Topic: money before Romance (Read 580 times)

it's important to note that relationships and romance are also significant aspects of many people's lives. Love, companionship, emotional connection, and personal fulfillment are important factors that contribute to overall happiness and well-being.

Of course we have to earn money first then our life relationship the relationship we have in our life wife or wife we ​​know about our life we ​​have relatives we have girlfriend we have relationship people we have close people first of all we have to spend time with them.  The condition is we have to make money because until you make money you have no value to anyone so first of all you have to make money.

Not sure if you can find true love just by having money because Love is not being developed because there is cash on the table but instead true love is given to whom is deserving .
why not make money together with your love one? i mean start a business together , work together and grow old together.

Yes of corse, making money is the first thing one must do once he starts growing up, after making your personality and character, and that we can't discuss about it because it's fundamental, especially when you compare it with romance, romance always comes after money, nowadays, even girls like the guy who hzs a good personality and of course makes his own future and his own money,so yeah money before romance.

Absolutely, the money we earn should be kept for ourselves, and don't spend $20K on wedding rings even if we can afford to. Use the hard earned money wisely and make it as some kind of revenue source that can generate something instead of just sitting in your bank accounts. We may found the person that we want to marry but they want the equality so just keep what you earn for yourself and she will do the same eventually and you have to give your 50% if the marriage is broken and she doesn't have to.

In this society if you have money you will get everything before that you have to love yourself. There is no point in earning money for others. Only one thing should be kept in our mind that being by side will be there even if there is money it will be there even if there is no money. It is possible to find many loving people if you improve yourself. Instead of blaming others change your condition and lifestyle will be better.

Right?? Think about it, you should not have money for other people, you should have miney for yourself first. When you finally found that one person you’ll marry, you’ll eventually decided to earn more right? That person either stays at your side until you thrive or leave you when youre at your lowest.  Either way, you should earn money for yourself first.

For me they comes together , because like me? My wife is  my power and my manager if she's not with me ? i don't know who nand where am I now.

she keeps supporting me and advising me everything that needs to be addressed.
she even keep me company when I need to face problems , I must admit that I am a weak person before I met her but now I am stronger than a Bull because of her being with me, so for me ? it is romance before the money.

Some times we cannot blame men because it is some women that shows themselves to be not
to respected , the way they Dress , the way they act , the way they talk and sometimes they even lure men to
go on them but even those said? yet we must show respect for women thinking they are somewhat our mother,
sister or even daughter .

Balance and moderation tend to be healthiest. Focus early on education, skills, responsible saving, and advancing professionally to a baseline level able to support yourself and ideally a family someday. But also make space for dating, falling in love, adventures with partners, and the joy & growth such romances can catalyze.

The ambition shouldn't be needing money before feeling able to open your heart to someone else. But responsible maturity would say don't neglect all financial common sense either. With some wisdom, both money and romance can harmoniously fit into a well-lived life without forcing an either/or choice.

You really need money before entering into a relationship because the person you marry will be miserable if you don't have money and you will be a burden to her.
"the world will treat you like a big fool! if you don't have money" this is true, people you know will laugh at you, so money is really important.

There are also things that money cannot buy even if it is invincible and that is the love of a person. There are many people there who are rich but not happy because they know in themselves that they are only after money.

Money is honey. In my opinion without money men is nothing in front of his family and love. Because in our society people respect a person with his money. At the stage love say nothing is needed if you stay when time spend love again says you are nothing without money. So, earn money a lot love family romance everything come their own.

"No money No honey"

True love, made for each other is just bullshit in the current era, you will end up dying alone if you are stuck with your mediocre lifestyle.

Women love the man who is successful and this world sees who makes money as a successful man.

Gaining knowledge should be the priority, and money will naturally follow. With knowledge, it becomes easier to identify and steer clear of individuals who are only after money in a relationship.

If you have Money surely you will have Honey , even what kind of person you are even if you have the ugliest face , for sure you will be the most handsome of them all when you have million in your pocket .
that how Money makes the world go round now so expect more women will line up in your front when there is a lot of money involved.
so expect that mate and yes you are correct in Money Making first before Honey making , Romance is just there but money can get away if you do not keep it holding.

I know that in these modern days, many guys always objectify as if they're easily bought and compared.

But let's just be the better person and men and let's not be like those people because, if you have a mother which is for sure and you won't be born on this world without her.

A girl sibling and other women relatives, then you understand what I am saying.

