Topic: My Grandma is in a critical situation. Asking everyone for help. (Read 889 times)

I was talking about this topic. The one in hand. You are digging out the past. That's ok. As humans we lie more often than we think. We are not Saints. So yeah I have lied in the past and publicly apologized for that. But I did not lie about this. I know my past more than you!


No I don't need any help now. There's no need for any treatment now because the one in the question is dead. All I can ask from you guys is prayer for her.

Also, I will lock this topic. Any further questions from anyone, my dm is open. Drop message if you need to about anything.

This is not supposed to be so. I think OP still need help and if anyone wants to help, they should proceed. It is now that OP needs the help even more. The reason is not far fetched. In my country which I believe is applicable in other countries, if a patient dies, the bills are not waved. The patient's relatives will have to settle all the hospital bills before the deceased would be buried.
So, the death of the grandma should instead motivate donations rather than treating the matter as ended.

Yeah, that's some major bullshit. Trying to deny lying is just another layer of lies. Dude's shooting himself in the foot. He admitted to lying on multiple occasions already.

I don’t think OP did this for attention, I believe he was in a tight spot when he made this topic. It’s expected that people would scrutinize such posts so they can be sure they are not being tricked. As some suggested earlier, OP could take a loan but I don’t think OP has any means to pay off any loans hence this topic. Sadly, his grandma has passed away, and the purpose of the thread has been defeated so I ask for the topic to be locked.

We cannot know for sure if we lose a member unless their family reach out through their bitcointalk account. It’s more easier if the person is popular in his local board and has relationships there. This makes the process easily verifiable.

The rules are already there. Begging isn’t allowed on the forum.

You are correct Sis!
To add up I don't know why people keeps seeing this forum as a help center and I know too well that immediately one person post anything about illness you will see more people using that avenue to create their own post in a more organized and cooked way to convinced the reader.. No wonder someone requested to create a charity subforum or something related to that if I am not wrong.

On Earlier January 2023 I lost my Husband's Grandma due to severe illness I was pushed to create topic over here but I have came to reason about it twice that the people here doesn't know anything about me or about her so why should I come here to start bugging people around seeking for help while she gave birth to grown up Son's and Daughters including my Husband so, why should I come here to create post seeking for help instead of calling the son's and daughter to come take care of the hospital bill than me coming to beg here to start making people look me as liar or someone who is trying to use indirect way to take something from people here.

I didn't do that it was silent muted and sealed, in facts I have also grown a thick skin to start letting some things go off from me not by every little thing I will come here to upload or create post towards it in order to gain attention of people around here, I think to me this is childishness and also incompetents of handling any personal challenges that may comes there way.

I know many of us here has faced this same challenges and we ran to no body or we didn't create a topic to begged for assistance and were handled amicably without the community knowing about it, so why should someone bugs the community with their personal issues although I am not against of OP posting this thread but sometimes they always makes it looks so stupid in a way that they are trying to join people's brain over here maybe seeing users over here as if they are dull brain or doesn't know what to do with their HODL.

We should also try to apply some specifics rules about anyone who come here creating such topics except in most case were we lose a reputable poster the community can organized to raise little funds for such poster and send to the departed family as a condolence fund and to also use sustain themselves for the period of time being.

The word "never lied" is not appropriate for you, go back to your tags.

I would highly suggest you to never use your same password on any other platform. If you're registering on a different website or forum then be sure to use a different password then the one you used here. Anyone with some technical knowledge would choose to make a new password and use it on another platforms rather than using the same password on multiple platforms.

I would suggest you to change your password on each new platform where you register and also try not to use similar passwords as that can be helpful for the ones who brute-force others passwords. I suggest you to use long password with many characters for best security.

My condolences Op, I know you are in a difficult state of mind right now, but I think what you are saying about altcointalk forum staff  using your password to login to your Bitcointalk account is very important to notify the community, their privacy could be at risk.

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Send my regards to your family.🖤

Do you want me to share my bank details here too? Come on man grow up. I am not in the mood to talk about this now.
I am not sure myself yet how that happened so I did some research. You should too before pointing fingers at someone. I recently teleported my account in altcoinstalks. I was required to put the same username there too. So I used the same password there as well. And I can say for sure that that was the reason why my account was compromised. I will just leave a picture with all it IP addresses from which my account was accessed.



