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Topic: Problem Gamblers here who are in Debt ? - page 2. (Read 3427 times)

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December 19, 2017, 10:11:28 PM
Money is everything to us and debt that is unpayable can really destroy your life. A lot of people are getting addicted to the gambling and with the bad moves in their life, they are making way to their doom. Their demise is getting even bigger when they come to the endpoint. Every gambler that has problems with the money and that has suffered the big losses must find "that something" to put him on the right way again. The instant money present would be the best solution for every gambler problems but the life is a little more complicated than that. People with the strong will can prevail all the debts they have made but to be completely relieved and put back to the trail of happiness gamblers with the debts must decide if the gamble itself is more precious then their life.

Debt is something we do not want to do. But we also have to know the situation, if there is an urgent need and we really need quick money then we can owe, but only for the purposes that must be met. If debt is just for gambling then it is an essential folly. It would be foolish to force a debt to gamble or to have a lot of debt because the possessions are always spent on gambling.
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December 19, 2017, 04:40:43 PM
Money is everything to us and debt that is unpayable can really destroy your life. A lot of people are getting addicted to the gambling and with the bad moves in their life, they are making way to their doom. Their demise is getting even bigger when they come to the endpoint. Every gambler that has problems with the money and that has suffered the big losses must find "that something" to put him on the right way again. The instant money present would be the best solution for every gambler problems but the life is a little more complicated than that. People with the strong will can prevail all the debts they have made but to be completely relieved and put back to the trail of happiness gamblers with the debts must decide if the gamble itself is more precious then their life.
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December 19, 2017, 12:25:38 AM
I am used to be a problem gambler with the huge debt but i did it, i'm been through everything and i'm back to myself for now.

Good to know this.
But it must of been a rough road to get thru to be able to quit it out of your life so to get back to normal again.
Your one of the lucky ones I guess. Because most the stories I have heard is that most do not and they are forced out of their homes and sometimes out of their own families disown them because of it.
They become to much of a burden and even end up robbing people for money to feed their addiction.
It is much like a drug in some sense.
Sad really. Sad
I am really surprised that how one had made a comeback from such a thing, however I have also seen people who reach to their death bed but still they try to gamble just to give peace to their soul.

Also I have heard many cases in which the people get through this rough and dry journey of their life only by the help of psychiatrists and for that they have to pay a lot of heavy dues but his loving ones pay just not to lose him.
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December 17, 2017, 05:49:01 AM
I know many people , who are really good people, they turn into the bad guy and scam everyone he met cause he's in the big debt. It's a sad story.
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December 17, 2017, 04:38:55 AM
Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.

Addiction is a silent killer. It's really hard to regain whatever you or other losses in this type of addiction. Though whatever it may take a person still need to reconstruct his/her foundation to continue on with his/her life. I pity those people who lost their battle with this addiction. I myself used to be an addict in gambling but I did everything I could to step out in this line of industry, I've been in debt because of gambling and I even lost my family and my house because of it. So I started to think more of my family than myself. I begin to lay low in gambling and spend more time with my family and defeat my addiction.

For those people who lose everything, they must look at it as a wake-up call for them to change and to totally fight his/her addiction. It would take time but just believe in the process.

so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

We all have this what we called fruits of happiness in which each person has different reasons to be happy. Generally speaking, for this type of cases. A person who is the middle of a crisis in his life must forgive himself and free himself from the chains that preventing him to be happy. Leave gambling as early as they can to avoid further damage. Yes, It's easy to say than done but it's the only way to regain one's composure against all odds.

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December 16, 2017, 12:32:48 PM
I am used to be a problem gambler with the huge debt but i did it, i'm been through everything and i'm back to myself for now.

Good to know this.
But it must of been a rough road to get thru to be able to quit it out of your life so to get back to normal again.
Your one of the lucky ones I guess. Because most the stories I have heard is that most do not and they are forced out of their homes and sometimes out of their own families disown them because of it.
They become to much of a burden and even end up robbing people for money to feed their addiction.
It is much like a drug in some sense.
Sad really. Sad
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December 16, 2017, 12:22:08 PM
i knew someone who is addicted to gambling before. actually, she was my close friend and she's still young. a promising nurse by one of the wealthiest personality here in my country. and because of gambling addiction she lost everything and had a big debt in casino. what she did is she sold her new built house and pay her debt. after that, they migrated to other countries with her family.
this is indeed the long term for addicted effect from gambling because their debt each days will high and higher again then eventually they cannot again paying their debt even already sold their wealth such as their houses but usually after they're losing their wealth but the problem cannot be solved automatically because they will find another way to back in gamble although already poor
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December 16, 2017, 08:19:39 AM
I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

The worst part is that gamblers who are addicted not only spoil their life but also their family life. They will borrow funds form friends or their families member for gambling and will lose that too amount. Now their family has to replay those debts which their children has gambled and lose out. This can affect the relationship as well if not controlled on time.


