turns out one of the gpus power cables was broken and that was preventing the rest from working. Unplugged that one and all others work fine now. Ordered a new power cable for the 5th card so hopefully all will go well with that!
As for the internet problem it seems my motherboards ethernet port got fried somehow...
I solved that by buying a nether wireless network adapter and that worked perfectly!
Rig is now mining on four out of five cards on nicehash !
just in case should there be a specific temperature to look out for and turn off if a gpu reaches that heat?
thank you everyone in this thread who helped me solve my problems
a fried ethernet port ? that quite rare.
dont u have a warranty ?
u sure if its not disabled on the bios ?
well the port was working and had a blinking light and a few hours later the light was off and it was not working. I have warranty but that would mean disassembling everything , sending the mobo, waiting and then setting everything back up. the adapter solved my problems and i don't mind having paid for it since it saved me the time lost mining if i would have sent the motherboard back. in the 17 hours the rig has been running it made 23$ which is close to what I paid for the adapter