpha men flourished in the internet age, but there is just too little efforts could be taken to stop women from shaming each other, they’re too handful to handle for most weak men, strong men who can push the buttons of this sort of inferior complex creatures would often found themselves indulged with dozens of crazy women throwing themselves to them, at the ease of few swipes away from the dating apps.

Is this going to set precedent to the future of the dating scene? I believe the future of human would go through this sort of revolutions, and a lot of changes that required life skills that can’t be acquired from schools.

this is in the norm in some particular parts of village in china where there more men than women because women tend to work on cities than men. I've watched a documentary about this a long time ago where the parents of a 27yrs old(I think or maybe older) male is looking for a wife for his their son. I think the parents even went to other neighbouring villages to look for anyone that would be willing to marry their son. the documentary was interesting and sad at the same time. (I forgot the title of the documentary.)

Seriously that’s just a dupe and I would take it at a pinch of salt.
They ain’t remotely wrong btw, we are living a very cruel world, that surviving is increasingly challenging for young people, we are forced to go through countless life change just to achieve a temporary peace in our entire life, look at Corona virus, who can imagine survival of the fittest is at its true colour in the form of just virus, it would claim a lot of life who aren’t prepared for it, to survive another day, change is what you alone had to move yourselves, nobody can help you, new generation received ZERO funding in their entire life of living in the earth, they’re the true survival of the fittest, I would expect them to move the world by using the survival of the fittest rules too.

Finally a glimmer of sunlight.  This was turning into the misogyny thread.

I would preserve the “third world”, because it’s such a wonderful keywords.

i think you should simply say,

Third world country china, men are begging women desperately for marriage

or simply:

in china men have to beg women for marriage

In proper English I think it is

“In third world China, it was men who are begging women to get married.”

But it was too long to fit into the title words count limitation.

I hope it didn’t lead to a total comprehensive nightmare?

could you correct the sentence properly: who is china begging to marry who?

men to women
women to men

or men and women to each other.

"Third world China was men begging women to get married"

is in my oppinion bad englisch.

It’s glad that you can grasp my point. Although not only women that crave validation, men also crave validation from other women, you won’t believe that how much men do the same just like women do, they all crave validation, men crave validation that they’re strong smart geeky rich etc, but women crave the complete opposite, they crave fertility, beauty, attentions etc. This is something that very hard for me to express to many people. I can say I didn’t discover this monster prior to my previous flings that internet didn’t existed, I just finally grasp all these recently, it’s some magic to me. I think you’re very skilled too since you can understand what I’m writing.

women in a society in which all are equal are trying to get rich, so they look what rich men want, and what to they want, beautiful women, so women try to get education, breast implants etc.

only religion and alcohol for men stupidises them to an extent that they stay "happy workers" while others enrich themselves massively (bankers, traders, capitalists) etc.

You can conclude that women crave validation badly.
1. Women shaming getting very fast over internet compare to before internet age
2. Women shame other women their value are cheaper than them, their body not hot, their attraction to men are super low
3. To prove other women wrong, the women go to obtain the validation directly from men by asking sex for free.
4. Every women hate rejection, they want more confident, men give more confirmations to them that they want to ❤️❤️❤️❤️ her to the point that women feel safe that she won’t get rejection, she will confess and reciprocate willingly.
4. Taking selfie with men is first step women get validation from men that they’re hot, sooner women will crave more validation, they will not settle down to just selfie, they will crave having ❤️❤️❤️ with men, even crave more, having groupfie, group party to get validation that they’re hot.
5. That’s why women are complicated. Men need to always say the right thing to women, the right thing to say is the one that can boost the women validation that they’re hot, the more you can boost their validation, the more women become confident, the more confident they will do crazy thing to men that gave them so much validation that they’re hot.
6. When you know how to always say the right thing do the right thing to fulfill women need for validation, you can always almost make every women fall for you and do everything for you, other women will feel jealous and they also want the same validation from the same men to provide the same validation they crave so badly, soon the alpha men become the supply of validation to many women who are getting shamed by other women.

jes, only thing protecting china from that will be either christianity and communism or other forms of religion and communism with the exception if islam

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That’s sound like we share the common ground, that the stereotype truly existed among the mainland, I would take it as a complimentary. I know mainstream love to brag about inequality on gender of new births, but it’s one very subjective comparison, imbalance that goes into the number of millions and counting, that’s also ignoring the number of high lethality rate among men on a daily basics, mainland need more men to overcome the dead young men who work in dangerous environment, it can’t compare with first world nations who mainly work inside highly secured building that completely isolated them from 101 potential death threats faced by mainlander, overall the dead men outpace live new birth male, and we are gonna see imbalance that will change your mindset.

