Limitation curse due to over dependant

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Quote from: Berry2d on May 27, 2024, 05:27:55 PM

Being over dependent is really bad. Over depending on someone is just like putting all your trust on someone. To me, I think is only a lazy man that will be over dependent over a certain things or on his fellow human being. Being over dependent can make you not to see opportunities that are around you. It can cause you to be blind over good and great ideas that people may share with you. The worst part of it all is that, when the disappointment comes it totally breaks you down and turn you to a weak person. And if time is not taking, you can never be on your right sense to put things right because at that moment you see that source as your only hope of making it in life.

You deeply understand that point I am passing message through my eyes witness , the level of depression experience by this neighbors enrose sympathy because virtually all hope was lost for him and it seems the road has ended , many people has lost it not just that facts that every one can't be on one position but utilizing the given opportunity to do something within your reach is very important why expecting the help but to relaxed and focus on what come from family resourceful man is what I am not really or will to support. The point to which you made is not to argue with, all highlighted facts is addictive to the direction of my post.

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Being over dependent is really bad. Over depending on someone is just like putting all your trust on someone. To me, I think is only a lazy man that will be over dependent over a certain things or on his fellow human being. Being over dependent can make you not to see opportunities that are around you. It can cause you to be blind over good and great ideas that people may share with you. The worst part of it all is that, when the disappointment comes it totally breaks you down and turn you to a weak person. And if time is not taking, you can never be on your right sense to put things right because at that moment you see that source as your only hope of making it in life.

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I understand what you are saying and this dependency on a successful family member have render the brothers and others who depends on him because when eventually anything happens to the man those depending on him suffers the most that is why instead of accepting gifts and money from someone who is successful it is better to request for a job or a skill acquisition from such person instead of depending on them for financial help all the time. A lot of family members become so lazy when one of their brothers is wealthy or has traveled abroad which is very bad.

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Quote from: Justbillywitt on December 26, 2023, 03:12:20 AM

My brother God cannot bless everyone in the family at the same time and the reason God bless one member of the family above others is that the person will be a shinning light and a ladder for others to climb and reach their height in life. It is not bad to depend on your brother who is well do to bail you out. But your bailing out shouldn't just be for food and drinks alone. You should position your self very well so that your brother can establish you you on something that can sustain you for life. You can ask your brother to give you money to start your business or money to learn a solid hand work. Ask him to send you abroad to hustle that way if you know your brother is the type the can give and is willing to see you grow. You have to sho some level of maturity and sense of responsibility so that he will see you as someone who can handle big things.

Normally god can not bless everybody at a time in the family, yes is true, but one thing wey dey always draw most families back today na lack of planning from the person wey get money for the family because as a person wey no say na only you get money for your family you suppose dey calculative find better work give your brothers and sisters, so that Incase if anything happens to you tomorrow your family members no fit surfer again.

Because e get one man for my place in be Total Staff in dey off sure na only him get money for the family na so this man no fit provide better work for in family members when month end in go send money for them and they where living very large everybody in family dey depend on him reaching one dey in come visit in family members on their going back he had accident and died, today na things dey very difficult for him family members do to lack of planning.

Of a Truth it's not possible everyone one Will be in the same level in the family God bless everyone as his not partial in his dealing with mankind, the issue here is planning and putting to work with your hard as what you depends on your fellow human despite being your biological relationship may not be certain and even it you receive it may not be at the time you needed it most. There is nothing wrong in depending on who God has blessed great in the family the worst come when you can't do your part but only depends on the source as only way if survival.

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Quote from: Manny@11111 on December 27, 2023, 02:40:05 AM

Is not always good for an able man to depend on family member. If you come from an affluent family then leverage on their connections to stand on your own as is always good to know how to kill a fish than to be handed over to you. If your affluent family decided not to help you then help yourself to survive as there is dignity in it, thats where respect comes from.

A man that's lazy and depended on family will have no single regards from his family members and most of them ensure to make good use of insults towards the mature ones without good paying jobs. I rather choose to be working with good paying than relaxd in just a spot. Independent man brings a whole lot of respect from the family and if you check well, any man that's Independent is always hardworking and will always brings food to the table.

