I think you people believe that if you remove the block size limit, then the block space won't be a scarce resource.
You think incorrectly. You continue to prop up and knock down the same straw man. I'm sure there are some uninformed individuals that are concerned that removing (or increasing) the block size limit will result in the block space no longer being a scarce resource, but those that are aware of the issues know better. Perhaps take the time to get a better understanding of the issues being discussed?
But it would be, as very big blocks won't be able to propagate quickly enough and won't build the longest chain.
That depends on the bandwidth of the majority of the miners, doesn't it? Those that have the resources to access the highest bandwidth will be able to shut out entirely those that have lesser bandwidth by intentionally creating blocks that are too big for the lower bandwidth miners (and pools) to propagate fast enough.
That means that for each moment in history, the world bandwidth will act as a dynamic block size limit. Miners will need to deploy tactics to ensure which size limit is the optimum and that will make fees drop to the most efficient level.
Optimum for those with access to faster bandwidth isn't the same as optimum for everyone.
I don't see where centralization is more likely to ocur in this kind of ecosystem (which would be prepared to scale) than in a capped one, but i see lots of benefits in a free bitcoin ecosystem.
There are a variety of attack vectors that open up when block size is unlimited. It is important to discuss them all, consider the ramifications, and make an intelligent decision about what will best protect the functionality of bitcoin, rather then making a knee-jerk reactionary "unlimited is always better!" decision.
Moreover think about this: Have you noticed that when more roads are built, more cars drive through them?
Nope. Haven't noticed that. As a matter of fact there are several roads in my town that were built within the past 8 years and have seen very little traffic on them at all. Anyhow, we aren't talking about roads here, we're talking about something that has a very different set of issues and requirements.
That's because there is a car latent demand awaiting to the roads to be built. The same happened when the blocksize was increased from 256kb to 1mb. In that case we kicked the can, no centralization happened, and the number of transactions grew.
Check this again and remember -> Block size was increased on 12 March 2013:
There was a hard 256kb limit on maximum acceptable blocksize? Are you sure about that? I don't remember that. Regardless, there's a significant difference in risk between increasing the block size limit and removing it.