if i send 0.1 btc with low fee and then 0.1btc with high fee , the first transaction will stay unconfirmed after 6 block anyway because of the low fee ?
also if send the money to an exchange why the exchange does not wait the transactions to come through instead of 6 block?
very confusing for me
Let me know the txid and the wallet you use, and I can help you double spend with a higher fee so that it's confirmed.
I used BlockChain wallet to send out.
The txiid is there https://blockchain.info/tx/72c4eadfe654f79307936ec0a2de74c87e5e92414120227d3ce8e15962556ee6
I doubt that double spending sees much use by scammers nowadays, as it will only work with people who don't have a basic understanding of the bitcoin network/blockchain -- To them it might look like the transaction is incoming, while it actually is never going to confirm.
It is much more often used by people performing RBF - Replace-By-Fee, -- rebroadcasting their transaction with a higher fee, as Darkstar already stated.
No, but it doesn't prevent you from sending out these coins again with a higher fee to another adress, thus making them confirm faster while it looks like they're going to be received by another adress.
(Atleast that is the case with most wallets, eg electrum.)