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Topic: No matter what don't let your life be controlled by three things (Read 237 times)

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Life is too complex for us to be thinking of the past and how to go pay people that have done bad to us.
Money is an important factir in our life and many peoples problems are based on it. We need money to live a good life and take care of our bills. It is very important that we make sure that we add not being controlled by more because with that we might to have any value to life. Some people can not control there wealth or riches that is why they will keep doing the wrong thing always.
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By common sense that is not actually common we know that some things are not rumors.
About the issues of life, It is true the voices and opinions of others worldwide saying don't give up on your dreams, failures are not final, keep going on, when you fail try again, don't quit etc

All because of setbacks. However in all that setback,
DON'T LET YOURSELF BE CONTROLLED BY THREE THINGS..
      People
            Money
                   Past experiences
They can only deny you of your efforts and the anticipated success and happiness we have been longing for...
When we base our decisions on our past experience, this could have a serious effect on us if we are not careful about adjusting so that our past lifestyle does not one thinking. There are people that have lost so many friends in the past because of their altitude and one should not bring this same altitude to the current lifestyle because it could have a severe consequences of care is not taken.
Things are happing and money is now the order of the day seeing small boys who are ready to do anything just to make money and life a lavish lifestyle.
Lavish life? Sometimes it is even ultra lavish life
sr. member
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By common sense that is not actually common we know that some things are not rumors.
About the issues of life, It is true the voices and opinions of others worldwide saying don't give up on your dreams, failures are not final, keep going on, when you fail try again, don't quit etc

All because of setbacks. However in all that setback,
DON'T LET YOURSELF BE CONTROLLED BY THREE THINGS..
      People
            Money
                   Past experiences
They can only deny you of your efforts and the anticipated success and happiness we have been longing for...
When we base our decisions on our past experience, this could have a serious effect on us if we are not careful about adjusting so that our past lifestyle does not one thinking. There are people that have lost so many friends in the past because of their altitude and one should not bring this same altitude to the current lifestyle because it could have a severe consequences of care is not taken.
Things are happing and money is now the order of the day seeing small boys who are ready to do anything just to make money and life a lavish lifestyle.
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It’s difficult not to be controlled by money because obviously you need it to live. Especially with the current cost of living crisis, it’s at the forefront of everybody's mind. The best thing to do is try to enjoy down time when you are not at work, take up a hobby that doesn’t cost anything, running is a good past time, it keeps you fit too.
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This are some of the things that has so much influence in our life's that some point if not careful enough they will surely tend to control you but if you're good enough to control yourself then you can overcome there urges.

In most cases money has controlled the life's of some people to the extent that there carelessly take their own lives with their hands. When you become obsessed with money you can do whatever it takes to reach that money. there is one ideology in my place that says people change when there see money, it's most times that a lot of people luckily becomes millionaires when they do not expect it and hence it tends to change their psychology on how they think hence can lead to deviant behaviours.
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People who get controlled by money are the ones whose would go any mile just to make money. They don’t care what it would cost them and they are ready to do it. While this can be good, it can be disastrous because you wouldn’t know when to stop. Some go as far as cutting off family or prioritizing money over meaningful relationships they should have. Money will keep pulling you and your greed won’t have enough of it. We humans need to learn to be content. To have something and be okay with the amount we have and not unnecessarily want more.
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The world is designed naturally in such a way that one of this three things will have to temper you and be controlled by it. The depth on which it can controls you now depends on how you’re able to resist it and fight it back for it not to take total control of you.

If there are negative forces that are pulling you back, just know that anything you set your mind to do will either be delayed, procrastinated and unachievable. In everything you do, make sure you have nothing that will have effect on your mindset on what you’ve set your mind to achieve.

