So it is funny, because talk about this - illegal, but do this - is okay
You are wrong on so many levels here it is alarming, to say the least; There is no evidence whatsoever that 90% of ICO projects do this illegal service which you are proposing. You cannot just make things up and proclaim them as fact, because you assume everybody to be as underhanded as yourself. If you have evidence of specific or individual ICO projects doing what we are talking about then by all means show your evidence, call them out and action will be taken swiftly against them.
My assumption is that you can not produce a single instance of another current ICO project doing this, or even a past ICO project that was operating this way and the community knowingly allowed for it.
I'll tell you what is really funny, the fact that you are given an opportunity to explain yourself, correct your path and acknowledge your short-comings on this topic and still you spit in the face of yahoo, a respected member. You need to examine your behavior, because your ICO will be shut down, you will be tagged with negative trust for your actions and you will in all likelihood become barred from using this forum in any capacity.
Talking about it is okay, so long as you are denouncing it or exposing it; requesting it and performing it is what is not okay.