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Quote from: Justbillywitt on December 26, 2023, 03:12:20 AM

My brother God cannot bless everyone in the family at the same time and the reason God bless one member of the family above others is that the person will be a shinning light and a ladder for others to climb and reach their height in life. It is not bad to depend on your brother who is well do to bail you out. But your bailing out shouldn't just be for food and drinks alone. You should position your self very well so that your brother can establish you you on something that can sustain you for life. You can ask your brother to give you money to start your business or money to learn a solid hand work. Ask him to send you abroad to hustle that way if you know your brother is the type the can give and is willing to see you grow. You have to sho some level of maturity and sense of responsibility so that he will see you as someone who can handle big things.

Normally god can not bless everybody at a time in the family, yes is true, but one thing wey dey always draw most families back today na lack of planning from the person wey get money for the family because as a person wey no say na only you get money for your family you suppose dey calculative find better work give your brothers and sisters, so that Incase if anything happens to you tomorrow your family members no fit surfer again.

Because e get one man for my place in be Total Staff in dey off sure na only him get money for the family na so this man no fit provide better work for in family members when month end in go send money for them and they where living very large everybody in family dey depend on him reaching one dey in come visit in family members on their going back he had accident and died, today na things dey very difficult for him family members do to lack of planning.

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Quote from: Justbillywitt on December 26, 2023, 03:12:20 AM

My brother God cannot bless everyone in the family at the same time and the reason God bless one member of the family above others is that the person will be a shinning light and a ladder for others to climb and reach their height in life. It is not bad to depend on your brother who is well do to bail you out. But your bailing out shouldn't just be for food and drinks alone. You should position your self very well so that your brother can establish you you on something that can sustain you for life. You can ask your brother to give you money to start your business or money to learn a solid hand work. Ask him to send you abroad to hustle that way if you know your brother is the type the can give and is willing to see you grow. You have to sho some level of maturity and sense of responsibility so that he will see you as someone who can handle big things.

Everything wey u just talk na true but in some cases over depending dey really cause see finish. So the important thing be say we need to dey handwriting mk we think say as dem don help before, say dem go still help again, make we no take much advantage of something, if person help us, mk we no abuse am because those kind thing dey bring insult and people go dey underrate u and also being too depending dey make person lazy because say u dey always see if u ask, dat thing dey really draw person backward for life. So make we try make use of ourselves positively to us and to the society at large.

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Is not always good for an able man to depend on family member. If you come from an affluent family then leverage on their connections to stand on your own as is always good to know how to kill a fish than to be handed over to you. If your affluent family decided not to help you then help yourself to survive as there is dignity in it, thats where respect comes from.

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Quote from: Uhwuchukwu53 on December 26, 2023, 01:22:14 AM

The curse of many failure is over dependant on successful family member I observed this I said let me bring to the table for more discussion close neighbor who brother always render help both on festival season and others days was fully hoping to receive gift from the same person as usual on this Christmas but the hope failed him I saw him murmur and so sad I asked what happened due to closeness he open up from the things he outline I come to discover he didn't plan when he have opportunity all his mind was things remain constant that changes will not be immediately but unexpectedly it comes leaving him begging to survive my concern is should one wait till become victim of circumstance before he learn or take from others occurance in relation to our work on bitcoin I know is platform that is professionally manage by business taccum ,sound investors, best market analysts etc, as one who operate on this area do you think enjoying all you got here without plan is good idea won't a day of regret come such one I witness crying discuss.

depending on anyone at to solving your financial needs at this stage of life will put you in serious disadvantage.

You've got to understand that life is a personal race and no one owes you a dime in terms of providing shit for you and so if you for any reason they decide to do so at any point in time, you should never feel entitled to it.

Some of these our supposed rich relative before even coming back to the village already know those ones that will always ask them for money and don't have respect for them, the least you can do for yourself is to respect yourself and find something reasonable you can do to support yourself financially.

Them swr make you no de give others money?

