Topic: Known Pedophiles How to ruin their lives? Tips? (Read 300 times)

I see it as the reverse.

What if after spending a quarter million in a civil lawsuit, he got nothing?

And you would advocate that?

100% assured outcome... It won't erase the deep embedded pain and trauma that he has inflicted. So why do anything at all? I already addressed this. You are a sad excuse for a human being.

possible outcomes...

So i sue him and win some money.....It wouldn't erase the deep embedded pain and trauma that he has inflicted. No this is not about money.

So i sue him and lose some money.....It wouldn't erase the deep embedded pain and trauma that he has inflicted. No this is not about money.

So i sue him and break even.....It wouldn't erase the deep embedded pain and trauma that he has inflicted. No this is not about money.

Read what he said again Captain Condescension. I know the difference between criminal and civil law. Aren't you the least bit disgusted with yourself using such a topic as a mechanism for your own personal spats?

I'm not sure. He said 7years for CIVIL, not criminal. This is not a district attorney going after the perp, but the victim himself, funding the entire thing from his own pocket. And there's no certainty of winning, there are many ways weaseling out of even what seems like a sure case

Literally nothing you do can erase what was done. Money is just one aspect of this. First of all, proving he did this in court will mean he lives the rest of his life shunned and in shame. As an older person he probably depends heavily on others. It would be hard to find that kind of help, even from family after that. Second, even if you don't care about the money, it still takes money out of his pocket, making his life that much harder. You can always donate it if you win anyways. You could use it to help fund the counseling program you participate in. That would objectively be helpful to some one.

prophet mohammed was a pedo.....

Okay, I have another answer. The absolute best novel I have ever read on the subject and tactics of "getting even" was the Count of Monte Cristo. I know that the answer is not found in "getting even" or "revenge", but in one's personal growth outside the bounds of the conflict. Still, the development of the character of the Count reflected that. Well, it's over a 1000 page book, so few today would start or finish it.

+1 to this.

Just file charges. I wouldn't do anything that could put you in some sort of legal trouble if this person is to file a defamation suit against you. No reason to risk it.

People at the police office will totally take everything you say seriously and forward it over to whoever it needs to get to (Ex: Sex offender list) if warranted.

First of all if you want to kill him don't be preaching it anywhere -.-, id recommend smashing both his legs to leave him crippled and in pains for the rest of his life rather, will also get you less sentence if you get caught.

On the other hand in prisin with those charges atleast hopefully he would get raped on daily basis, shame he so old.

10 merits to badecker's comment.

I have been for years. It does help when i council others on this subject.


So i sue him and win some money.....It wouldn't erase the deep embedded pain and trauma that he has inflicted. No this is not about money.

In Finland, you lose your military rank, if quilty on-court   If full knowledge longer you are in jail.

You should seek a good lawyer and sue. It baffles me that you come to ask for something like this in a forum rather than seek legal advise from a professional.

Also refrain from saying such threatening like things, you may harm your own case. Justice is not done by your own hand.

They don't care how old you are in prison. You fuck with kids your life is short and painful.

Well, you might consider volunteering part time for one of the groups that counsels people  with problems, such as this. You have been there, you know what it is. Why not help others with this.

Look forward. Not backwards.

The best way to ruin his life is to file charges and report him to the police.
He is kind of old, I don't know if he will end up in prison or under home restriction...
If he was younger and was ending up in prison, then his life would be ruined by all other prisoners...

You could make sure his family and friends know what he did.

Of course, you have to consider the pain you might be inflicting on innocent people.

Maybe make him think you're going to tell his family and friends?

I am sorry to know your story.

I think he already suffers from a long time ago, besides that, you say that his age is 82, so I think he will not live for a long time. People who committed a bad thing will accept what they did in the past. If your lives now become better after that incident, it is better to give the case to the Police, and if the Police cannot do anything, then you cannot do anything.

If you still want to ruin his life, for example, you do a terrible thing to him, you will get caught because of bullying or making a violent to him, and I guarantee that you will get in jail. That will not be good for your life and your family. Think twice before you want to ruin someone's life even if he did something terrible to you because we will get the same thing in the future.

This is so sad, I'm sorry for what you and your friend had to go through because of that bastard. May that friend rest in peace, I would say that if you don't get legal options, just inform every relative of him of his deeds so that people avoid him to make sure no one else is gonna be victim of him again.

That’s sound bizarre, but it’s 2019, and 2020, the time is pretty mixed up, can you elaborate more.

Known Pedophiles How to ruin their lives? Tips?

Figure out a way to have everybody born as an adult!

 

I would advise you stop making statements like "though I made plans to". I am not saying you are wrong to have these feelings, but if you want to hold him accountable, public statements like this might make that hard. I suggest you contact a lawyer, and discuss your options. There may be tangential ways to do this.

I tried last year. Detectives said statue of limitations are up. Imagine that statue of limitations on Child sex crimes??? Boggles the mind.

You can still file charges.  Other people may come forward as well. 

Massachusetts
No i won't do anything to physically harm him even though i made plans to.
Massachusetts Civil law allows lawsuits up to 7 years after you can connect the crime to known harm or injury.  2016 was when i was diagnosed with P.T.S.D. due to sexual abuse so this is a possibility.
None. Just my word against his since my friend is dead.

What state do you live in? Also now that you have made this post, I would suggest not doing anything illegal as you might just end up ruining your own life. You could sue the shit out of him and thus drag his name through the mud making his final years stressful and impoverished. Know anyone who can corroborate your accusation? Have any solid evidence that would hold up in court?

Pedophiles commit the most horrific acts known to man on the most vulnerable of all....Children. Truly they are societies worst.

Last February i found out the true identity of my Abuser. I'll sum this up in short.

My Friend and i were abused and raped by the same Scumbag when we were 8. I moved away and in 2015 i looked on Facebook to find my friend. I found a person with the same name and viewed his profile. His picture was that of my friend or so i thought. I reached out with a msg. I looked at his friends list and found the wife of my friend and sent her a msg. No replies.

Fast forward to 2019 I again reached out to my friends wife and sent a msg. She finally replied. I explained to her who i was and what had happened. We spoke for hours on the phone. Through our conversation i had found out that my friend was never able to break away from our abuser and he fed him Alcohol and drugs throughout the years in exchange for sex until my friend died at the abusers house.

My friends wife tried to break the two apart unknowing about the history of what this monster did to us. She gave me his nae Address and telephone number.

I was enraged and shaking knowing i had the power to end his life and it would be easy at his age of 82.
I filed a Police report and because of statue of limitations there is nothing the police can do.

So i ask you this....How can i ruin his life? How can i bring this Vile creature to his knees?

Ideas?