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September 08, 2017, 12:31:13 AM
#47
Never get into debt before you do it (borrow or credit), think about what it will turn out for you and how you will live after that. This is pure slavery, dependence on the creditor.
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September 08, 2017, 12:10:22 AM
#46
Gamblers with Debt is not new. Many of Gamblers (Addict Gamblers) had debts. I personally experienced that long time ago when I'm addicted to a dice game. I borrow some BTC for my friend in exchange for my salary for a month. I lose multiple times and wasted my 2 months salary just on playing Dice. I remember PD was the Dice site where I lose money.  Cheesy
As I've said, Gamblers with Debts is normal.   Cool

Yeah maybe gamblers with debts is normal because we always see and we known some of them that are really addicted in gambling. In short it's not new in our community. As for me, I'm not addicted in gambling, I always control myself whenever I play. Maybe I'm just treating gambling for fun and not for profit. If I win or lose then its okay and call it a day.
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September 07, 2017, 11:01:27 PM
#45
Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

I may not have acquired a huge debt but I almost had it at once. Though, I have a cousin who is really an addict, problem gambler. He owed a lot of money to a group of people where he asked for a loan just to continue playing and to the point that the people he engages with forcefully take his appliances in return for unpaid debt. As of today he didn't recover from it and tried to commit suicide. The only best solution I could see is to enroll him somehow on a rehabilitation program that specializes in Gambling addiction. The only challenge here is how you will encourage a person to be part of such program. It will take time before recovery takes effect. There is no easy way out especially in this type of addiction.
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September 07, 2017, 10:02:20 PM
#44
I have seen some people with gambling addiction problems, that helped me to keep alert about this risk and to control myself to don't let gambling control my actions and my money. It's always important to be under control to don't be in debt. I'm in Crypto-Currency world to build fortune and don't to lose all my money and borrow it from others to continue gambling like a crazy addicted man.
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September 07, 2017, 09:44:11 PM
#43
Gamblers with Debt is not new. Many of Gamblers (Addict Gamblers) had debts. I personally experienced that long time ago when I'm addicted to a dice game. I borrow some BTC for my friend in exchange for my salary for a month. I lose multiple times and wasted my 2 months salary just on playing Dice. I remember PD was the Dice site where I lose money.  Cheesy
As I've said, Gamblers with Debts is normal.   Cool
Thats sad and i would say you do really have the addiction towards dice games on those times.Risking your 2 months salary is a dumb thing to do and working just to pay on your debts is very tiring but well those things is charge to experience and we are sure those things wont really happen again once we realized our mistakes. Having debts would really be common on this gambling field specially on addicted ones who do play no matter what the cost.
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September 07, 2017, 09:21:35 PM
#42
Gamblers with Debt is not new. Many of Gamblers (Addict Gamblers) had debts. I personally experienced that long time ago when I'm addicted to a dice game. I borrow some BTC for my friend in exchange for my salary for a month. I lose multiple times and wasted my 2 months salary just on playing Dice. I remember PD was the Dice site where I lose money.  Cheesy
As I've said, Gamblers with Debts is normal.   Cool
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September 07, 2017, 08:51:12 PM
#41
I personally know someone too that lost everything he has because of gambling addiction he sold all his jewelries and his lot because he was on debt and he also need money to gamble. He also lost his business because he don't have money to finance it and last he lost his family because his family can't stand his addiction and they've been trying to help him but he refuse and gets mad instead.
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September 07, 2017, 07:18:21 PM
#40
The first thing is the person need to stop gambling immediately and swear that never going to gamble again, then that person need to pay for the debt you can asked a loan from your friends or family and you need to get a job to pay them, my friends ever being in debt because of gambling and he borrowed money from a lot of people and doing part time job to pay all the debt, at this time the person need a lot of support, people will trust you if you really want to change and fix the situation
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September 07, 2017, 05:34:38 PM
#39
If you can't handle your on problem regarding of your addiction in gambling maybe not to try to ask debt on your family or friends because it is like your starting to wreck your life and you will be on the ground for real makingg ykur self poor is not a good one once for all think about it how if you start saving instead of play gambling i once before in deb which is i don't know how can i pay it because i am a jobless man till i realize one thing stop playing and start dreaming
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September 07, 2017, 05:33:51 PM
#38
Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