I have blurred my personal IP address for my own privacy reasons.
If you think that they are forged, give me a dm and I will show live proof with a video too. But you need to be at least a hero or legendary member.
I did not also get any notification on ninjastic space tg notification bot for any mentions otherwise I would have known before. Thanks, FatFork for your investigation otherwise I wouldn't have noticed it and I would've been in a very bad situation. Also thanks Royse777 for reaching out to me and asking for proof. I gave him the evidence through inbox because I trust him. I will not be sharing any of my info publicly.

As for the proof of death. You can see her death certificate.



If this doesn't satisfy you guys then I am sorry I have nothing to say. I am still not in a condition to speak to people about this kind of stuff. I got some free time today so I am here.
And those who believe me, thanks. Please pray for her soul. I will be unavailable for some days. Got some work to do still. Drop a dm or comment if you like.

hope this answers your question.

I was unaware of it too. But they asked 2 people inside the MRI room. She had no sense and she was moving her hands legs and head. The doctor said that if she moves, it will not be possible to do an MRI scan. So he let me wear a noise cancelling headphones and asked me to stay by her side. She moved 2/3 times during the MRI so DR. asked me to massage her foot so she would calm down. I was there and I was busy. Does that clear your doubt?

I have answered that. Please read this whole reply. Thanks. I never lied about anything. Also, I did not pretend.

There is a possibility that OP was disingenuous in the past, AND that his grandmother recently passed. 

FatFork's proof shows OP's isn't honest. He hasn't posted after FatFork's post. He's said he doesn't know how to ask for loans. He didn't tell why he's asked $450 USDT before this topic. Why'd he send MRI scans on telegram in private if he's begging in forum he should've posted them here.

OP's deleted the $450 loan post trying to remove proof after Shasan's rejected it. He's changed his bitcoin payment address for eloncoin sig campaign. His password's changed to This user changed his/her password recently.. There's hole in his story.

I don't believe OP's story. I don't want to offend ppl who believe him but OP's 2023 trust says he isn't honest so I'll say he's a liar.

I cannot imagine losing a loved one during this festive season, experiencing such a tragedy will completely ruin Christmas for me. I can only pray for you and your family that you find the strength to carry on through this difficult times. From the OP, I can tell you and your grandma were very close. I’m truly sorry for your loss. My heart goes to you and your family.

And as a reality check, a stroke can happen at any age; unborn babies have them.  Strokes are on the rise due to the convenience of vapes.

Really sad to know that tjtonmoy Grandma is no more in this world. Its sad to see people who are very dear to us, leaving us. But this is sad reality of life and this is how things work here. My prayers and condolencs are with OP and his family.

Just a soft reminder to everyone here on this forum to take good care of yourself and your loved ones. Keep an eye on your Blood pressure, Blood sugar and other stuff. Its advisable to have a checkup once or twice a year specially people who are above 35.

After the proof shared by Royse, I personally believe that the OP wasn't attempting fraud at all. Otherwise, he wouldn't have told someone who could post an update sooner in this thread that his grandma was dead.
My condolences on this sad news, OP.

I am sorry for your loss @tjtonmoy. My condolences to you and your family.

Prayers for the departed soul.

Humans are mortal, no one ever lives on earth forever.  But we all pray for your grandma, and my prayers go out to your family. @op you must calm down and brace yourself. We have suffered a lot for your grandmother as you have suffered a lot for treatment, thank you for that.

I started reading this thread yesterday evening. Money isn’t a subject many are willing to discuss here, older members have seen many scams disguise themselves in form of helping the needy and so on. So forgive us for our lack of faith. Grandmas are the best people and it is never easy losing them. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family. Take heart my guy.

No one was investigating over a $4 donation...

OP - I'm sorry for your loss.   

 Take heart  @tjtonmoy my prayers are with your family and loved ones. It is sad to hear that you lost your grandmother to the hands of death. Only God knows best what happened but in all it is well mate. Cheer up and be strong.

While I was just reading the thread and seeing how things are now, this is a sad news. @tjtonmoy, my condolences to your family and I know that it's hard to accept it as I am also a guy that has grandmothers and I don't know what I'll feel if the point comes although I don't wish to be on that moment. Not just long ago, we've got one actual member that passed away and now, someone's family member has passed away too. What a sad December. Rest in peace to your grandmother tjtonmoy. I don't know what type of comforting words I'll say but I wish that you'll recover while treasuring and cherishing the moments that you've been with her.

