Also use a large ssd 1tb should be good .
Once it fully loads you won't take as much time. Since you won't be loading more then 5% of the chain.
I have a 2tb ssd with about 250gb for the blockchain
750gb for other files
and 1 tb empty
I have 8gb ram
a 2014 i5 intel cpu
and it is loaded up to date as of today I will shut it down and up load it in a month
but it will take under and hour to do it.
In your case most likley you have no ssd not much ram etc.
You will need to bit the bullet at least one time. To get it fully loaded it may be more then a week with a slow hdd and 4gb ram.
I do not think 6 weeks but maybe you have a poor internet speed.
What you are doing does nothing as it resets each time you stop like you are doing.