Topic: pretend dead in real life (Read 387 times)

If you want to check on your friends then you don't have to pretend to die, you go to an unknown far away city and check on your friends from there. Because it's not your test, the hypocrisy your friends must truly love. Because you should not sacrifice life by acting this death. Today you will hypocritically test your friends, later when you are in danger, your friends will not come forward.  If you are in real danger, you will not get help that day.

yeah, animal is animal, human is human, human is not animal, human is super intelligent, super form of living creature.

I find adding friend make life even more harder, because when you are child you dont really get a friend at all but that time you are so very free of anything and burden in life, when friends become deeper to you, it seem the childhood stress free feeling begin to fade, become an obligation, become responsible to a friendship, and for what sake is god know.

what? I have keep my quote on my profile for many years and didnt changed once, idk how many years ago, I think more than five years and never changed once, I dont think it is even hard to decipher a five years old quote to anyone.

I think you have to understand human, if you find it difficult to understand who humans are you will always  be in pain to how people treat you. The truth is that when you have money you will have so many friends claiming to love you just because of what you have, but when it is no more you see the true character of them. This is human  for you so don't let what you see from people who are supposed to care about you make you feel bad. People to love you when they benefit from you, they show loyalty , love.

The most important thing is for us to keep accompany with people that really cares about us and our wellbeing.
We don't need to keep accompany or friends that wouldn't get our back. There are people that would never want to help us even if we become close relatives with them. Pretending dead is not even the solution here here, it is good when we know the kind of person that we have as friends and we don't have to do things to draw their attention by all means.

animals is differentiated by human beings so you cannot make a comparison between animal legality at the human legality is Society animals does not have a bylaw or else human being have a bylaw and they listing, and they also follow rules and regulations for particular environment so that is what we cannot compare animal life with human life so what do I emphasizing on is a woman characteristics and how the earn they're living

Life must have been hard for you or your current experience in life is just so bad and i sympathize with you.

one thing you must know is everyone has his or her raise to run and so you shouldn't expect your friends to help you run yours. Yes people can betray but its only when you trust them that they betray. what you lack now is independence and you should achieve that as fast as possible so never to get hurt again.

I will advise you that if to fake your death will bring you peace of mind just flee away from you environment, go to some where far and create a new life for yourself and never make  friends for its benefits.

Hey OP, I don't understand what your feelings are about this life, but the negativity is present in the message you are conveying. Do you actually understand what death is?

Remember one thing, your parents never expected you to have such thoughts about life. Maybe your current life situation is facing a lot of pressure, but don't feel like that and give up. Because somewhere else on this earth, there are many people whose lives are more miserable than yours and they still have to continue to survive and adapt to this life. You have the ability that's why you're here, and don't waste it by trying harder to solve the problems at hand.

I also went through difficult times in life, and after that process I realized that challenges are for us to overcome, not for challenges to engulf life. So hopefully you can feel the positivity in life without trying harder, wishing you good luck on your upcoming journey.

There is nothing to gain from faking your own death. The reality you must have been running away from will not leave you and will still haunt you. Don’t think because you’ve faked your death people will feel pity for you and wound have wished they never did all they did to you when you were alive. After breaking the news that you’re not death and only faked to see people’s reaction, that’s when the real trouble you’re running away from will prevail. It is better to confront every life issue and solve it amicably, the one you can’t handle is better you let it go.

to be happy. honestly you can never be happier than wild animal, wild animal do not need govt to tell you what is legal and what is not. Animal also do not need marriage to legally have child, also animal do not serve military, animal is as good as non existent to the govt. btw pretend dead doesnt stop you to need to have kid legally, here pretend dead seem less priviledge than wild animal imo

This scenario is quite simple and understand them because their friends of yours come only remember you when you are important to his life and their friend that is not important or valuable to you whenever you hear the announcement of instead you will not feel him or remember his impact on Earth that is why whenever you are with people make sure that you have created a very good impact that will make them to remember you when you are normal.

Some people are your friends today because they know their capability and they know the functionality to them, and the way you pretend that you are normal many of them will you feel bad and have sympathy for your demise, and they only do that because you good to them, why if you are not good to your friends no one will remember you and they will feel reluctant as if nothing happens to them or they have not lose anything.