Any of this three forces can come in two ways, whether positively affecting you or negatively affecting you. Just go for the right thing that you set your mind to and stick to the positive aspect of it while neglecting the negativity in it.
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I think one should lead one's life with one's own intelligence.  One should never let any style rule life.  Be it people, money or past experiences or anything else.  Other people's style should never influence one's life.  Because other people don't want what you want for yourself.  The number of well-wishers in the world is very few.  To manage life beautifully, one must manage life with one's own intelligence.  Life cannot be controlled by money either because money destroys people's lives.  Again, money makes people's lives better and better.  So instead of subjugating one's own money one should subjugate one's own money.  Every human being has some terrible past and some terrible experiences in their life.  Life should never be controlled by them.  Life should always be seen in a new way
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a person must be able to make peace with his past and not be tied to it. they must be able to accept the current reality and learn from their past experiences to be able to develop and progress in the future.

Past experience may not be bad experience or must not be bad experience and it can also be helpful for the future. This is why they say knowing your past will help you not to go over it again, whether good or bad experience we have to learn from it and learning adds more value to us in the future helping that we navigate through the right channels faster and quicker unlike when we were not equipped with the past.

However, if there is a bad past experience, we do not have to dwell on it because if we keep looking at it, it won't give good strength for building courage to take risk for the future. For example, some times when we meet certain challenges or risk that we should take like investment rist and then we may be foot dragging on it because we took such risk earlier and it didn't work. Some times the past need to be left off where they are while we keep moving on for the future opportunities whose ingredients may also not be the same thing with what was presented in the past, times are not always the same.
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Past experiences

this is very real. a person who is still tied to his past experiences cannot live in the present. because he keeps remembering his past experiences and doesn't want to make peace with them. he cannot accept the fact that what he hopes for does not match the reality he is currently experiencing and this becomes a stone that prevents him from being able to progress and develop in the future.

a person must be able to make peace with his past and not be tied to it. they must be able to accept the current reality and learn from their past experiences to be able to develop and progress in the future.
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By common sense that is not actually common we know that some things are not rumors.
About the issues of life, It is true the voices and opinions of others worldwide saying don't give up on your dreams, failures are not final, keep going on, when you fail try again, don't quit etc

All because of setbacks. However in all that setback,
DON'T LET YOURSELF BE CONTROLLED BY THREE THINGS..
      People
            Money
                   Past experiences
They can only deny you of your efforts and the anticipated success and happiness we have been longing for...
these three things are primarily what shapes and guides us regarding the kind of decision we make generally and it's deficult not to get controlled by them in the real sense. You've got to learn how to manage each of them such that they don't become a sort of setback that will possibly way you down. We don't exist independent of others so at some point or the other, we are definitely going to get involved with people and the kind of feedback we revive from them could go a long way in shaping us. Money is another factor we can't play with and regardless of your belief or not, it must guide your actions and decision making process. Our experiences are what helps us to better prepare for the future and what we make of it determines what the outcome of our future will be to a very large extent. It's mostly said that we are the product of our past past and what we will be in the future is directly a product of our present situation.
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All because of setbacks. However in all that setback,
DON'T LET YOURSELF BE CONTROLLED BY THREE THINGS..
      People
            Money
                   Past experiences
They can only deny you of your efforts and the anticipated success and happiness we have been longing for...
People - while you are in your journey, you'd definitely going to encounter people that might use you and take advantage of you. And that is because you need them for you to excel but don't get too far and come to the point that you'll be used that much after they've given you a favor. As much as you can, cut them when you've seen some signs and red flag that they're there because they've got something to you that will help them to excel.

Money - it is true that you don't let money control you because many relationships and friendships have ended because of it. But the major reason that it can do to someone is by being greedy. Money is needed to live and forget about those quotes that they don't need money to be happy. Money solves a lot of problems and that's why it can make someone's live easier and happier. But don't let it be your god just like those people that thinks highly of themselves because they're earning higher than everyone else.

