Pardon me but I feel something is not right with your account because I cannot come to believe that an Hero member rank would ask of such question if not because something is wrong somewhere and the person behind the account is not really an Hero Member.
The discussion about forks has been said and done because the SegWit team cancelled the whole exercise and there were several threads on this last week when the news broke out which means no fork is coming unless some other forks that we are yet to hear of.
On those who control the fork, its made up of the team of individuals and developers who believed that they can make a difference and being backed by those with the financial wherewithal to push that as well.
Please actual read the thread before responding. This is indeed my account, and has been entire time. You are correct, I don't understand how Forks work at all, hence me trying to get more information.
I already mentioned I saw several threads last week and even responded to some of them not getting clear answers, which is why I created this topic in the first place.
At least a little thank you is indeed due, you sort of answered one of my questions. I am closing this topic because apparently it is just going to turn into a bashing session on me.
I only posted here because I figured someone could direct me toward some useful and accurate information where I could learn more about this, not so that people can not read, bash me, and provide little to no information.