First thing, stop gambling, second, find a good job or start earning money.  Do not live in luxurious life, be thrifty and save.  If ever the debt is on friends and relatives, asked for extension and pay little by little.  If it is on bank then give a promisorry note and ask for amnesty so that the money won't continue to have interest.  It is hard but doable if the person is so determined.  Only a coward will kill himself and do not face consequences.
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September 07, 2017, 05:30:23 PM
#37
Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
I have a friend that was in debt because of gambling and I can tell you that gambling addiction can be as addicting as being addicted to any drug, the only way to try to recover for people like that is to have hope, to have something to live for, because the hole he dig himself up is one that is going to be very difficult to escape.
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September 07, 2017, 05:14:56 PM
#36
There are so many gamblers who are in debt and this is the worst thing to even do never ever gamble using someone else money. Gambling is a game of luck and there is no guarantee if you will even make profit if no profit means you made loss and you won't have enough money to repay him
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September 07, 2017, 02:26:34 PM
#35
Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
I was hooked in gambling once but I found someone who changed me and I am really thankful for that,
I also lost a huge amount from gambling but for real I really think that you couldn't earn every thing that you lost in gambling,
So just take it easy not everyone is skilled to win a huge amount from it or lucky enough to win most of the games,
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September 07, 2017, 02:08:45 PM
#34
I have once lost all I have in my online wallets for investment in gambling after playing head and tail game for whole night to just kill time.  I tried to find out pattern in results to multiple my money but eventually I lost all after betting bigger amounts thinking that I have finally found patterns LOL.

I was in serious depression those days and I was living alone it felt like hell, But I had my father on my back so I didn't have to worry about how to sustain my life even after that huge loss on gambling. But to get rid of those regrets I have about those big loss, I spended most of my time in work and even in leisure time I learned how to earn online from zero to start again.

I have finally stopped gambling and doing trading to earn online starting from almost zero after that loss.
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September 07, 2017, 01:47:40 PM
#33
First things first, tell your friend that suicide is not an option. If he or she incurred that debt with a loan shark, killing yourself will not solve it. By doing so, you are giving your family the responsibility for all the mess you will be leaving. It is never an option.

Now, you said he is jobless, and with over 10k debt. The next thing he should do is quit gambling, period. If he is too ashamed to approach his/her family for help, be a good friend and approach them for him or her. Small things like these can sometimes change a person's life for the better.
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September 07, 2017, 01:38:18 PM
#32
I know I have a gambling problem but it didn't came to me to borrow money just for the sake of my own addiction before. That is shameful for me.
I still have it whenever I start gambling I cant stop so I just dont open the website just so I wont do it.
Happiness? It is in you. You have to start step by step. Create a new hobby, a way to forget about gambling. It could be sports or games in the internet or your phone.
Spend time with the family. Also a good way and you could create a bond with your own relatives.
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September 07, 2017, 01:31:12 PM
#31
Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )
Dude, first of all you need to give them hope. When a person reaches the point of committing suicide that means he finds no hope of surviving. You need to make them realize that it is not the end.
Every end has a new beginning actually. Then tell them to join signature campaigns and give up on gambling. Also, do any sort of work that comes in their way. Tell them you believe in their capabilities even if you don't, at least they will find the courage to fight.
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September 07, 2017, 04:16:25 AM
#30
Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

Just don't kill themselves! Life really has a lot of things still to offer than just be miserable and thinking to kill themselves! The problem is that people get narrow minded whenever faced with problems. They think it is the end of the world of them and the only solution is to kill themselves. Well they are wrong, they can still pay back those debts and they can still live a happy life. It may be hard, but that is the consequence of what they did.
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September 07, 2017, 03:45:41 AM
#29
so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

They are experiencing extreme loss and depression so they are getting up to the point that they try to kill themselves. Just like my favorite word, "No man is an island." This quote is very true, you can't survive alone without the help of others, your friends, family, adviser experts or any stranger that can help you to get through from that depression. The best solution is to have a social life.
It's always good to have someone to talk to,someone we look up and rely too. We can't solve our battle alone, we need to move on and see the importance of the people who care to us. If gambling already change you,  who worsten your situations then think. Is it still worthy? Playing gambling is fun but playing too much might cause us to regret decisions.
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September 07, 2017, 02:35:22 AM
#28
I know of one guy who was addicted to gambling since 16 years old. He didn’t change after married and having 2 kids. He was in the same situation as what you described – Big debt and debtors went to his house and disturb his family.

He changed when he is in his mid-40s, he is lucky to meet a business partner who supports him in starting a business. Now, he does not gamble and work very hard for the business. He looks very happy when I met him few months back.

IMO, people will change when they see hope in their life. Perhaps a debt management repayment plan will help.
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