If you focus your energy on what people thinks about you then you are making a big mistake because you can never please everybody. Even if you die, life will still go on for the living so it will be good to live your best life and not be too concerned whether you will please everybody. There is no need to pretend to be dead because you'll still be forgotten or atmost be remembered once in a while, nobody deserves to take away your happiness, except yourself. If you feel like your family and friends don't deserve you, then take a break from them, relocate or cease communications for something, do something meaningful with your life, try and become a better version of yourself, reemerge and they'll surely respect you more, because success is everybody's friend.

what advantages?? let see, if I'm dead the country would not demand me to work for military during my adolescent age because they do not need dead guy to serve military. There is a lot of advanatages it repel you from a lot of mf who come to you to look for gains.

It is nothing compare to those getting send to wars and get injured or killed, obviously if I pretending dead would the recruiter come to me and make me go to fight the wars to get killed? I know a lot of guy are not much dfference than Vladmidir Putin, those high achiever all behave just like nazi and making someone else to work toward elimination, obviously Putin is often get the headlines for funding wars.

Of what advantage is it if you when people say that you're dead and you aren't, are you scared about life itself of the people you're living with, or is it the government that you wanted to take full responsibility of everything that has to do with you, declaring one being dead means your total disappearance is needed and it's only you that will believe you aren't dead, your family, government and the entire world will know you're dead while you're still alive somewhere unknown to anyone, but what profited a man in doing this.

Depending on where OP lives, it would take to give a bribe to some people working on the government offices, in order for him to be declared deceased, though I doubt some employee will take the chance to get fired or imprisoned because someone wanted to do something like OP is talking about.
Also, OP should consider that doing something like that would imply he would not longer have access to important documents like passports, IDs, since those would be invalidated. He would be a de facto stateless person while also trying to about people he does not like, to me it sounds too complicated.

I agree with those things you say which could help anyone feeling in need of friends or relationships, one is supposed to seek for help as soon as one believes it necessary.

My post wasn't about whether playing video games is bad or not, but about avoiding things that turn off your thinking and disconnect you from the world. In this sense video games are the same as drugs and alcohol. Playing video games for money is fine as long as you can treat it like work, especially if you can do it in the evening and have a whole day to do other things. Compare 2 random situations:
John wakes up at 10 am, starts his stream, plays for 14 hours straight with only bathroom and food breaks, then it's bed until 10 the next day.
Tom wakes up at 7, goes to school, comes back in the afternoon, eats dinner, goes to the gym or rides a bicycle, at 7 he starts his stream and plays until midnight.
Tom earns 30% of what John does, but his life is better, more full and more productive. If you play because you want to be far from society and/or your thoughts, you're lost.


Actually I'm more of a guy that doesn't like to work 9-5 every day, so I quit my normal job over 10 years ago and chose to work part-time. I did the math, compared my options and came up with a plan that my family had an old abandoned house in the woods and we were living in a city apartment, so we came to an agreement that I'd get the house for free if I can fix it and take care of the property. We moved there and rented out our apartment to have some additional income. My wife didn't want to quit her job, so she was driving there every day and I was working on the house basically doing everything by myself from plumbing to painting. We only had a few things done by contractors like roofing and insulation, so I'm not the wage slave you think I am.

To answer your question if whether will the government believe if you are dead well that depends you are going to have to show very convincing proof that you are indeed dead and then create a whole new person for you to claim to be when the real you is dead

That’s the more complicated route down but there is one more thing you could do

Cut off the people you think are not good for you, get into therapy, maybe move somewhere else try to find new hobbies or focus on the ones you already have now and then try to meet new people

those are not newsworthy btw, you know what is mind blowing now? People are beginning to accept video game currencies, etf is accepted for video game currencies, there is no going back in economics, the rate of rapid shifting of lifestyle, from paycheck jobs to work from home, and beginning to accept crypto for political campaign, how is nobody see the stupidity that is going on?

Is playing games a very bad time wasting hobby to do? of course which parent would tell their kids to earn video game money, every parent tell their kids to go to school and earn the greenback, not some funny video game money, do you see anything has changed to the parent? I see politician has begin to make shifting to virtual currencies, look like parent are just like the usual cattle who would rather wait and see, waiting for the politician to rescue them and their family and their kids, they have a lot of hope put into the political reformation to save the day!

idk how well you did, but it seem you are going to follow the typical wage-slaving, earn stable paycheck income from a stable job, feeding family seem to be the first priority, then by all means, you are doing well under this extreme market condition.

I believe there's will be one of your family, friend of someone who knew about you will realize when you're dead, they might cry for one day and thinking about you for few day(s)/week(s), but what's you looking for?

