Topic: Let just be contented. (Read 165 times)

Greed is one of the major problem most people are having, always wanting for more, I no that so long as life is concerned the need for more things will arise but the with the extent people are going about it is too much especially the ladies.

Just like you said, e get one girl way them kick budget this week for my area by those Yahoo boys way won make money by all means, so similar case like this they always happen to young ladies because of not being contented with the small way them get instead them go they look for other ways to take cash out.

The annoying part of it be say no matter all this things way they happen to young ladies now, majority of them still they find guys way get money well well before them go date and na waiting make them they always kick budget, so the better they realize the need to be contented the better for them.

Any individual is ready to do anything to get hold of these cash should thoroughly take a nap and choose among sets of alternatives, the one that's most appropriate to him, then he can make his choice. This country is getting harder in every single day that passes. There's alot to learn and adapt to in this new government, the price of everything keeps increasing in value, but President Ahmed Tinubu assured Nigerians that the good development and stability of the country is going to be restored back, all what Nigerians do is anticipating in different hustles, both legal and illegal.

You know say we come frm different background,so our reasoning and way of life different na the way wey our Papa n Mama bring us up na him matter pass. Some children go dey do bad bad things , like take wetin dem no give am ,oppress him younger once from small e.t.c dem parents no dey talk or even correct dem,so wetin you expect frm dem wen dem big.
The things wey dey cause dis lack of contented na
 * Long throat: we nor like and satisfied with wetin we get or our family get,we want get other people own
 * Bad bele: wen e dey pain you for eye for wetin person get or success,as e dey pain u,your life no go beta now.
 * Show off: wen you wan tell or show people say you be wetin you no be or get wetin you no get
Aside from this some parents no dey tell their children the truth say no be everything dem need dem go get and say to dey wan get everything wey dem eye see na bad thing all dis bad characters dey follow the pikin grow ,wey dey come affect our society. So I dey beg parents and guidances make we train our children well, no be family juju or bad bele people dey do us ,na we dey do ourselves.

The guy does not see the girl as his girlfriend, in sees the girl as a target to use make money. The guy in question just makes the girl's mind dey by celebrating her birthday for am. Truth be told some girls don't hear something once they know say a guy dey use iPhone and in dey dress well they no want know-how that guy use get the money. Another thing way make girls fall for all these kind things be say once a guy comes to ask for friendship they go first weigh things way you wear for body if e no follow them go reject. Na in make if I see this kind of news I no dey too feel am because our girls no dey try.

For our boys way dey plan to go do Yahoo because say the peer pressure too much, make una know say Yahoo Yahoo no easy unless say you go get an agreement with the devil through a native doctor, and na 3 things go happen to you if you get an agreement with the devil for money which are
1. when you reach your future you no get money again because the devil has pushed the money way you
supposed to get for the future come your present
2. Is either you die early and you no go see that your future
3. And when you die nobody go know for your family say you get an agreement with devil way you dey performed task any time you cash out, and if nobody dey perform that task for your family the devil go start to kill people of your family because you done break the covenant.
Make we dey always wait on God's time for anything way we dey do.

If not for the pain of loosing lives, we get a tolerable word say " Sometin most kill a man" bcos on 1 or 2 ways person go die.
No be only my the ritualism system way BFs dey take off their GFs lives but also on the reasons for jealousy, secrecy interests protections, uncontrollably high tempered and greeds.

Let's get things right on a scenero like this please. Losing the aid being contented is not a stake to lost of life. We deviates from our formal beings at times and so we also makes change of choices at times and that does not mean is a call to lost of lives.

The lady's life was taken as a caused of meeting an evil man not because she was not contented of the other guy

Who knows if the rich (yahoo) Bf who took her life started with the tails of killing his GFs? This could mean that he was poor before he engaged on the ritual being meaning the poor can also kill.

Not only the riches that kills neither the poors but the evil ones

I waka jam the post for Twitter yesterday night and I dey think of making post about it. As I visit the board this morning I con see the post already for our board. My brother forget this thing wey you dey talk. Yes, I know say some parents dey pressure dem pikin but no parents ask you to go kill person or engage in any fraud. As the OP put am, na so e be. Na just lack of contentment together with greed dey push dem into this. No be parents pressure. To justify am, Some of them dey even leave house after it work for them so nobody go disturb them. If na parents pressure, dem go stay back to care for the parents.

One thing with this our generation be say we are in haste to make money while we know that we no fit rush time until it reach your turn. Imagine someone in his early or mid 20s thinking about driving the latest car. Why you no go do ritual when you dey think of wetin pass your brain. The comparison wey parents dey do na to make you no lose guard and become lazy. When the pressure is too much, please think of anything positive to change the story.

