Problem Gamblers here who are in Debt ? - page 11.

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Quote from: swissguy on September 05, 2017, 05:00:26 AM

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

Yes I experience it before it before I dont know where to ,where to run.My husband before is a gambler then I have so many credits like loans credits and 56.I used to cry everyday looking for some place to hide to the collector of my debts.Until my family become messy ,umtil we separated.Many bad things happen when your addict in gambling ,it might broken families?and debts come in

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I don't have a debt in gambling but I know a friend who do, he recently have a debt of over $50,000 dollar and that kind of amount he never really expected to happen, because he never notice it because I think he is addicted to it, but he's not telling us that he did, now we are helping him realize his situation and monitoring his every move where he is going, and holding a number of his salary to someone that is trustworthy.

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I remember when I was addicted before, I really took a loan to bet on sports but then I realize when I lose the money, it's not good to gamble when you borrowed the money you play because it will just double the risk and when you are not fully focus you have a bigger chance of losing. The lesson I learned is not to gamble what you can afford to lose and never chase your loses because it will just make you frustrated and might loss control in gambling.

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Quote from: swissguy on September 05, 2017, 05:00:26 AM

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

The real problems of gamblers are that they tend to go over the debt as that is the reason why the fall into a deep depressiona and gamble more as they thought that they can pay it off with the winnings that they might have. It really is or should be changed as gamblers turn into toxic gamblers when they use loans as a means to earn

Addiction is the worst thing for any gambler to be indulged in but it happens that some unsuspecting gamblers find themselves in these situations and they become worse off by the day in their bid to make past recoveries of the losses. They often like you said go over the debt and think all is going to be well but they rather accrue more debts with their behavior.

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Quote from: swissguy on September 05, 2017, 05:00:26 AM

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

The real problems of gamblers are that they tend to go over the debt as that is the reason why the fall into a deep depressiona and gamble more as they thought that they can pay it off with the winnings that they might have. It really is or should be changed as gamblers turn into toxic gamblers when they use loans as a means to earn

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Best solution to regain happiness? It's an easy thing, I'm sure that all of us aren't relying all of our happiness in gambling. There is/are something else that you can find your happiness. But first, pay the debts or all the credits you've got. This makes you rooted and can't move on and after paying it, try to search yourself on where you are really happy.

What you said is correct. Gambling is not a life or happiness but it is one of the ways to get fun. But if one thing that they can't afford to get these fun then there are many other ways people can spend their free time and get entertainment. Always remember that you shouldn't either invest or gamble with the borrowed money because it can put you in a bigger problem. If you can't afford then don't invest or gamble.

Apparently, I'm having happiness with gambling and also with other things. You just have to know better about yourself. Others may say that gambling is an expensive way to have fun and the reminder that you had said is very true. Just don't add another problem or don't resolve a problem out of another problem.

If you're having happiness with gambling by loosing your money why don't you then try placing demo bets where you wouldn't need to bet with your real money and so nothing is lost if you loose.

Because those gamble for fun like the risk of losing money, look at all those persons that like to practice extreme sports or that practice marital arts, those activities are risky and they do it because they like the feeling they get when they do that, I think gambling is similar.

I guees you're right. Extreme sports, its like placing your life on the line. It has more weight than placing your money on fhe line. Though it wouldn't hurt to try other things especially if you're already in debt. It's not only you that will be.affected but the person you borrowed from as well

for sure you can find other source of enjoyment since you already having problem your mental capability handling this situation, when you already in debt its not healthy anymore continuing your game, better to listen with most of the replied here and see it yourself if how this will work for you.

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Best solution to regain happiness? It's an easy thing, I'm sure that all of us aren't relying all of our happiness in gambling. There is/are something else that you can find your happiness. But first, pay the debts or all the credits you've got. This makes you rooted and can't move on and after paying it, try to search yourself on where you are really happy.

What you said is correct. Gambling is not a life or happiness but it is one of the ways to get fun. But if one thing that they can't afford to get these fun then there are many other ways people can spend their free time and get entertainment. Always remember that you shouldn't either invest or gamble with the borrowed money because it can put you in a bigger problem. If you can't afford then don't invest or gamble.

Apparently, I'm having happiness with gambling and also with other things. You just have to know better about yourself. Others may say that gambling is an expensive way to have fun and the reminder that you had said is very true. Just don't add another problem or don't resolve a problem out of another problem.

If you're having happiness with gambling by loosing your money why don't you then try placing demo bets where you wouldn't need to bet with your real money and so nothing is lost if you loose.