But we can also have them the same ? marrying a Rich Man/woman will bring you both , you will have money and
 of course combined with Honey .I know it is hard  to find one but there are others that luckily marrying a millionaire and yes they end up
 getting those 2 together.while I am not agreed in taking advantage of people's weakness but i know for a fact that sometimes Love conquers
 all and yes two different status in life that making their way to happy married life.because love knows NO BOUNDARIES .
You have a point there mate , and yes never materialized women because they are not an object.

Money, women and romance are three different things. Why is it like we're materializing women into like this and it's always about money and women?

Honestly, I have seen women that are for the money of the guy and those that are pure in heart and don't really are in the riches of the guy.

But reality, when they go along together, it is going to be one of the reasons for their fight. Not going to that point yet, as start and courtship, it really impresses women when you've got a lot of it and you're financially free.

No romance before money because first of all need money than thinking romance.

Definitely money before Romans. If you are a lover of women, it is inportant you focus on money than women. Women are always there to bring you down although not all. what most of them need is for you to spend all you have, but don't want to add any value to your life. A man that want to succeed, should totally avoid women in other to achieve your dreams. Majority of men that succeeded, achieved it by avoiding women. There is a saying that "honey is money" if you don't have money your wife can't even treat you as she used to when you got married newly, talk more of girlfriend.

I will be for money , Romance can be taken when you have lot of money.

but you cannot find money  even how many Romance you have.

I think money shouldn't be used as a yardstick to determine the urge or love you have for a lover or partner. It is very surprising how a lot of people more especially the female gender considers people that gives them lots of cash as what qualifies a man's love for them.

Money of a truth can bring happiness to lovers or partner but it can not guarantee that the love they both have for each other is gonna last long.

In as much as money is essential in every relationship, it is also to be noted that sometimes the money may be there but that doesn't justify true love.

Most times I blame the male gender because they have benefits the major pioneer of making women feel that the amount of money a man gives them determine their love for them. Men use money as an exchange for sexual satisfaction and alot of ladies have now been with the narrative that before they get sexually attached to a man that money must be involved. A lot of men uses money to persuade women to love them but they forget to understand that the love may diminish if the money is not forth coming again.

Show just enough money to make a woman feel secure about you.

Showing too much money will bring in the leeches among women.

The goal should be to find a woman for a family. When one comes along who seems to be good, date her for a year before marriage... a year to make sure she is really the one. No sex until after marriage... with any woman.

When you know that you can trust her to be there for YOU rather than your money, gradually reveal the additional moneys you might have.

If you own a lot of money, women will follow you. He who has a lot of money is certainly romantic and he is a lover of women, but he is busy investing most of the time and that is what we should do, because we have to make good use of our investment time only then our future will be good.

Jabut, you will probably wind up like this guy - https://bitcointalksearch.org/topic/working-over-20-years-still-poor-5450422

You need money to live but money is not everything, but we can say it like this, don't live without money, women don't look for love, they only look for beauty and money, have you ever seen a rich/beautiful woman living with a poor boy, all this? It's a lie, we can't do anything without money nowadays, if we are truly loved, only our mother will love us.

No money no love. Money is very important for any basic things to live (hygiene products, health, atletics stuff...). Money is self love and without this you don't can know the real love.

First, I don't see how the topic is very much related to politics; you are talking more about making money here, which really is about financial literacy, and it's kind of more related to economics, and that's the reason why I think that this topic is more related to the economics board.

Well, based on your topic, yeah, money answers a whole lot of things. For example, there are a whole lot of things that a poor person cannot archive, but a rich man can just archive such needs within a twinkle of an eye. This is even a reason why one must work on building better financial sources, because once you have money, you can do things and enjoy your life.

Really gozie you mean we can inter mingle between women and money,  I thought women use to take our time and money need our time also,  so the both can not co-exist since one depends on the other to keep it running which is the woman.

I believe women really need money to maintain them,  and at that as a man you can't give women the time and still have time to hustle for the money at the same time unless you already have a structure on ground to contain both activities.

But that is by the ways,  one thing must kill a man,  so man will always love woman and money but woman love the money more than the man,  so for the man to have the woman,  he must first of all have the money.

There is a popular saying that,  you can lose money while chasing after a woman,  but you can not lose a woman while chasing money.

A person who has a lot of money is definitely a lover of women, but he is persistent in terms of money. Money is definitely needed in the way of human life and in case of women I mean if you have money women will chase you.
But you will just keep rejecting women all the time rich people are not happy with women they probably don't even like romance but are busy investing. Money and study time must be put to good use only then to find the shelter of good times later.

Funny enough the broke guys are bedmatic experts and romantical with the possessions of emotional activity captions while the rich and investors are strictly based on schedules.

The advancement of the nature we lives today has put treasures as pleasures which has got especially women a sight at ego before considering other characteristics around men.