People are always going to want some sort of proof no matter who it is. It's nothing against him, it's just being smart and not falling victim to a scam. Even the most trusted will be questioned by someone.

OP, sorry your family member passed on. Hopefully you have some family that you can be with and comfort each other while you are preparing for a funeral service.

Royse777, Thank you for at least having sense here and asking for further IRL proof of the situation rather than being one of the people investigating him over a $4 donation, although reading this information makes me feel sad to hear actually.

Earlier I contacted him on Telegram
His response
With some screenshots some of them dated today. I do not understand a lot of it but it seems MRI test report, prescriptions, image of the MRI film. Although I can not confirm the authenticity but the images seems taken by a phone. Some parts of the images -





Looking at some of the responses in this thread I thought to share it.

I believe the woman indeed died, tjtonmoy and his family lost the Grand mother.

Rest In Peace to the departed soul. My condolence to the family.

It's $4 in USDT I wouldn't have given a single shit about a random person donating a tiny amount to another random person. I'm surprised something as small as this is even being investigated.

Rather than go all over this dude having a possible alt over 4 bucks why not just make him show more proof of his IRL situation, because a screenshot especially in an online forum where people fraud and scam all the time is not enough especially when screenshots can be faked or forged too. Not to be disrespectful of OP but that's unfortunately the world we're in. At least showing something like a video with the proof presented even with the grandmothers face (which he already posted her face here in a screenshot) would at least show he's not trying to fraud people here or made up a story.

Okay, I actually like the first approach you gave him on this.
Old man, you don't need any evidence to ascertain - based on your own prejudice - what corny sense he's tryna play on everyone... He's tryna make the whole scenerio look real by using another account to donate? Or maybe liaising with his close pal to pull off the stunt... It's damn weird!
Okay... y'all take a look at this ... Is it also a coincidence? And also the fact that you applied for a loan too?.. look, your intensions aren't clear at all and every sane person knows that.. Lemme keep it real with you..
I am not doubting the fact that your mum's sick; but for the fact that you used one of your supposed alt to run a kinda attestation on your behalf, then that's enough to say this whole thing is damn suspicious!!

i don't wanna see it differently but Fatfork just discovered the telltale sign.

people will always want to help believe it or not. strangers will help as long as it's true but this forum is not a good platform for it. someone did it before OP and it needs solid proof to make people send but if your story has some holes and doesn't add up. it will just make users suspect you of SOMETHING.
but i wish your nana well that she'd be okay.

I remember few times when people asked for financial help in forum it never ended good for anyone.
And first people you ask should ask for help and support is friends and family from your country, not some stranger on forum who dont know anything about you.
Whatever the true is I wish good health to all grandmas and everyone else around the world.

I learned anything in my time here, that's that coincidences are very rare in these type of cases. Nice find btw!

@tjtonmoy  I am really curious to hear what you have to say about some of the things that FatFork mentioned. Why did you say that you don't know how to apply for a loan while you made one few days ago, coincidentally only a day before your grandma's stroke?

Don't be ridiculous! It's unlikely you'll be "busy with the MRI".  Generally only medical staff are allowed in the MRI room with patients during scans.  At most, you might hang out in the waiting area, fiddling with your phone.  So, either you're exaggerating or you're simply unaware of the protocols.



But, you did apply for a loan with @shasan just two days ago. (The day before your grandma supposedly had a stroke.) However, you later deleted that post and created this thread where you claim you do not know how to apply for a loan.  Is this just a coincidence?

Thank you for the advice. I will be busy with the MRI for some time. Also some other tests. When I get the chance I will apply for a loan. @Shasan if you can see this mention, I will dm you shortly when I get the chance. Thank you everyone!

I am sending that back to him.. cryptoWODL thank you for the kind gesture brother...

OP, I can understand your situation, but you, as an adult (I hope you are an adult), must understand that this is a forum, just a forum, and not a charity center. Those who recently shared five dollars with you will not provide your grandmother with any help. Be courageous. There comes a time for every person when unpleasant things happen to their grandmothers. But this is not a way to describe, much less photograph, people and post them on a forum.
Take heart and pray. You are not the first, and you will not be the last to experience this. That's life.

