I'm more or less in the same boat, I haven't used LN as much as I would have liked lately, and that's mostly because the services I use don't accept it. The one major change (for me) is that BlueWallet stopped offering custodial LN. This was one of my favourite wallets.
There are now more exchanges that accept LN, but I haven't used them yet (I don't need an exchange to use LN).
I'm also in the same situation. But in their blog, BlueWallet suggested to use PhoenixWallet for LN transactions as a replacement. So perhaps try that.
Personally, I have the app downloaded but I don't have the time to use it yet. 90% of my Lightning usage is making a deposit to BetPlay.io to play Craps. No time for losing my precious coins now, the price is going up. Hahaha.