True.
I sometimes think its some form of placebo. Give them some "good" nodes to add to a list and some commands and they feel like its faster but it would have probably taken the same time without all the tinkering. The bootstrap.dat however does wonders. I used it myself recently and its big shortcut even on a system with an old magnetic HDD.
https://bitcoin.org/en/choose-your-wallet
The general clicky-clicky-give-me-ze-coinz-now attitude of people towards bitcoin has ended in tears a many times in various shapes and forms. Bitcoin is not easy.
Most recent example IMHO [1] but I still have a little hope they are not lost.
I think the idea of "the official" wallet (beeing bitcoin core) is somehow stuck in the head of newcomers. I sometimes have the feeling they understand bitcoin as some kind of company that issues a currency and bitcoin core is the companies official client. All other wallets are just copies. It has the same icon as bitcoin.org, must be the best.
I just read the "choose your wallet" page again and it was greatly improve. With warning ! Take time to educate yourself and everything. I dont know what else to do honestly.
I read about a stampsized machine somewhere that can run a full node. Only ~16 connections though, but fully working node.
Anyway, that wasnt the post I was refering to. Its in the original paper [2] section 8. The idea of a client that does not need to download the full blockchain and not even a full block.
Edit: looks like headers first is coming [3] with the next update. That might speed things up.
[1] https://bitcointalksearch.org/topic/bitcoins-trapped-in-express-coin-bitcoin-wallet-826065
[2] https://bitcoin.org/bitcoin.pdf
[3] https://bitcointalksearch.org/topic/wladimir-on-twitter-headers-first-has-been-merged-to-bitcoin-core-826501