The pain of losing a loved one is inestimable. I have read and seen heartbreaking stories and pictures of Ukrainians in great pains and agony due to this war. I would have also loved to research about Russian losses because families are also grieving in Russia but it is difficult to find. Many families might never recover from these great losses. It has been reported that almost all Ukrainian have lost a loved one in the course of Russian invasion. My heroes today are those that have lost anyone because of this avoidable war.
I'm struggling to figure out how that would possibly qualify one as a 'hero'. Much more likely it qualifies one as a chump who believed the fake new mainstream media and didn't take the time to understand politics.
The only slightly positive aspect of this thing is that the people who 'voted' for a coke-fiend Jewish actor are distinctly on the lose end of things.
Of course you are struggling to figure out. How would you ever understand the concept of others fighting for their freedom. Even if they wanted to choose a Bulgarian Drag-queen with a missing leg it would be their own choice, not something imposed by a tyrant too old to care about anything other that "his place in history".
What is clear is what is not a hero: any of the army of Orcs that invade and kill outside their homeland just to earn their meagre pay, the crumbs from the table of the cleptocrats ruling their lives.