Agree mostly those gambler that has a debt the family mostly paying the debts because he cant repay it . Mostly of the gamblers will loan a money because thinking that they could get back their losses but end up lossing more. Mostly those addicted one is really a lot of debts because they cant mostly control their feelings on spending it , they only just bet and bet and hoping they could win big and not thinking their debts
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December 16, 2017, 07:52:09 AM
I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

The worst part is that gamblers who are addicted not only spoil their life but also their family life. They will borrow funds form friends or their families member for gambling and will lose that too amount. Now their family has to replay those debts which their children has gambled and lose out. This can affect the relationship as well if not controlled on time.
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December 16, 2017, 01:56:29 AM
I knew a guy , he's stucking in his debt due to the gambling problems. Suddenly he comes back, make a huge jackpot and having around 30k$ in his pocket. I suggest him to stop gambling but he won't listen. Now he already had a debt over 40k$ and his 30k$ winning are all gone.
Gambling debts are just like a shadow which means that they are not letting you free even for a single moment of your life and the gamblers are so much stuck in these debts that I have heard about some gamblers who for the whole life just remain paying their debts and the real amount is still left. I think other gamblers should seek a lesson from such gamblers because that time can also come on them.
Wow! What a great message you have given bro. Yeah! I completely agree with your saying that debts are like a shadow to their life which doesn’t let them free until they go to the bed of death.

Same is the case in reality that these debts are not letting the man go free however they remain with the gambler till the last breath of his life and finally sets him free when he is lying upon his death bed and puts his family in trouble after leaving the world.
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December 15, 2017, 06:53:15 AM
I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

If your life is already a mess don't ever try to do gambling because it can really ruin your life. Most of the gamblers are really in debt simply because of greed, people are showing too much greed just to get money or to get back their losses. Better not to do it when you are incapable to do so.

I hope that he doesn't use his money from debts to playing gambling because he will be difficult to pay his debts. without having a job, he cannot earn money and without money, he cannot pay back his debts. this is why that he must not gambling with that money and only use that money for another purpose.

Not many people do that anyways i think. People who are desperate and can think of no other ways to make money are probably those that do this. You're just making things a whole lot worse. There may be those that are saved by gambling but that mostly happen in movies

and we can hope that if someday we are in debts, we don't use that money to play gambling to make money. I think there are many people that realize about this and somehow they can use that money to open their business and after running for some period they can pay the money.
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December 15, 2017, 03:00:38 AM
I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

If your life is already a mess don't ever try to do gambling because it can really ruin your life. Most of the gamblers are really in debt simply because of greed, people are showing too much greed just to get money or to get back their losses. Better not to do it when you are incapable to do so.

I hope that he doesn't use his money from debts to playing gambling because he will be difficult to pay his debts. without having a job, he cannot earn money and without money, he cannot pay back his debts. this is why that he must not gambling with that money and only use that money for another purpose.

Not many people do that anyways i think. People who are desperate and can think of no other ways to make money are probably those that do this. You're just making things a whole lot worse. There may be those that are saved by gambling but that mostly happen in movies
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December 15, 2017, 01:20:50 AM
I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

If your life is already a mess don't ever try to do gambling because it can really ruin your life. Most of the gamblers are really in debt simply because of greed, people are showing too much greed just to get money or to get back their losses. Better not to do it when you are incapable to do so.

I hope that he doesn't use his money from debts to playing gambling because he will be difficult to pay his debts. without having a job, he cannot earn money and without money, he cannot pay back his debts. this is why that he must not gambling with that money and only use that money for another purpose.
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December 15, 2017, 12:56:17 AM
I don't have firsthand experience in that matter but my friend who is a big gambler has that problem. He is addicted in gambling in which he have to go to casinos every week and there comes a point in time where he started selling his things just to have money for gambling but before it worsened he got back up in his feet and started realizing just by himself that he is not winning the amount needed to cover up all the losses he have incurred while he is gambling that luck is not on his side that is why he decided not to gamble anymore. I am glad that my friend has change for the better, I am not saying that gambling is bad but losing all your money for it is.
This is common among on those gamblers who did face such consequences because of too much addiction into gambling. People do usually make some realizations when they are already facing hardships on life but well this is common among human that they wont really stop a thing if they didnt face any hardships in their life. Good for your friend that he did able to recover because there are some people which comes to a point on doing suicide because of such debt.

