Hope you understand now a little better, but i realy advice you to search a german "Steuerberater" as a Specialist for such things. Maybe some of our German Trader can offer you a contact to some who has experience in Bitcoinbusiness. Candoo, 2weix, yxt, Akka or others who have the same tax-problems like you.
PS: i hope my english is not to rusty for understanding, its now over 10 years i dont need it for work anymore.
No I only mistreat other languages manually without Google Translate. You should see my French.
Yes, most likely I will have to talk to a German steuerberater. Hearsay doen´t work. I just hoped that someone here might know of some official statement that would prove the München Steueramt to be wrong. In that case I could spend the Honorar-money on something more amusing
Your Question was wrong, you ask for: is it money or service? So the financial officer make a short statement...its not money so its service. It was your bad formated question that lead to this.
If you make Service and take fee, you have to put 19% VAT on it and only on the Fee you take, not on the transfer Money. And of cource you have to pay tax, but as you are sitting in sweden, i am not sure where you have to send your tax. Afaik tax is given to the country where you make the money. So you need a german TAX-Number.
In my opinion, you should take a Tax Consultant(Steuerberater) as this is far over my knowledge how to handle international Tax. I am Engineer, not Advocate. I dont think you have to pay more then 200Euro for a Consultant Statement to clear up everything.
To answer your Question: Munich is wrong with his Opinion. But only if you declare correct what you are doing. Up to your Question his answer was right. It was the wrong question. Tell them you are just a agency who bring buyer and seller together and collect a fee for that...like Ebay. And the ask: how have i to declare VAT or TAX..give me some hints or information please....
Now he need to think himself and explain to YOU what kind of business he think this is. Then you can complain against his definition. Hope you got now the infos you need. Still i think, you better invest the Money in some specialist.
Good luck, i'm going to TV now.