One last item, I think in your testing you left off at a kind of a high GPU voltage (at least for ETH only mining). I have many cards running successfully as low as 875 mv or 900 mv while still maintaining a healthy 30 Mh/s hashrate (RX580 8 GB). This will reduce the overall rig power consumption even further as each card will be measured a bit over 100 watts at the wall and 66-70 watts in afterburner or GPU-Z. That is with ETH only, for dual mining you will probably need to keep it higher and leave it around 950 mv and you will probably be drawing closer 125 Watts per card from the wall, which is close to your second from the last example.
Many miners or newcomers starting to mine right now are not paranoid as you or me. So most of them leave their cards with plenty of volts cause they want maximum uptime and less restarts, to have an ultra efficient mining computer you need patience to actually understand that every 0.01 mv is important to save or give to make it stable. I don't mine but my friends pay me a lot to make their computers as efficient as possible in every sense. For them i'm a freak of nature in efficiency.
Yeah, I guess you got me pegged pretty well. I do have plenty of rigs with 6 cards and every single card has a slightly different voltage set, something like: 880, 885, 902, 887, 890, 892. I strive to run each card at its most efficient while at the same time providing the max stability. I don't like rebooting rigs everyday either and will give up a percentage of hashrate or power efficiency if it means more long term stability. I also like to use high efficiency PSUs, run them in their most efficient band, and even make my own heavy gauge PSU cables. I look at RAM efficiency, don't need 8 GB sucking power needlessly, CPU efficiency, and an often overlooked area, disabling unneeded motherboard accessories such as sound cards, serial, printer ports, extra USB or sata controllers, and so on. It may only knock off a watt or two per rig, but for me that is part of the thrill. How efficient can I make this entire rig. Gaining 10-20 watts per rig in efficiency times a large number of rigs is like running a few rigs for free.
Getting back to stability, I learned a long time ago while it may be nice seeing all your RX580's displaying 32 Mh/s, if it is only good for a few hours and often hangs or reboots you lose more during the resets than you do by dropping the clocks a bit and stabilizing the rig. I have many rigs with 1600+ hours of run-times and I probably would be higher except I did a mass upgrade to the blockchain drivers a couple of months back. I think my highest run-time before that was like 3600 hours or 150 days and I think that was only cut short due to an early morning power outage.
So while I do like efficiency, I like stability more, but that doesn't mean you just toss some high voltages at it and forget it. I think the problem more has to do with lack of patience, as you said, with most newcomers. They just want someone to give them boilerplate settings and be done with it. I kind of think it more of a challenge and similar to tinkering with a car to get an extra 5 horsepower out of the engine, I tinker with GPU settings to get the most from each and every one of them. Over the years as my rig collection has grown I cannot tune them all as much as I would like, but each new rig spends a week or two on the test bench and I like to think they are pretty well optimized before they leave for the farm racks.