I assume it is my change, but why is my change not 0.25 - 0.02 ?
Your wallet doesn't use the entire UXTO in the address for every transaction. It analyses and select the input which is most suitable for it. In this case, your wallet chose the input https://blockchain.info/tx-index/233438884/1 to spend from. If you press 'show script and coinbase', you should be able to see it. Your change is the total amount spent/given as fee - the total amount of the inputs.
Change = Total Amount of Inputs - (Total Amount spent + Mining Fee)
Also... just to clarify why your change isn't 0.25 - 0.02...
The address you sent from: 14m5YnAypdnEdYo35qNRB6FC88fJgGpAmV had 2 inputs in it... one for ~0.14 and one for ~0.101... because you're only spending 0.02, the wallet does not need to use both of those inputs... so it picked one (most wallets try to use the smallest inputs first)... and it chose the ~0.101 input...
Thus, your change is = ~0.101 - (~0.2 + 0.0002) => ~0.8
If you had tried to spend say 0.12, your wallet would have probably tried to use the ~0.14 input in the transaction... and if you had tried to send ~0.2, it would have had to use both inputs.
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