Because those gamble for fun like the risk of losing money, look at all those persons that like to practice extreme sports or that practice marital arts, those activities are risky and they do it because they like the feeling they get when they do that, I think gambling is similar.

I guees you're right. Extreme sports, its like placing your life on the line. It has more weight than placing your money on fhe line. Though it wouldn't hurt to try other things especially if you're already in debt. It's not only you that will be.affected but the person you borrowed from as well

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Best solution to regain happiness? It's an easy thing, I'm sure that all of us aren't relying all of our happiness in gambling. There is/are something else that you can find your happiness. But first, pay the debts or all the credits you've got. This makes you rooted and can't move on and after paying it, try to search yourself on where you are really happy.

What you said is correct. Gambling is not a life or happiness but it is one of the ways to get fun. But if one thing that they can't afford to get these fun then there are many other ways people can spend their free time and get entertainment. Always remember that you shouldn't either invest or gamble with the borrowed money because it can put you in a bigger problem. If you can't afford then don't invest or gamble.

Apparently, I'm having happiness with gambling and also with other things. You just have to know better about yourself. Others may say that gambling is an expensive way to have fun and the reminder that you had said is very true. Just don't add another problem or don't resolve a problem out of another problem.

If you're having happiness with gambling by loosing your money why don't you then try placing demo bets where you wouldn't need to bet with your real money and so nothing is lost if you loose.

Because those that gamble for fun like the risk of losing money, look at all those persons that like to practice extreme sports or that practice martial arts, those activities are risky and they do it because they like the feeling they get when they do that, I think gambling is similar.

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Quote from: swissguy on September 05, 2017, 05:00:26 AM

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

I was in a deep gambling addiction a while back, I was extremely close to losing just about everything, including my girlfriend. I got help from her and her family to settle debts that I had and I started working double shifts to pay off whatever I owed to them. I think that the one thing that made me realize I was in an addiction other than the loss of money and property was when I was faced with losing the love of my life, that was the only thing that made me change and taught me to make better decisions in my life. It was a struggle and it sometimes still is as I still can feel the urge whenever I walk by a casino or come across a new online casino. I take it day by day and I tell my girlfriend whenever I fear I might relapse. So far so good and I've not had a gambling debt for over 3 years.

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Quote from: passwordnow on September 12, 2017, 10:36:52 PM

There's no best solution for them to regain happiness, the solution is in their hands. Try to get rid first with their debts and after paying those debts, light will shine on them. And they will feel that it's happy to pay all of those debts. They can't move on if there is something that is pulling them back and that is those debts.

One thing, let go and they will move on. Though I agree that to regain happiness, the solution is in their hands. There are several option, forget all about debts and gambling then move on with life, though this will give distrust to you. The best is as stated by passwordnow, look for a job slowly pay all your debt and avoid gambling. Time will come that all of these debts will be paid and you will regain your happiness in life.

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My story is also almost same had a big loss in fiat gambling and then came across with Bitcoin and knowed about this forum and after 2 yrs with this forum help now i have recovered 50% of loss due to working hard in finishing lot of tasks and taking part in signature campaign and other bounty campaigns. Some i recovered in sports betting by betting only on the matches which i am sure of winning. but most of the time i dont bet not more.

Same as well for me. I incurred a big debt on a bank and up until now I'm almost done with it with the help of my bitcoin trading and earning from signature campaign. Its really a painful lessons for me to. I had to go through this process for more than 2 years just to pay everything that I have squandered during the height of my addiction. I'm not going to back, because its really frustrated and I'm so disappointed on myself. I do still bet but for fun and I have control now.

Yeah, it is a shame, but that is the issue with addiction you only need to make one mistake and suddenly your life changes forever, even if it has took you so long to overcome this ordeal at least you have learned your lesson and it is something that is going to help you for the rest of your life.

Wow. Seriously, these stories saddens me. Why would you guys risk so much just to gamble? Did you guys really think you will double the money in the end? I guess the thought process was really twisted at the time you decided to gamble the money. Good that you are regretting it and I hope people see this as a lesson too.

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My story is also almost same had a big loss in fiat gambling and then came across with Bitcoin and knowed about this forum and after 2 yrs with this forum help now i have recovered 50% of loss due to working hard in finishing lot of tasks and taking part in signature campaign and other bounty campaigns. Some i recovered in sports betting by betting only on the matches which i am sure of winning. but most of the time i dont bet not more.

