First of all, try and calm down... I realise it is stressful having sums of money that appear to have vanished into a void and that typing in CAPS is a way to relieve stress, but it is horrible to read and to a lot of people, it looks like you're shouting.
Some things to note:
1. Resetting your MultiBit is not going to achieve anything, so don't bother.
2. You will need to provide the Transaction IDs if you want us to check your transactions out to see if there is anything untoward happening.
3. The bitcoin network is under a really heavy load right now.
There are around 150,000+ unconfirmed transactions, so you are definitely not alone.
Given that we can't see your transaction, here is some general advice:
- Read
this thread about "stuck transactions". It has some helpful tips.
- Keep trying with
the ViaBTC TX Accelerator. Due to the huge network load, the accelerator is very popular and they only accept 100 txes per hour. They reset the counter at the start of the hour, so you have to try and time it right to get in before the 100 tx limit is reached!
- You can try and use the
paid TX accelerator. Unfortunately, the only payment method at the moment appears to be Alipay which I think may be limited to China only
- You can try and contact the users Quickseller or macbook-air. However, given the large number of people who are having issues with low fee transactions getting stuck, I am sure their inboxes are crammed with people having the same problem as you.
Finally, your funds will be OK. Either your transactions will confirm (YAY!) or they won't and your funds will be respendable by your wallet... also, MultiBit Classic is longer maintained, developed or supported, you should really consider upgrading to a newer wallet (I DON'T recommend MultiBit HD, it has some bad bugs at the moment... go for Electrum).