This is why we need to find something that we likes to do in this world, without need to think about other people' opinions. I know the current generation think money is the most important thing, but if you think no need to being rich, no need to save money, and it's fine to live by paycheck to paycheck, I won't blame you.

Or maybe, you likes to have a conversation with someone else? touch the grass and try to meet other new people instead of your old friends.

I'm really sorry you're going through this. Talking to friends, family, or a pro can make a big difference. Pretending to be dead isn't the answer. It's better to open up and get support. Communicate with your friends about how you're feeling or consider talking to a mental health pro. There are healthier ways to cope than going to extremes like pretending to be dead.

grown-up you said, that is kinda full of woman logic, and tbh the entire replies seem to be full of indoctrination, I'm not against such advices, but I can quicky smell sarcasm in the advices after reading too much history or getting more and more mentally prepared, btw it is as always we have read news how accidents happens due to friends going to do biking together. I overhear my neighbor have a good guy kid went out with his good friend for a trip to the sea some years ago, but unfortunately the good guy friends got killed in the sea for some stupid reasons, the mum was left crying day after day for losing a son in the accident, the lesson of the story???

of course I should not have demand anything such as emotional support from another guy, lmao, they dont owe me nothing btw, not both financially or emotionally in debt. if there is anything at all between us, that have to be some pointless string attachment (friendship tbh) that is fragile and have just one-use-away, just like a ticket after your tear it, it is useless piece of paper.

people who need being positive energy to live a fulfilling life, I have no idea why people crave positive vibes so badly, is it very attrative when you follow all the socially accepted goal of life, go to school get good with grade get job with plenty of benefit get married have kids have house and invest into stock, I know when you have achieved that epitome of life where you beat a lot of guys to finally get to the first place, you received so much attentions, coverage from media, become the talk of the most influential people between your bloodlines, I too experience that same vibes too, but does it get bored quickly too, it make you feel full of hope (but then quicky become a victim to investment scheme that selling hope too, do you not wonder why banker mantras has always been about selling hope for future and family?), make your life, feel a life-changing experience, feel like when you working toward American Dream you can change the world to better, while also unknowingly working toward protecting the status quo system.

Dont get me wrong, there is guy who can live just well by accepting both positive or negative vibes, most businessman do not brother living a life under negatives vibes, they have to deal with as much people as possible, doesn't matter they are goods or the bad guys, I had seem businessman dealing with hitman service while also dealing with the top officer in the police station like nobody business as long as there is profit under the deal, you think GTA only existed in video games?

We actually can't feel your pain, the condition which you are can be very traumatizing, yes! But I think their is every way, time and season which everything will go back to being normal.
We all are humans and sometimes we are meant to feel heartbroken, lonely and times receive fake love due to the benefit attached to you, some friends and family members are all victim of this but all the happenings should not warrant you into faking your death.

You ought to remember after rain comes shine, I believe their will be a day, place or someone which you will find every comfort you ever dreamt of.

Looks like you're a nihilist, a pessimist, or both. Or you're just depressed.


I know people who do that by drinking every day or playing computer games 12 hours a day. There's a well known streamer who got divorced and had some health condition and it all burdened him so much that he started playing every day. People give him money and watch him play games all day, he has enough income to pay the bills and so it goes.

I have a small child, so it's impossible for me to disconnect. I have responsibilities that make me go on. I can't lie down and give up, because if I do, other lives intertwined with mine will get destroyed. My life goal at the moment is to make their lives happy and you need to find your own goals to have something to wake up for every morning.

You have to understand that we're all grown-ups and we have to tackle our daily lives. They might ignore you for a fact with their busy schedules and that's why you seemed and felt ignored. But as a real friend, you need to understand that unless you're in dire need and danger one or few of them are just one call away.

I've been there and done that, I just did my own thing and I didn't pretend to be dead but I just focused on my daily activities and like felt to be forgotten because I was too busy with those things. It was a good feeling after all that no one had been bothering me but at the same time, that made me feel sad because no one was there to check on me from my friends but only my family. Take it from there, your family is always there for me but if they're also the same as your friends, then take your own boat and sail alone.