Past experiences - as they say, don't dwell on it for you to move. Your future is bigger than your past experiences whether they're failures or good memories. Past is past and we only have one life to live that keeps on going on so don't live in the past but never forget the lessons that it gave you.
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We have to learn on how to move on in life, we may have met with different kinds of people whom impacts on our lives left a deliberate scar we are still suffering from, we shouldn't allow these same people take control of our life, also, we are expected to take life easy on ourselves, there's no need of making rush in other to make it in life, some of us have engaged in many attrocities at the cause, if we let the need for money got on us, we are going to commit and do things which we are not supposed to, we need patience, self control and hardwork, all these can help us become whom we want to see ourselves turn into in life, if we give it every demanding time and sacrifice for the achievement to come in due time.
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We shouldn't allow anything or anybody to cage our minds, we can be percecuted physical or perhaps we've not fully attained our full potentials, but the moment you're defeated mentally, then it's the beginning of the end for that person. Don't let anybody or life's situations to control your liberty to dream big and plan for a better life, because nobody can imprison your mind except you allow them.

Among the three things that we shouldn't allow to control our minds as it's mentioned in the OP, we can control our pasts because the incidents have occurred, but people like our superiors and bosses can have can have certain control over us because of their authorities or money that they pay us, nevertheless we must find a way to become financially independent so that we can indeed control money, instead of it controlling us
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Majorly there are two kinds of people, one who stuck with their past and regret for their remaining life and the other one is moved on from their past and their complete focus shifted towards the better future in terms of finance or anything that's bothering then in their present.

No one knows everything from their started, they just learn from their life experiences which we call as failures.
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I mean. I think I understand the message behind this thread and how it is supposed to encourage us to seek happiness regardless of the circumstances put in place by either people, past experiences or money, but being honest with you all, I find it to be specially difficult for anyone not to allow money to control their existence to some extent, after all, money moves the world and most of people have to wake up early in the morning for the sake of those pieces of paper which are required to get want we need and what we want.

When comes to the past and other people, it would take someone who is both good at forgiving themselves and the mistake they have done before and also does not care about the opinion of others about their being. That is easier if the person was raised with a healthy self-steem and in an United household. But not all people have such a luck.

I am personally someone who looks back to the past more than I should, and I admit it can be a problem sometimes.  Sad
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Humans naturally love challenges. Challenges are greater in the areas over which we have no control. So it is easy to concentrate. Surely what we have is mine works without such a heart. But our interest is more active in what is not mine or in my control which makes it easier to concentrate. The ability to control the whole person is often necessary to progress in life.
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Three things we should not allowed to have control over our life's,
a. Our family
b. Other people
c. Money.
If we need to be happy, we should focus our efforts on those parts of our life's we want to improve and can change.
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By common sense that is not actually common we know that some things are not rumors.
About the issues of life, It is true the voices and opinions of others worldwide saying don't give up on your dreams, failures are not final, keep going on, when you fail try again, don't quit etc

All because of setbacks. However in all that setback,
DON'T LET YOURSELF BE CONTROLLED BY THREE THINGS..
      People
            Money
                   Past experiences
They can only deny you of your efforts and the anticipated success and happiness we have been longing for...

OP actually your post is right but I think similar post is already in the board which I have read hours ago which the link is here https://bitcointalksearch.org/topic/m.63895503 please i stand to be corrected let try as much as possible to avoid sanction because what I read from this link is not far from your post and the Link exist before your, you both are actually correct in the direction your channeling your point of advice but repeating someone post by paraphrasing is not a good idea
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Unfortunately, most of us are controlled by these very three things you have mentioned and it requires a strong person who has either experienced life by being controlled by these three things will be able to life without being controlled by these wherein others are living their life like an unchain slaves and that's the reality.
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People that support you today to achieve your political favor can still be the people that will fight you tomorrow to make sure you fall out from your political career, that is people for you and they can change at anytime and you have to be careful with people around you.

Money and past experience will not control you unless you give them the chance to control you and, they will make you feel you cannot succeed when money leave you and you begin to experience some part experience, no matter what you are facing around you, never you give up to any situation.
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By common sense that is not actually common we know that some things are not rumors.
About the issues of life, It is true the voices and opinions of others worldwide saying don't give up on your dreams, failures are not final, keep going on, when you fail try again, don't quit etc

All because of setbacks. However in all that setback,
DON'T LET YOURSELF BE CONTROLLED BY THREE THINGS..
      People
            Money
                   Past experiences
They can only deny you of your efforts and the anticipated success and happiness we have been longing for...
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