Same as well for me. I incurred a big debt on a bank and up until now I'm almost done with it with the help of my bitcoin trading and earning from signature campaign. Its really a painful lessons for me to. I had to go through this process for more than 2 years just to pay everything that I have squandered during the height of my addiction. I'm not going to back, because its really frustrated and I'm so disappointed on myself. I do still bet but for fun and I have control now.

Yeah, it is a shame, but that is the issue with addiction you only need to make one mistake and suddenly your life changes forever, even if it has took you so long to overcome this ordeal at least you have learned your lesson and it is something that is going to help you for the rest of your life.

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Quote from: passwordnow on September 12, 2017, 10:36:52 PM

There's no best solution for them to regain happiness, the solution is in their hands. Try to get rid first with their debts and after paying those debts, light will shine on them. And they will feel that it's happy to pay all of those debts. They can't move on if there is something that is pulling them back and that is those debts.

Yeah, problem gamblers who are in debt, they have no properly solution, their debt never give them happiness, and in this way, their family also disturb. The best solution is here or not, but we should avoid to borrow for gambling. All debt disturb your life and these type of gamblers have no respect in others people's eyes.

Yeah I think it's more on controlling yourself on how much you can afford to lose when yiu do gambling if you can't control your feelings and emotions then you'll probably have a lot of problems when it comes to money in the future which will ruin your life and family too.

It is not about lost as you mentioned. You are learning if you are losing. After loss there is a victory. As you mentioned about emotions it is upto people that what type of people are how they are dealing with loss and win.

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Quote from: passwordnow on September 12, 2017, 10:36:52 PM

There's no best solution for them to regain happiness, the solution is in their hands. Try to get rid first with their debts and after paying those debts, light will shine on them. And they will feel that it's happy to pay all of those debts. They can't move on if there is something that is pulling them back and that is those debts.

Yeah, problem gamblers who are in debt, they have no properly solution, their debt never give them happiness, and in this way, their family also disturb. The best solution is here or not, but we should avoid to borrow for gambling. All debt disturb your life and these type of gamblers have no respect in others people's eyes.

Yeah I think it's more on controlling yourself on how much you can afford to lose when yiu do gambling if you can't control your feelings and emotions then you'll probably have a lot of problems when it comes to money in the future which will ruin your life and family too.

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Quote from: swissguy on September 05, 2017, 05:00:26 AM

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

The main problems of gamblers that are in debt is that they didn't able to pay it back all the money they borrowed they just still borrow money from different people and continue to play gambling even if they are always losing. They end up bankrupt and not paying the money they borrowed from different people.

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Quote from: swissguy on September 05, 2017, 05:00:26 AM

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

The problem is that they always play and play and continue to borrow money to different people just to play gambling because of the greedy attitude and the confidence of winning eventhough it doesn't. Many people are always borrowing money just to gamble but they not able to pay it back because of always losing.

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Best solution to regain happiness? It's an easy thing, I'm sure that all of us aren't relying all of our happiness in gambling. There is/are something else that you can find your happiness. But first, pay the debts or all the credits you've got. This makes you rooted and can't move on and after paying it, try to search yourself on where you are really happy.

What you said is correct. Gambling is not a life or happiness but it is one of the ways to get fun. But if one thing that they can't afford to get these fun then there are many other ways people can spend their free time and get entertainment. Always remember that you shouldn't either invest or gamble with the borrowed money because it can put you in a bigger problem. If you can't afford then don't invest or gamble.

Apparently, I'm having happiness with gambling and also with other things. You just have to know better about yourself. Others may say that gambling is an expensive way to have fun and the reminder that you had said is very true. Just don't add another problem or don't resolve a problem out of another problem.

If you're having happiness with gambling by loosing your money why don't you then try placing demo bets where you wouldn't need to bet with your real money and so nothing is lost if you loose.

I find that happiness as an odd type of happiness. If there are people who are happy to lose their money they are rich enough and will not get into this problem to have in debt to others. Anyway no one said here that they are happy in losing money when they gamble.

i think even for rich person which have debt will not happy if they are losing their money and i am sure that there is no one will want to loss their money too. but if we are in debt and we using the money for gambling then we get loss then its our mistake and before we realize this, our money is gone. so its better if we can thinking that if we are borrow money from other people, we must not use that money for playing gambling.

Of course they will not happy about it, they have debt and they lose their money in gambling so what they are expecting to happen? No one doesn't want to lose what he got for gambling. Your last sentence is very true and I can relate with it that whenever we tried to borrow money from other people, let's be responsible for it and don't use it for gambling.