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Quote from: Uhwuchukwu53 on December 26, 2023, 01:22:14 AM

The curse of many failure is over dependant on successful family member I observed this I said let me bring to the table for more discussion close neighbor who brother always render help both on festival season and others days was fully hoping to receive gift from the same person as usual on this Christmas but the hope failed him

That I s why e no good to be dependent on people for survival or hoping on something wey you never see because that thing dey cause emotional trauma or unnecessary anger. Say person dey help you no mean say na im responsibilities. Some people dey ignorantly blind not to understand the difference between help and duty. Like some people do to the help there uncle or aunty dey help them, them come dey see am as na there priority and if dem no help them e go be like say them no love them. That's why it is good to work hard to meet up some certain things, so that if you dey request for help, make e be say na addition to the money you don make rather than to come dey hope to get everything from one person and that na laziness in the highest order.

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One thing that always kill our people is "too much alternatives" see this thing can kill person when you have too much alternatives you don't mind waste some good opportunities that may come to you but because you had 3 brother or Uncle's who will help you decided not to gear up your hustle thinking that Obi will always remain a boy. See to me I don't even give attention to such people if they are not making efforts to stop depending on their relative or in-laws to sustain, most men even goes to the worst than depending on their inlaws it could be their sister's husband or their first daughter husband to send money to sustain the family till when?

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Quote from: Uhwuchukwu53 on December 26, 2023, 01:22:14 AM

The curse of many failure is over dependant on successful family member I observed this I said let me bring to the table for more discussion close neighbor who brother always render help both on festival season and others days was fully hoping to receive gift from the same person as usual on this Christmas but the hope failed him I saw him murmur and so sad I asked what happened due to closeness he open up from the things he outline I come to discover he didn't plan when he have opportunity all his mind was things remain constant that changes will not be immediately but unexpectedly it comes leaving him begging to survive my concern is should one wait till become victim of circumstance before he learn or take from others occurance in relation to our work on bitcoin I know is platform that is professionally manage by business taccum ,sound investors, best market analysts etc, as one who operate on this area do you think enjoying all you got here without plan is good idea won't a day of regret come such one I witness crying discuss.

With the present situation of the country, depending on any family member bring failure to such person. The family members may be rich but also have numerous things to settle

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My brother God cannot bless everyone in the family at the same time and the reason God bless one member of the family above others is that the person will be a shinning light and a ladder for others to climb and reach their height in life. It is not bad to depend on your brother who is well do to bail you out. But your bailing out shouldn't just be for food and drinks alone. You should position your self very well so that your brother can establish you you on something that can sustain you for life. You can ask your brother to give you money to start your business or money to learn a solid hand work. Ask him to send you abroad to hustle that way if you know your brother is the type the can give and is willing to see you grow. You have to sho some level of maturity and sense of responsibility so that he will see you as someone who can handle big things.

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Please next time try to make it easier for your audience, so we can understand what you are trying to say, try to utilize full stop and others please.
If I got you right, you are talking about being dependent on a successful family members, and how wrong it is.
As an adult male, being dependent on someone for survival or some other things is totally wrong, fine circumstances can reduce a man to a level he never expected which might make him to depend on someone for something, but it is very wrong to depend on someone everytime.

Just as we are in the festive season someone will refuse to buy rice, believing that one of his or her successful relationship will buy it for him, when he got disappointed he will start painting that person black, how evil and wicked the person is, but he or she has forgot all of a sudden what the person did in the past, just one disappointment the person have became evil all of a sudden.
People that mostly do that are those set of people that have entitlement mentality, once you are from the same family with them, then you are doing well, automatically you are owing them, it sounds funny but that's what it is.

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The curse of many failure is over dependant on successful family member I observed this I said let me bring to the table for more discussion close neighbor who brother always render help both on festival season and others days was fully hoping to receive gift from the same person as usual on this Christmas but the hope failed him I saw him murmur and so sad I asked what happened due to closeness he open up from the things he outline I come to discover he didn't plan when he have opportunity all his mind was things remain constant that changes will not be immediately but unexpectedly it comes leaving him begging to survive my concern is should one wait till become victim of circumstance before he learn or take from others occurance in relation to our work on bitcoin I know is platform that is professionally manage by business taccum ,sound investors, best market analysts etc, as one who operate on this area do you think enjoying all you got here without plan is good idea won't a day of regret come such one I witness crying discuss.

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