You will never be in trouble if you set proper limits and stick to them. You out x amount away a month or week to gamble and make sure it's additional money you don't mind losing. Never bet or gamble with money you need. Always use additional money that way you can win and enjoy it and if you lose it's ok you try again next week. If you use disopline you can gamble this way and never worry about addiction or financial problems. If someone can't be responsible and set limits then they probably shouldn't be gambling.
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December 15, 2017, 12:09:54 AM
I don't have firsthand experience in that matter but my friend who is a big gambler has that problem. He is addicted in gambling in which he have to go to casinos every week and there comes a point in time where he started selling his things just to have money for gambling but before it worsened he got back up in his feet and started realizing just by himself that he is not winning the amount needed to cover up all the losses he have incurred while he is gambling that luck is not on his side that is why he decided not to gamble anymore. I am glad that my friend has change for the better, I am not saying that gambling is bad but losing all your money for it is.
This is common among on those gamblers who did face such consequences because of too much addiction into gambling. People do usually make some realizations when they are already facing hardships on life but well this is common among human that they wont really stop a thing if they didnt face any hardships in their life. Good for your friend that he did able to recover because there are some people which comes to a point on doing suicide because of such debt.
Debt gamblers are those who keeps on chasing their loses, it's normal in gambling, they who use gambling as their source of income, apparently not eveyone were able to do this activity so once we think that are debt increases due to gambling better think of quitting on it or else worse might happen.
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December 14, 2017, 10:47:44 PM
I don't have firsthand experience in that matter but my friend who is a big gambler has that problem. He is addicted in gambling in which he have to go to casinos every week and there comes a point in time where he started selling his things just to have money for gambling but before it worsened he got back up in his feet and started realizing just by himself that he is not winning the amount needed to cover up all the losses he have incurred while he is gambling that luck is not on his side that is why he decided not to gamble anymore. I am glad that my friend has change for the better, I am not saying that gambling is bad but losing all your money for it is.
This is common among on those gamblers who did face such consequences because of too much addiction into gambling. People do usually make some realizations when they are already facing hardships on life but well this is common among human that they wont really stop a thing if they didnt face any hardships in their life. Good for your friend that he did able to recover because there are some people which comes to a point on doing suicide because of such debt.
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December 14, 2017, 09:52:51 PM
I don't have firsthand experience in that matter but my friend who is a big gambler has that problem. He is addicted in gambling in which he have to go to casinos every week and there comes a point in time where he started selling his things just to have money for gambling but before it worsened he got back up in his feet and started realizing just by himself that he is not winning the amount needed to cover up all the losses he have incurred while he is gambling that luck is not on his side that is why he decided not to gamble anymore. I am glad that my friend has change for the better, I am not saying that gambling is bad but losing all your money for it is.
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December 14, 2017, 09:44:34 PM
I am not a gambler, but I have a lot of debts and it affects the family financial. The things I do are always thinking positively, working hard, do my best, but do not repeating same mistakes and praying. Hopefully my life gets better.

If your life is already a mess don't ever try to do gambling because it can really ruin your life. Most of the gamblers are really in debt simply because of greed, people are showing too much greed just to get money or to get back their losses. Better not to do it when you are incapable to do so.
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December 14, 2017, 01:47:19 PM
I knew a guy , he's stucking in his debt due to the gambling problems. Suddenly he comes back, make a huge jackpot and having around 30k$ in his pocket. I suggest him to stop gambling but he won't listen. Now he already had a debt over 40k$ and his 30k$ winning are all gone.

It is really sad story and in gambling field we see a lot of sad stories like this. It is happened because we have no control on our greediness and in the end result is always giving us bad effect on our life. If problem gamblers have control on self then may be few gamblers just like you are telling the story people could save their debt.
Most gamblers have the mindset that once they were able to hit the jackpot, they have the chance of hitting the jackpot once again and therefore they throw whatever money at the hopes of repeating their success once again but thats very erroneous and they end up losing and getting into more debts.
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December 14, 2017, 12:27:37 AM
I have seen quite a number of articles on how rich people squanders away all of their wealth to fund their gambling addiction and most of them even got into the worst scenario which is borrowing money from anyone they could find and getting themselves into debt, the best advice is just gamble what you can afford to lose.

Gamble what you can afford to lose but still you cant able to control your self  still youll end up borrowing money because you can still afford it to lose but not thinking the opposite side that it will end up losing your borrowed money. I think those addicted to gambling end up borrowing money so that they think they can get back their losses but end up losing more.

Most people nowadays, just like having an minimum salary will relying on the debts such as loans from different person or lending company due to there salary doesn't exactly to there daily needs. Infact, the loan will bubble up to maximum limit in times of health. My point is there's  a lot to be prioritized compared in doing gambling. Gambling is a game that will only your luck can assure either win or lose and its unpredictable to determined the possible situation. The worst case might be doing such to gamble is the cause to bubble up your debts since theres a lot to be doing first it's not possible that it might be happened to each and everyone of us. Gambling may ruin everything like your financial supports and your relationship to your family because you will no longer support your obligation. Just control and self discipline to avoid too much debts to have a simple living with your love ones.
Yeah! Honestly speaking, gambling puts the gamblers in lots of debts and for getting out of these debts these gamblers also show attraction towards many other crimes like snatching, kidnapping etc and being caught in such activities not only put them in immense issues also their reputation made in society is also ruined and people blame their families for their doings who are totally unaware about all this and are innocent people and these debts are still left as a problem for gamblers.
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