Even your needy mama at home finds you useless if you ain't Worth providing a minimum of her needs talk more of  romances probably a relationship where money and more money is considered a priority for maintenance and service charges.

With experiences and researches, I can categorically say the exposure of a man counting romantic pleasures before chasing after money is doomed valueless and a wealth weakly in the society of romantic remarks.

The pleasury insight of romance on before wealth (money) stands a barrier chances to the man.

Money is the treasure that brings pleasures without measures in the affairs of romance and women.

Are you saying there have not been men who balanced the both and are still happy?

I think it depends on our emotional capacity, if we can handle them it won't be a problem. Moreover, money sometimes doesn't depend on how much time you give to study how to get it just like women too that sometimes it doesn't depend on how much time you give to study them or attention you give that makes them to come. Sometimes they come no matter how much you chase them 

That's for sure because if you can't provide all that she's asking and then she finds a new guy that's promising her that he can give it all to her then that's certainly not going anywhere.

Yes, you don't need to be rich for you to have a lifetime partner but being financially able and stable will make it easier for you. Women, many of them are wise and many are don't but they all have the same thought in mind that if they're going to find a partner. It's either they truly love it for better or for worst and at the same time, they won't have hard time in dealing with life and has financial capacities to provide for them.

Well said. Money is not the basis if one can have a partner in life because romance is not only limited to rich people. Therefore, even a man is poor he can still find a romance, the one who can accept you regardless of your situation. Isn't it good that you found each other while you're not financially stable? Just shows she is not seeing you based on what you have or what you achieve.

Money is essential and a tool (no doubt) to have everything. But there are things that money can't buy and that is genuine love and happiness.

Money is not the most important thing in people's lives, true happiness and fulfilment come from meaningful relationships, personal growth & experiences that enrich our lives. Money provides security & enables us to meet our basic needs, it cannot buy love, health or inner peace. Our well being is shaped by love, laughter, purpose & the joy of pursuing our passions. It’s the intangible aspects of life that bring us the most profound & lasting happiness.

When it comes to a romantic relationship both parties should be willing to sacrifice and support each other. It is only in some societies that women will become parasites to a man because he shows interest in having a relationship with her. Love is now measured by how much the man can lavish on a girl. Loving someone should be unconditional with or without financial gains. If a girl disrespects me because I couldn't provide all her needs, she is not qualified to be emotionally connected to me.

Your thoughts are very correct.  I don't need to be rich to attract a loving partner. If the reason for the relationship is money what happens when the money is no longer available? And I find it unnecessary to lure a partner with money because love doesn't cost anything.

If the emotional relationship between you and your wife is based on money, then the family you are trying to create will disintegrate quickly. Social relationships are greater than that and are supposed to be built on better foundations. It is true that being poor will limit your social activities, including obtaining a partner, but you do not need to be rich to have one.

Money matters a lot in life to do anything. Without money  person's value is zero. In any relationship, money play a vital role to show you unique. With your girlfriend, your pocket should be full of money, you have to give surprise to your gf. Women like romance but without money man cannot do romance with girl because man should focus on one thing, that is money. From early age, child should start earning by doing any type of business. If a person will waste his time on study, it will not give him anything. If he will do small business, he will get a chance to do romance with girls in teenage  and girls will impressed by him and he will enjoy his life by doing a little work.

Correct, money is more important than romance.

A lowlife men is able to spend more time to communicate with a girl, but they're mostly ended as a boyfriend only or a clown that trying to make the girl happy even she will get married with the other men.

Correct if you're a good person, the thing is not everyone have a good deeds. Money isn't an evil, but money is showing your real character, the more money you have, you will see the true of yourself.

Smiles, I understand your perspective. Romance and money are two entirely different things. Romance is a shared emotion you generate with a partner [spouse], whereas your money is related to the asset you now possess.

Romance and money are significant since they bring happiness and fulfilment, but it's also important to strike a balance and avoid letting the quest of money overtake us. Therefore, while learning about money and finances is vital, spending judicious time to develop meaningful relationships and savouring the romantic side of life is just as crucial.

Don't forget, despite the significant roles that both money and women play in our lives, people are not items or commodities that can be bought or controlled.

Don't worry, when you get the money, romance will come to you by itself.
All women love money so to have romance you have to have money first.
Even if you get a romantic woman, she will make your life hell if you fail to get money for her.

A man most especially who has no money and is still struggling to take care of himself should not focus on being romantically involved with a woman who will come with her own expenses. The focus of such a man should be to make money first so he can attract the right kind of woman for him. A man will have no respect if he has no money, so to not face such an embarrassment, man needs to make money first. For women, it is important for them to have their own money, so that when they become romantically involved with a man, they will not loose their respect from over dependence on the man they are dating for every of their needs.