If no one is there in the times that we're in need of someone to assist us, bring yourself alone and tackle this loneliness alone. But I wouldn't come up with that idea to actually pretend and have all my records that I am dead, I might even have a problem when I'll try to cash out my crypto profits. 

btw I would really want to use the "pretend dead" to test everybody else, it seem it is better to be "pretend dead" by now, idk I'd rather nobody ever make a phone calls to me and just treat me like I'm a dead person for the time being especially at the high time like now, you do not know what they are up to when they only begin to call you during the most chaotic of all time (the ATH of the crisis I assumed??), obviously we watched countless people get scammed up to millions to billions during the peak of the chaos, the text book irrational exuberance, it sound simple until we witness it again before us, and it come every ten years in a economic cycle. I know it is not possible to get lucky and not getting killed in the exuberance, I still think it is fortunate enough for me to live this long to see it clearly with my own eyes, without remorse, mistakes made, life is loss, greed overshadow everyone life, until they loss their life to the meaningless dream that promise them rewards such as "American dream, 72 virgins in the afterlife, invest in well diversified portfolio for happy ending retirement, princess Minnies as a reward", ahahahaha, what a honest mistake everyone keep falling for without knowing the danger behind them, which cost as much as their own life!

bantering with each other seem to be the only relationship that never get bored. A guy get to know each other through competition, since young age, pokemon red rival pokemon blue and become good friend in the anime, although the competition seem to be harmless when nobody get killed in the process, but things escalated quickly recently, the competition become so fierce we see guy actually work until the loss their life at young age because they do not want to loss the competition and begin to take drugs and overwork to please their boss or get promotion in the job ladder, I know a few guys who actually work until they collapse in work and later announced to be officially dead, I'm not saying those guy such of Do Kwon or the founders of 3AC capital and SBF I doubt they have the dead wish too and willing to commit crime that may end them in life-time jail to win a competition.

Faking death, I know that sound like joke, but there must be a way to get out of this "matrix", I do not care what the govt could do, internet is invented for this very purpose, it is used to be a joke that is full of haox and we keep telling people do not believe whatever you read on internet! but it has became so matured that you can no longer tell whether internet is still a joke, or whether you should believe what you read on internet! What else can be done to detach from reality after internet? idk the answer btw! All those attempt about rebuilding, starting to believe in hope sound to me just like the usual American dream 2.0 again where you would begin to believe it, working hard on it, and finally get total devastated by it, a boom and burst cycle, do you not get bored of it?

good people you said? I tot good guy always died, do you think there is still good people left after the pandemic? Read the news many of them have gone to heaven recently, there may have left people who are less bad ass, charlie munger died because he is not bad enough to live longer, obviously bad guy always live the longer than anyone else, it is always truth through the history, (I'm not saying I'm the usual "good guy" because I survive too!), because the bad guy can spend the money on life-extending research such as stem-cell technology, organs transplant, or mind transplant. Dont responding calls sound to be the only good approach honestly, especially in chaotic period (depression) like now.

The government can't act to you as a dead person except you present to them your dead certificate and it is funny that you can't present your dead certificate by yourself while you are still alive  So you have to die for your family to present that to them. In other words, whatever gimmick you are going to play concerning you faking your state of living or claiming to be dead, you need to collaborate with another person who would know your plan and help you to keep it and also deliver certain messages claiming and confirming that you are dead.

However, you sound depressed with the attitude you are getting from people around you. My advise is to stay away from bad people, people that don't help you to achieve your goals but only pull you down. This is new year, it is also for new kind of living where you are not satisfied with the way you have lived in 2023. Leave negative people and follow positive people that will make you happy. There are still good human beings, look for them and you will find them. Don't even think of taking your life.

well, you are not entirely wrong about trying to seek help from them, but that is fine because I have much bigger than normal social life, I too have real life friends who I meet each day and they are the real flesh which I can touch, not talking through calls or texts, surprisingly I seek help from those real people who are much nearby! however it is not fun when I was being target and pranked by those "good" friends, I knowingly know what I'm into it to test a person intention, "you cant read a person mind without testify them, even in the court you need countless testimony to make a judgement!" honestly I'm kinda disappointed, although I'm not dead, but I finally see what they are up to, of course everyone learn from mistakes. I'm not trying to educate or trying to change a person attitude, they are all high achievers for the very good reasons, high achievers all usually have the same set of mindset, they are very good at taking advantages of someone else for benefits, just like the broker from the wall street! may be trying to be extremely cautious the next time? I can never imaging a friend would want not just my money but also my life, that is quite disheartening honestly.

If you committed something bad that will make your friends to look for your relatives to ensure they get what you collected from them in form of loan or scam them , I don't think they will forget until they collect what belong to them as long you have the next of kids you use to filled their form. If government Carry out their investigation about your death, they will forget you but they will ensure they block all your bank details and other things for other people to know you're dead even though you are not dead and, you will no long have access to your details.