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I know you read some news that portray Corona virus is one such disease that can alter the entire mainlander. That is too far fetched to judge them under current circumstance, we would see it again in the next few months of progress.

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My friend got a similar case in . The police called him to the station for statement. The guy gave every detail and act very honestly. The police cross examined the girl after the guy went home. The police believe the guy and never call him again.

So what did the guy tell the police?
1. He told the police the girl gave consent. She want to be the guy GF but they guy didn’t promise.. sound logical to the police
2. The girl unzipped his pant and put on condom
3. This is crucial now. The girl called the guy from her office the next morning for a chat. Her office number is very strong evidence. The guy then called that number back a colleague pick up the line. The guy show the office number and told police to cross check with that colleague to prove his side of story
So moral of the story is, maintain communication the next morning. Make sure she replies. Tell her you had a good time.

Police is trained to identify false rape accusation. As long as you can remember every detail, if possible, write it down, tell police everything as detailed as possible, let the police cross examined girls a few times to detect if they lie.

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Yeah need to make more money to impress women in general, that’s not common to many PUA blogger, because they making wreak havoc out of this culture all the time.

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If you can see nothing wrong then I can assure the PUA bloggers has failed too hard, they wasn’t work hard enough to express their messages.


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That’s right I read the blogs from some PUA author, that’s sensational by the time I read that, we have all sort of story that’s flooding the entire internet but most of them were fictional, but these particular blogger decide to stand out and innovate the very same idea and take it as their life challenges, which is obscure by the time I read that, I read plenty of guide books that main selling points are “100% working tips”, “refund guarantee”, “real life experience”, tbh all of them are junks. I had to agree that girls are extremely materialistic today, they expect so much, yet so little they could offer in return. Of course a little guidances from men would be god sent, although I must aware the tendency of cheating on their advices are on par with fictional books, picking up girls? I think I can agree with some of them since I pick up quite a few girls in my life, and I still do now but over the internet this time, before the internet kick in, picking up girls are quite an achievement, and many will jealous of that along, as soon as internet kick in, I’m in a world of changes, I see something that’s totally contradict with my previous experiences, totally out of the world, I feel like I’m not picking up girl based on the skill I learned before, but that’s not the main point. What I want to address is never in my worst dream that girls today on the internet have developed into a total monsters I can’t familiar with anymore, especially knowing that they’re doing tinder and all that webcams and all, but I can grasp one idea that common among women, they just want to acquire something from you, that’s how in our culture men begging women existed long ago, since men can provide resource and women just accept the begging and feel respected, but not today, I think this women that I familiar with became hyper materialistic, to the point I even trying to block them when I know they’re too handful for me to handle.

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...or Gay.

So you're shocked that there are men who teach other men how to pick up girls? Or that girls are allowing themselves to be charmed by those "actors"?
Do you think hat girls will never beg men to go out with them?

I don't even know where to start So basically in Europe we got all kinds of girls. The queens who like to play hard to get and treat men like shit. The wannabees who think they're so special and a man is there only to pay their bills, basically gold diggers. The overworked girls who don't even have time for dating... We have all kinds.
We also have men who are shy and need someone to guide them. These coaches do exist and becoming more popular in countries where the majority of men are introverts, like Japan.

For me the only shock when I compare how dating worked 20 years ago and now is how stuck up and demanding women have become. Back in the day they were much nicer. You could approach a girl and have a chat. If she did not want company she'd politely tell you about it. Nowadays she'll just ignore you and walk away without a word or tell you to fck off.

Beware of what you wish for, as you may very well get it only to repent later...

This is not so much a poverty divide than a cultural difference. Its not so much "3rd" world vs "1st" world, but more like western vs eastern, or even just China vs your country. The cultural difference can be overwhelming and make your life miserable, even a living hell depending.

Extremes and excess exist everywhere, but not everyone is the same. Going counter culture might just make things harder (ie. stable relation), which makes finding a good partner not easy. Don't envy others, everyone's circumstances are different.

From my point of view i see nothing particularly strange about this case, and the woman has a child too, its not easy for a man to accept. The opposite is also true.

just wait till television perfectionism, will make china a civilisation of singles.

As above stated imbalance in the sex/gender ratio made more demand for women to get married and as far as I know more women from third world countries are working on other countries and getting married on that country itself makes the condition more worse.