The important thing to note is that, the day you plant the seed is not the day you eat the fruit. The process na gradual and you no need frustrate yourself to bypass the process. The only time wey I go blame the parents na when dem see pikin with suspicious things and dem turn blind eyes without investigating.

This is a major problem in our society that needs proper attention. People are becoming too ambitious and this is driving many to crime and things they never planned to do. I don't know where we got it wrong but the competition is not just necessary. 

I think some parents are not also helping matters. They easily compare us to our mates, especially those doing well, thereby putting us to unnecessary pressures.

We've got to change our mindset about material possessions.  We can be happy with what we have because true happiness is not measured by material possessions,  but how contented we are with what we have.

Crime don tay with human being and na so old people dey comot from am, new people dey learn how to thief both with biro or yahoo yahoo. New people go still fall inside the trap wey dem set but the twist about yahoo yahoo now na this killing of human beings wey dem don dey call Yahoo plus.

Anyway, Na mber month wey we dey and so many guys no want carry last. Make girls open their eyes because no be every guy wey you see wey you suppose follow but the thing self be say girls no go hear and dem say na fly wey no dey hear word dey follow dead body enter grave.

I think the situation is beyond contentment and goes further to involve some mental problems,  because a lot of time,  we can't just build any sense around this when a person will believe that he can make money from fetish involvement of humans or other animals as rituals,  any ways this is not new in Africa and is a barbaric practice.

The fact that those guys failed to understand is that,  why do how can you kill a human being just because you want to get money to buy thing that another man created without killing anyone,  the white guys who developed the iPhones and the Benzfhat these guys kill people because of,  did not share any blood in creating and developing those things how then will you want to kill someone to get those things.

My brother me again they feel well well  for the family of that innocent young girl. How person go see e follow human being, put mind for back pieces person without sympathy. Oh when I see that video my blood they hot if you say ah jam that guy near me. Nah so so all these influencers they use person wey die they catch cruise or use am they get clout for the internet. E be like they no get respect for tue dead. How person go say nah the girl fault how the poor girl go take know say that guy go do that kind thing.

This matter nah strong matter o. That guy should rot in jail. Imagine I send my pikin go school to go learn nah him person go slaughter say she be fish or nah meat con Dey even lie say him come back con see her like that 😞like what are you even saying ,you and person sleep for the same house una even chop that night together you say you no they around, oga where did you go to way girl way you keep for house die . The guy for kuku chop the body nah. If there will be a new policy that anybody that commits this kind of act should be given jungle justice seems it is the only way that people can learn. Nothing is hidden under the sun and any body doing all kind of evil acts one day they must be exposed.

Greed has always been a problem of the human race.  If not,  check the age of that young man, if not for greed and social pressure, tell why he will be so eager to kill his girlfriend for money rituals. Who does he wants to impress, who does it want to show off for. I believe it's just to come up on social media and show his assets to feel important about his peers.
There is need to do a lot of national reorientation of our youths, for them to understand that, there is more to life than materialism.

First, I'll blame our society for all these tins that have been happening and which will keep on happening till the society change the mentality and the glory we have endowed on those that have successfully taken up these acts of rituals and frauds. Why everyone is shouting and talking about this very one is because the young man was caught and that's why it looks as if it's happening for the first time while it's been happening but because we didn't catch them and when they come in public with their luxurious cars, accessories and oppression lifestyle we turn out to envy them knowing fully that those things were gotten from a fraudulent and ritualist means but because they were not caught when they were doing it it doesn't matter to us anymore, we don't ask questions about the source of their riches. Any one that attempt to ask is tagged as enemy of progress.

The society is to be blame in all of this, young women have been made to believe that they don't have to hustle for their own money, they now live with self entitlement mentality that another has to work hard for them to eat and live a comfortable lifestyle. The hustling guy on the street is regarded as one with no bright future,  too expectations has been laid on the boy child so now those that have lost their conscience and humanity are now doing the unthinkable to live the rich life as society expects of them. How sad we all know the truth but pretend not to.

I nor really like this talk sha, I mean wetin you just write. Contentment does not mean that you should be okay and satisfied with the position you have in life, It just means that you should be grateful with were you are while you try to achieve more and move to the next level in life. If you feel say contentment mean say make you just dey where you dey for life, na so you go remain without growing, and nor be so life suppose dey normally. For this life, person suppose dey move from level to another.