From my understanding, you are allowed to post your story or whatnot, but no posting of addresses. Mods will lock the topic if addresses are involved.


@OP sorry to hear about your grandmother man. Very sad to hear and I wonder if there is much they can do besides make her comfortable. o_e_l_e_o was a helpful person when it came to my medical situation, maybe they would be willing to have a chat with you and give you guidance.

I would remove the addresses from your post as it will not end good for you. Vod is likely correct

That's exactly how it was in Yahoo's case, in the end, the thread was locked and archived.



@tjtonmoy I'm sorry for everything you're going through, I know exactly what it's about, I went through it with my father, but unfortunately, this is not the way and it's probably better to lock this thread by yourself than to wait for something more drastic from the moderator.

Sorry to hear about your Grandmother.

You can get a loan from @Shasan. Read the format and apply for the loan.  

https://bitcointalksearch.org/topic/lending-service-started-usdtbtcltcethdogeetc-5030169

I am at the hospital right now. I'm really busy and I won't be able to update much about the situation more frequently but I will update for sure. I haven't used the lending before and I have no collateral at this moment as I have sold everything. And he is from my local section and I have also made a post there too.
I know I have been in this forum for a long and yet don't know how the lending process work. If you could give me a little bit of hint how to apply and what is required to get a loan it will be very helpful. I know this is begging and I am very shameful for that but as I said I'm trying to get help from everywhere I can. Please don't get this wrong.

Also if I learned the process how to apply for a loan I will lock this topic. So please help me.

Hmm....You donated to OP and you're both in the same sig campaign but your registration dates are a ways apart.  I'm inclined to think this is some shilling, but I have no evidence.

In any case, there shouldn't be any begging going on here as it's against the rules.  There was some talk if I remember correctly that yahoo62278's request for donations qualified as begging, but that seemed to pass muster--but if this isn't begging I don't know what is.  Vod is right.  You really should be trying to get a loan instead of asking the community for crypto.

I pray to Allah that your grandmother gets well soon. My heart screams whenever I get news like this. It was because I loved my grandmother so much that I was always with her. I used to stay with my grandmother more than my mother. But suddenly one day my grandmother died, I still can't forget that day. I regret that day because I couldn't do anything for him and didn't get a chance to do anything.
In fact, grandmothers understand what is missing in life.
I am helping you with little money maybe it is not much but I helped you with what I had bro. Actually my income is very less I gave you all that I earned brother.


Finally, it is a wish to God that your grandmother recovers soon and comes back to you and that your family can live happily together again

Make a loan request in the lending section, and list your collateral.   You probably won't be able to remain anonymous if you don't have crypto for collateral.

I don't know what should I say. As I said, I will try my best to collect money from other sources. Even if anyone can't help just pray for her. Expectation is a bad thing and often you get disappointed from it. So I am not expecting much. Whatever help I get, it will be appreciated. Even if someone wants to give it as a loan, I will take it. I will repay them back for sure.

You should try a local community or church.    You haven't been a positive influence here, so you shouldn't expect help from HODLers.

Sorry to hear about your grandmother; strokes suck.

Hello everyone. I am sorry for bringing up this topic here! Yesterday at 12pm my grandma had a brain stroke. She was suffering from diabetes for a long time. She was taking medicine and it was in control. But yesterday she fell ill all of a sudden. We immediately took her to the hospital. The doctor said that she had a stroke and brain hemorrhage was the cause of it. After that she lost all her senses. She can't even speak now.. not even opening her eyes... I'm full of tears right now. I don't know what to do... They asked for $2000+ for her treatment. I have already sold all my holdings and everything and yet I am unable to collect all the money. I have something around $1500+ right now in hand. But I will still need more. I have asked all my family friends and many have come forward to help me in this situation. But it's getting hard to collect the rest of the money. I have come here seeking for you guy's help as a last resort.
I am shameful to bring this here. But I am left with no other choice. I'm asking everyone for a small favor. If I ever get the chances I will try to repay you all. But right now I need all the help I can get. So please guys.... Help me. I will always be in debt to you guys. Whatever amount you can help with will be appreciated... Even if you can't help, at least pray for her please. She's in a very critical condition.

Edit: I have removed the address as suggested! Thank you for the advice.

I will update this thread every now and then when I get free time..