i find it odd that you see fee market pressure as the only way to grow fees pre block
wouldn't it be logical that adding more space to blocks will allow for more TX to be included on each, which will net more fees in total
many small fees Vs few large fees.
Yeah it will allow more transactions and therefore more fees, but there is no guarantee that this endless growth in transactions will happen. A fee market protects proof of work security whether or not this expected growth happens.
That goes for "cheap" transactions too. Relay improvements are in the works, and hopefully as orphan rates improve, incentives to mine full blocks do as well. Bigger blocks certainly don't incentivize miners who are already SPV mining to stop mining empty blocks, either.
Actually it's generally done to minimize idle hash power during the time spent downloading and validating the previous block. The argument that dead pool miners make is that they help validating pools reduce orphans by quickly confirming their blocks with empty SPV-mined blocks. Respected pool admins like Kano say that optimized miner code and hardware makes any gains from SPV mining negligible. SPV miners should be optimizing their mining setups to mine full blocks -- and higher fees vs. subsidy is incentive for them to do that. But for now, fees are simply too low to matter to much of the mining network.
"Reducing" shows lack of perspective here. We could also endlessly increase capacity on main chain to make sure everyone's transactions are always free, but where would that get us? We need to find some compromise that does guarantee fees to miners (and it cannot stray too far from real validation/relay and ideally UTXO costs otherwise centralization pressures on nodes and smaller miners become problematic)
I think we should all accept that any major changes = trade-offs between growth and security. But you must leave time for us to minimize those security losses. It cannot just be "growth growth growth adoption adoption adoption new users want free instant transactions!!!" all the time.