2. Electrum[/ur] is in general the most recommended desktop wallet if you don't want to download the full blockchain.
3. I'm not sure if you're talking to me, as "tokexchain" got in between the quote, but if you are: my addy is in my profile (click my name).
I agree that usually Electrum is the best and easiest option for wallet, still, I want to add something.
Since @sharpma already has the core wallet and may be using it for quite a while, another possibly good option is to keep the core wallet, but in pruned mode. This way it will keep a lot less data on HDD. https://bitcointalksearch.org/topic/bitcoin-core-pruning-mode-1599458