Many have use that system to test their wife to know how his wife will act to his family after death and, someone in my community did something like this to his wife, that made the man to hide his original document that contain all his properties before he pretend dead, and a months later, his wife stop all his husband family not to have access to any of his husband properties and the woman was planning to sell some of his companies before the man appear to stop the buyers not to buy the companies with the original document that made many people to believed that the man was not dead but pretending.

I've often pondered on the nature of human relationships; they can be both a source of immense joy and profound disappointment. Your experience reflects a hard truth: sometimes, those we count on let us down. However, I believe that detaching completely or pretending to be dead isn't the answer. Instead, it might be more beneficial to seek a deeper understanding of these relationships. Are there ways to communicate your feelings to your friends? Could there be underlying reasons for their behavior that you're not aware of?

On the idea of faking death, it's a path fraught with legal and moral complications. Governments and legal systems are equipped to investigate and debunk such attempts. More than that, think about the aftermath. What happens after the 'death'? You'll be cutting off all chances of reconciliation, new friendships, and experiences. I believe in the power of resilience and the ability to rebuild. Maybe it's not about detaching from reality but finding a new way to navigate it. Consider therapy or joining support groups where you can express these feelings and receive guidance. Life, despite its flaws, holds potential for change and growth. It's about finding the strength to seek out those opportunities.

I am at this point in my life that the only person who can reciprocate the energy that I give to them, I will consider them as one of the people who are important to me. We cannot control other people's thoughts and actions just to get the things we want from them. Everyone has their own life and they don't always have time for us especially when we need them and I think that's okay. You can't say no one loves you or helps you just because they can't answer you immediately when you're looking for them, but you also need to understand someone's situation before you get angry or hold a grudge against them, so let's not make the little things worse.

Sometimes people just want to be left alone or they don’t want to interact with you. Admit it and move on. You can’t force anybody answer your calls. Especially if she/he is not a family member and it is not a matter of life and death. You don’t like his attitude? Fine then next time you won’t respond to his calls also. I personally think the less people we meet the better it is. Especially in this age there is a fuckface waiting to ruin your day on every corner. There are some good people out there too but they are the minority so…

you say you were injured and expected everyone to help... well that too is you thinking they exist to help you when you are in need
which is pretty much the same as what you claim is their problem. needing you when they need help

just move away. find a new town to live in. start afresh.

just dont respond to previous people, find new people. and instead of relying on the new people to be around when you need help. become independent.

have people around you for social reasons with no expectations of "needing" each other for help
if they volunteer help, great.
but dont expect it. as thats the same hypocrisy you claim your old friends done to you

you wanna say even dead wont warrant you to escape from the matrix? obviously faking dead seem to be better option then real dead just like a lot of my "good guy" friends who died during the pandemic, totally unaware of the danger, and took all the vaccines and overwork to finally become a statistic number to the financial giant!

Faking dead isn't the best, leg go off those who only finds values in you only at when they are in need of you.
And not crave to be remembered forever afterlife.
Just move your life on without those who only have you in mind as their provider because they certainly have not good deeds of offer to you and besides you should ask yourself that... "Of what would it profit you if people are not concerned about your well-being but your name reigns forever"?

I think if you must go far away it shouldn't be because you want to take a dead but should be a reason that you have to distance yourself from those who doesn't give damn of your existence.

since people are savage, today they dont care whether you are dead, or they rather working to die, even my friends dont brother whether I'm dead, they dont answer calls, answer mails or answer texts, it is clear whether you existed or not doesnt really matter in their life, nothing of values is loss when one guy is dead from their social circles, they are fully becoming economics and social output, working toward eliminating each other. when they come to you, they definitely look for benefit, once you are injured, no more hecks is given! just like a wife come to you for monthly allowance and child support, once you loss your ability to earn income, divorce rape is inevitable. all of them act just like a wife irl but pretending to be friend with you and helping you.

what do you think, how can we pretend dead? I'm injured, but not yet dead, but the reality startled me completely, I remember what they did to me heartlessly, can we really totally detach from reality and disconnect from them totally?

so if I pretend dead would my friend really forget me completely ever existed in this world? would the govt really believe I'm officially dead and leave me alone in the afterlife? so is it possible to pretend ourselves to be dead and disappeared and finally making a fake official dead notice on news and announce to the entire world?