Na dis morning I come through dis news and I really no lyk wetin happen for there. Tinz dey happen for dis country wey we dey o, the hustle for money and sustenance have made dem transgress and involve dem sef in illegal activities. Just imagine now, which kind money dis guy dey look for wey go make am take d life of anoda person. Not just anoda person but d person wey him dey call him girlfriend. Dat means dis guy fit go any length to make money and him no mind to take d life of even him closest person, either family or friends. Dis kind matter na to just gbe d guy, make e serve as lesson for odas wey dey into am. Even d girls wey dey fall victims of all dis kind acts na people wey no dey ungrateful and wan look for oda means of getting money without dem showing appreciation of d one wey dem get for hand now.

I hate when situation happens like this and every one is putting blame on the victim rather than the criminal. December don reach so everyone is hustling for their December funds, and this season dirty things dey happen. Fraud, organ harvesters, ritualist na this season them dey operate most, just because you see your mate buying car building house you con decide to join the big boys trend and na illegal way.
The only thing wey I fit blame the victim be say, you're dating a guy he has money, latest phone come he buy latest hair come he buy and you couldn't find the source of the wealth, nawa. But sometimes sef girls them too do, as this thing happen so girls still dey find ritualist, to date to show that no lesson learnt. I dey feel say na the pressure wey girls dey give boys and the attitude wey broke boys dey receive wan make them dey do all this evil act.
The thing be say make everybody dey careful, because girls too can do this evil act no be only boys o the world don turn to something else wey human go gather dirty mind.

The problem is that after all these sad stories of yahoo boys using their girlfriend for rituals most girls still prefer yahoo boys to other guys that makes legit money without soiling their hands. Girls this days are after money and material things that they can achieve from a guy rather than building a serious relationship that can possibly lead to marriage. It is very sad how we keep on hearing nasty stories of this nature almost everyday.

Some girls are even the ones that makes some guys to get involved in this wicked acts because they ain't contented with the little they get from their struggling boyfriend. They compare their boyfriend to other guys that lavish and spend money extravagantly on their girlfriend without knowing the source of their wealth or income, most of them boldly even prefer yahoo boys because they feel they are the people that can meet all their needs without thinking about the outcome of their decisions. Now in the quest for their struggling boyfriend to meet up their demands, they will start involving in criminal and fraudulent crimes just to meet up the demands of their girlfriend. Until we accept and cherish the little we have and hope for a better future, such stories of these nature might still keep on reoccurring.

Everyone deserves the best of life, but not when we are making a forcefully attempts in achieving what we are not due for, everyone has his own time and season, we can chiose what we want, but all we need is patience while passing through the curdles of life, but when we are too eager or desperate about life, we may ended being under the conditions we least expect to happen, we have our own role to play, especially in some ugly circumstances, we can determine that we are not going to let down our struggles out of it.

If you look into the case of the young lady you made mention about, there have been alot of girls like that who couldn't wait patiently for their right partner, instead they try to go for where they feels there's money enough to carter for their needs without knowing the source, why should a lady have the mentality of not being responsible for herself, sit down and think, find a job to do and be successful in life than depending on a man for their sustainability in life.

Na dat one be d major cause of all dis yahoo and ritualist matter wey dey sub for we country. No body dey content with watin Dem get. D country no dey give anybody watin Dem dey expect to get so na e make am cast Wella. Back in d days, wen we dey hear about dis yahoo stuff, na older men, na Dem dey run all these stuff. But these days small small boys Dem wan dey drive big cars, carry woman and do watin their papa no do for life. All dis put together na e dey cause all this nonsense. I go also blame some parents wey don push their sons into yahoo and their daughter into prostitution all in d name say Dem wan be like their neighbor.

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E go good make we as a human beings always dey contented with watin we get, like we all already know say, all fingers no dey equal, so I believe say everybody no go dey the same.
I go like share small about a young beautiful girl way just kick bucket just because say she live her broke boy friend go date one Yahoo boy for their area and finally finally the yahoo boy con use her for money ritual, e dey pain me well well, but watin done happen done happen.
Some youths both boys and girls them done dey do things way no dey good and some of this things nah fraud, ritualist and those things no good.
   Why e no good be say

• fraud

: this fraud matter done make so many people go broke, both for Nigeria here and outside Nigeria, many people done give up their life just because some group of fraudsters done scam them collect all their money and most of those pipo way them scam done think as say nothing they for them to live for as e be say all their hustle for life done go.

• Ritualist

: this one nah one of the most dangerous thing way somebody go put em hands into, why? Nah because say devil no dey give small without say em collect big from the person way want em favor, some ritualist go way to far just to get this money and e dey cost them either their parents or any of their family members, some dey even use their manhood, children or even their friends just like the way this guy here use em girlfriend.
So make we just dey careful, already Christmas done dey reach and everybody bother the pipo way their hand dey clean and pipo way their hands dey dirty done dey fine ways to make money.[/list]