I am using windows standalone 2.6.3 version of Electrum wallet, its a widnows desktop wallet, and as you said i saw their in network area and it is clicked as "select server automatically" so when i take that tick i am not getting list of other network to select as you said it.
even same i am having problem. my coins are stuck and i wanted them urgently
that's a very old version. you should upgrade to the latest version. there have been many bug fixes since 2.6.3 so perhaps your problem is also fixed in the latest version.