Thanks to all who responded.
How many BTC have you been using to pay for the fee ? I used 38k Satoshi and it is taking forever. I left it on indieewlkets medium setting. I think it needs a work through the chain is so congested what is actually going to happen ? It is getting quite bad. Maybe a fee of 0.001btc is enough ?
There is no standard fee... 0.001 BTC might be grossly overpaying if you have a small transactions (1 input, 2 outputs), or grossly underpaying with you have a big transaction (10 inputs, 2 outputs)...
http://www.mocacinno.com/page/feeestimate
1 input, 2 outputs => 0.0005 should result in a 95% chance of getting in the next 3 blocks at the time of writing (so 0.001 would be double of the needed fee)
10 input, 2 outputs => 0.0035 should result in a 95% chance of getting in the next 3 blocks at the time of writing (so 0.001 would be less than 30% of the needed fee)
could you post the tx id?