Romance is unimaginable without money, the main tool of romance. Romance and money are substitutes for each other
That's why you need to know the strategy of earning money before having romance, because only after earning money, the topic of romance will be created in the mind
As the saying goes, the full moon in the land of hunger is like scorched bread. That's right, because if there's no money, there's no romance.The pre-condition of the word romance is that you have to adopt different strategies to earn money and save the money properly, then it will be seen that a beautiful desire will be created in the mind and from this beautiful desire, Thrill would be the origin of the word We understand romance in today's society when men mean women and women mean hanging out with men, chatting, getting together, etc. These are known as part of romance in today's society, but if you want to do them, the price of money Need money is the key here No money, no good dreams, no good happiness, no good atmosphere, just no more, that's why when money comes, romance will fill your heart, everything around you will feel exciting and everything you see will feel exciting.No one appreciates people without money Money helps people to reach good places Many people say many words that without money I will be by your side but at the end of the day no one is by your side without money and your own Close people also drift away, and the word romance does just the opposite The word romance is suitable for different classes of people in different ways To the youth, romance means beautiful women, parties, attending various events, etc., but their main tool is money We can think of money as a soldier and romance as a victory, just as a war cannot be won without a soldier, romance is impossible without money.In the end I can say that money can not give everything to people, but it can give a lot of things to survive in life with the environment, but money has to be earned first through various efforts then in your mind.That's why you have to do romance without Roman people can't live well Romance helps people to live well healthy normally and helps to create good work Men can come and say there is no money there is nothing world Who will not value a good beautiful wife to have good money is what our society wants, so we should earn money properly and think about romance. As the saying goes, good woman, good car, good environment, good life system requires money.

  Firstly,  I'll like to start with Maslow's hierarchy of needs which states one has to have Physiological need which includes the basic amenities of life; food, clothing,  shelter. And there's also the safety need which includes personal security, employment, resource,  health & property. Now one has to secure these needs before taking the next step forward which is the need for love and belonging which includes; friendship, intimacy,  family, sense of connection  which of course includes romance.

  In a situation where the man doesn't possess these needs  as stated in  Maslow's hierarchy of needs. It's highly probable that he'd find it easy to cope with romance involved whereas he'd be literally fighting for his life. "Money before Romance". It's only logical to fend for yourself before you do for others as it logical to love yourself before you share some love. In an era like this, affection can be monetary, but then again... love is blind.

These two are contradiction for me. Why do you need to study woman? Of what purpose will that be? You have to understand that some of these women related issues are natural and depends on how it is presented to you as an individual. Or have you not seen a situation where a wealthy man goes after a lady but she keeps rejecting the overture but rather choose a "poor guy" perhaps she will be happier with the poor person and sees potential with him whereas some ladies will immediately fall for any wealthy man, that is why I believe it is different for different people.

Another point is the issue of making money. Sometimes it is destiny and not the amount of effort, strength or mussels you have. But money is good, it helps t sustain the human life in all ramifications.

I agree that the love of money is the evil thing, money is essential and we all need.

You don't study women, you're the one that should discover what romance is all about. And that's gonna come naturally based on your experience and probably experiment. Just like in making money, there could be some disappointments and the same goes with romance and women.

that is what is "inversely proportional" is called.
Though, it is not something which is always applied is a macroscopic scale, there will be occasions when someone won't be able to have much luck finding a partner because other reasons which won't have anything to do with money whatsoever.

Sure. personal economy and finances are important if one is looking forward to share life with a significant other, but a direct correlation or an inverse correlation are rather very rough extrapolations of reality.

Also, people how have that mindset on women and money may have other problems which interfere with their love life, they may not even realize until somehow improving their economical situation and yet finding their road to a fulfilling relationship to be uphill.  

I can’t say I see a lot of correlation between money and romance. Usually it seems like the opposite. Men with a ton of money are typically obsessed with their work or investments and don’t show women the proper attention, whereas broke guys who spend their days and nights chasing women typically seem to do pretty well regardless of their net worth.

you have to study money as you study women. Better to be a big player in finance, than a big player in romance. Nobody is called honey, like a man who controls money. money is a big tool. but, without it, the world will treat you like a big fool! the best way to make sense is by making money. otherwise you are making nonsense. Even scripture says money answers all things. money is not evil. it is the love of money that is evil. money is what enables you to convert your good thoughts to good deeds.

How do you see it, if we use the time of studying women and romance, and think of money and how to make money. ?