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Quote from: passwordnow on September 12, 2017, 10:36:52 PM

There's no best solution for them to regain happiness, the solution is in their hands. Try to get rid first with their debts and after paying those debts, light will shine on them. And they will feel that it's happy to pay all of those debts. They can't move on if there is something that is pulling them back and that is those debts.

Yeah, problem gamblers who are in debt, they have no properly solution, their debt never give them happiness, and in this way, their family also disturb. The best solution is here or not, but we should avoid to borrow for gambling. All debt disturb your life and these type of gamblers have no respect in others people's eyes.

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Quote from: tabas on September 09, 2017, 04:13:56 PM

Best solution to regain happiness? It's an easy thing, I'm sure that all of us aren't relying all of our happiness in gambling. There is/are something else that you can find your happiness. But first, pay the debts or all the credits you've got. This makes you rooted and can't move on and after paying it, try to search yourself on where you are really happy.

What you said is correct. Gambling is not a life or happiness but it is one of the ways to get fun. But if one thing that they can't afford to get these fun then there are many other ways people can spend their free time and get entertainment. Always remember that you shouldn't either invest or gamble with the borrowed money because it can put you in a bigger problem. If you can't afford then don't invest or gamble.

Apparently, I'm having happiness with gambling and also with other things. You just have to know better about yourself. Others may say that gambling is an expensive way to have fun and the reminder that you had said is very true. Just don't add another problem or don't resolve a problem out of another problem.

If you're having happiness with gambling by loosing your money why don't you then try placing demo bets where you wouldn't need to bet with your real money and so nothing is lost if you loose.

I find that happiness as an odd type of happiness. If there are people who are happy to lose their money they are rich enough and will not get into this problem to have in debt to others. Anyway no one said here that they are happy in losing money when they gamble.

i think even for rich person which have debt will not happy if they are losing their money and i am sure that there is no one will want to loss their money too. but if we are in debt and we using the money for gambling then we get loss then its our mistake and before we realize this, our money is gone. so its better if we can thinking that if we are borrow money from other people, we must not use that money for playing gambling.

Agree with you but i think would be better if you give anyone suggestion for not use money from loan to gambling or trading or anything else. especially when they are on debts, thay will feel like have a burden on their mind and if they are push them self to gambling, it will make them lose more money then can't paid the debt.

Using those loan money to gambling isnt really wise and would really pressure you to make money out of it.This is why we should not think off on this would be the last resort to solve our problems because it would really make the things goes worst even more.I do really believe that there are lots of people who have have still debts on playing gambling and this should really be stopped by them if they dont really like to experience unexpected even more worst things happen as the time goes by.

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Quote from: tabas on September 09, 2017, 04:13:56 PM

Best solution to regain happiness? It's an easy thing, I'm sure that all of us aren't relying all of our happiness in gambling. There is/are something else that you can find your happiness. But first, pay the debts or all the credits you've got. This makes you rooted and can't move on and after paying it, try to search yourself on where you are really happy.

What you said is correct. Gambling is not a life or happiness but it is one of the ways to get fun. But if one thing that they can't afford to get these fun then there are many other ways people can spend their free time and get entertainment. Always remember that you shouldn't either invest or gamble with the borrowed money because it can put you in a bigger problem. If you can't afford then don't invest or gamble.

Apparently, I'm having happiness with gambling and also with other things. You just have to know better about yourself. Others may say that gambling is an expensive way to have fun and the reminder that you had said is very true. Just don't add another problem or don't resolve a problem out of another problem.

If you're having happiness with gambling by loosing your money why don't you then try placing demo bets where you wouldn't need to bet with your real money and so nothing is lost if you loose.

I find that happiness as an odd type of happiness. If there are people who are happy to lose their money they are rich enough and will not get into this problem to have in debt to others. Anyway no one said here that they are happy in losing money when they gamble.

i think even for rich person which have debt will not happy if they are losing their money and i am sure that there is no one will want to loss their money too. but if we are in debt and we using the money for gambling then we get loss then its our mistake and before we realize this, our money is gone. so its better if we can thinking that if we are borrow money from other people, we must not use that money for playing gambling.

Agree with you but i think would be better if you give anyone suggestion for not use money from loan to gambling or trading or anything else. especially when they are on debts, thay will feel like have a burden on their mind and if they are push them self to gambling, it will make them lose more money then can't paid the debt.

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