But no one have to beg women to marry him if he got enough money to live in business class life,so Chinese men needs to make more money if they wanted to get married.

Yeah it’s a very difficult topic to begin for me, but I would like to try nonetheless, because it’s touching some of the most taboo discussion of the two major cultures, we all should know by now cultural shock isn’t a hoax and it truly exhibited on everybody who move to foreign land, I will save it for now it seem pointless to argue anymore. What I’m trying to stress here is just one subset of the overall cultural shock, I decide to write it here, purposely want to attract English audiences, so that I can get a bigger pictures to what make them stand out in my opinion, and it intrigued me so much that I decide to debunk it once and for all, it’s not something you are familiar with prior to the internet age, I’m talking about a culture shock that didn’t existed for more than 30 years in humankind history, so don’t expect a lot of data worth of three thousands years, but I can assure you the datas collected will be sufficient enough to form a valid/indisputable/incontradictable argument.


https://blog.lareviewofbooks.org/chinablog/male-god-beijings-pick-artist-scene/
To save everybody time I would only quote the key component from the blog
“now begging to go to bed with you.”. *** damn, it’s something wrong here, it might sound like a money scam backdated to years ago

http://www.blackdragonblog.com/podcasts/
Some excerpt from that url:

“She had a five year-old son from a prior fling, and soon she was begging, literally begging, to move in with me. I pushed back for a few weeks,”. ***its mentioned again, although one may argue not all women are same blah, not true for China women, they can’t never be allowed to be the initiator of begging under no circumstance.

Lastly I would include link to the post I once created weeks ago, it’s a dirty translation but it retrain comprehensible to its origin article, and it’s crucial to backup my rock solid proof:

https://bitcointalksearch.org/topic/m.53732212

Due to the one child policy China used to have, many female babies were aborted or killed because families depended on their child to be a male wage earner. Over time, as a result there was a large imbalance in the sexes of the Chinese population, and now there are way more men there than women, meaning that a much larger percentage of men in China will end up being single because they can not find a partner.

Since this is not the case in most other parts of the world, it makes sense that there would be more women seeking husbands. Because of the imbalanced nature of marriage law in the US, it makes men extremely vulnerable to divorce, having their children and hard earned wealth taken in court. This has had a result of causing less men seeking marriage as well.

communist nationsa are doomed because of this, they will need immigrants to keep running their economy, so thats why i expect china to become an immigrant country and it will adopt the english langauge in order to improve the integration ability of its nation. taking indian, african and middle eastern labour could safe chinese economy for the next decades.

It's not likely that members in the English language section are going to know let alone understand the culture you're speaking of so how can you expect a valid response on the subject.  Maybe post it in the Chinese language section where you might find members immersed in your culture who would be able to advise you.  Also, links or it didn't happen.
 

It fascinated me that I come across a blogger who boosting his women are the one begging men to get married instead, because it’s just impossible in our culture, I was so unbelievable to the point that I think the blogger are lying and I was about to throw baton on him, then I got to know this blogger are reside on the first world country! He was an American nation, still that doesn’t make sense to me, I wouldn’t believe that, how can a third world and first world women have such a vast difference attitudes? I’m talking about men force women into marriage VS women force men into marriage, that’s a dream come true for me! China man spend a lot of effort to nurture the feel so that China women agree to China man pathetic appeal, that’s getting married and having his wealth split for no conditions, and often time it’s the men in the huge loss to grooming China women, and wearing green hats is not uncommon aka “infidelity in the western counterpart where married women having multiple triangle relationship with sugar daddy, bf and husband.”

That’s absurd I think women grooming men in the first world is super rare or it’s impossible at all for most guy, especially the useless and lazy beta man, third world China men need to work super hard to win the grooming right for their dream women. Not until I see it with my own eye, I think the bloggers aren’t so obvious enough to convince third world China men what first world American men have been doing almost effortless.

It’s totally cultural shock to me, I believe there is guy here who can engligten me, I still couldn’t believe the blogger that I read years ago, I want to teach the blogger a lesson so badly but I finally give up now after seeing all the damages they did to the third world China, I’m seeing so many third women China women begging just like what the bloggers described, and it’s uncontradictable, solid and indisputable proof, I’m still baffled at the time of writing, there must be something wrong with me or with the third world China women, I think I can’t accept it anymore, I hope someone can enlighten me, it’s so frustrating, the bloggers are so ahead of its time, please somebody help me to proof the blogger wrong!!