In my opinion you most likely got scammed. But without any further information thats just my first guess!
I've been doing this for a few years. So I've gotten pretty good at telling the difference between incompetence and malice in these situations. I'm not completely ruling out the possibility that he intentionally scammed me, but given the specifics of the situation, it seems quite unlikely.
May i ask how you found out that the displayed address doesn't match the displayed QR code?
Initially it was just because we noticed that the address that mycelium used on my phone had used was different than the address displayed on his phone. Then to test the theory, we tried scanning the code on his phone with another QR scanner from another phone. The address returned by that other phone matched the address that my phone had sent to and did not match the address displayed on his phone.
If you used your phone to do that it might also be possible that your phone (instead of theirs) is infected with malware.
I had used mycelium to send bitcoins from my phone very recently prior to this without issue, and then used my phone again afterwards (but before creating this thread) to send bitcoins from mycelium without issue. Additionally, because I've been at this for several years now, my security practices are significantly more careful than the average user. It isn't impossible that I could have an infected phone, but again given the specifics of the situation, it is orders of magnitude more likely that he was an extremely talented scammer, and orders of magnitude above that more likely that he is incompetent and a victim of some sort of malware on his phone.
It may be more likely that your counterparty had an infected version of mycelium / malware, but i wouldn't completely exclude this option.
I never exclude the possibility that I've made a mistake. As it is, I KNOW that I made the mistake of not double-checking the address before sending this time. I'm typically pretty careful about that, but (making excuses for why I wasn't as careful this time):
- I had many transactions in the past with this individual
- All previous transactions went smoothly, without ANY issue, so I was feeling confident that their phone was secure
- The amount I was sending the individual was less than the total profit I've earned so far from this individual (meaning that if they were scamming, they were only gaining back a percentage of what I had earned from them. They would still come out behind in such a scam, they would just come out less behaind)
- The individual had reason to want to engage in future transactions with me, and in refusing to pay me after I sent bitcoins they have terminated our business relationship. This will hurt them more than it will hurt me, as they have lost access to one of the most reliable, knowledgeable, and cheapest sources of bitcoins in the area.
- The user was using iOS and Mycelium (two pieces of software that I'm familiar with and for which I was unaware of any known threats that could replace the QR Code)
- And probably my biggest mistake... I was being impatient. Since there was no obvious threat, and an intentional scam would hurt him more than me, I figured I could get the transaction done quickly and with minimal inconvenience and then get back to what I was doing prior
The more I think about the situation, the more I realize the possibility that he was scamming me intentionally. This has many indicators that he did. The main reasons that I feel like he is a victim of malware, and not an intentional scammer are:
- In all my dealings with him, he hasn't come across as technically savvy
- This is going to hurt him a lot more than it is going to hurt me
- If he "stole" these bitcoins from me, then he stole back less than I've profited so far, so he isn't coming out ahead on a long con. He's just gaining back a portion of the profit that I've made over many months. I'd expect a con artist that talented to have gone for a bigger payoff at the end.
- He continued to contact me after we went our separate ways and came across as genuinely distraught about the entire situation whereas he could more easily have simply disappeared and never contacted me again once he was successful in his "scam"
I'd suggest to (at least) run an anti virus check on your mobile and/or check the QR scanning a few times.
I'm very careful about what is allowed to run on my phone. I've checked it over since this event. My phone is fine.