I can`t stand my relatives. Various cousins aunts, uncles, cousins of brothers, etc. But my family wants me to communicate with them. they constantly come to our house for holidays and just like that. I do not know what to do .. Do you think what I feel is normal? Maybe someone else also has this feeling? Please share.
It depends did they treat you badly when you were a kid?
Or do you maybe just have a kind of reclusive personality, does this happen with friends too?
In my Opinion just coming to your house uninvited is crossing a line , you should tell them how you feel about that, but maybe they're trying to give you company for example think that you're lonely.
Me personally like to communicate with my family members by whatsapp etc. just from time to time i don't feel the need to meet up with them often sometimes they ask me for help with their computers or other things though, and i'm especially close to my brothers and cousins i couldn't live without them