some people become insecure about what they do when they get criticized. that's what will hinder someone to thrive in the forum.
just read and follow the rules, then everything will work itself out.
When it comes to criticism, I have been advised to learn to grow a thick skin over time. As advised by the chemist, I really took that advice as essential.
I will read, write and be more aware today than I was the day before. Thank you sir Lucius.
I really wish I could respond to every comment on this thread, but that does not mean all the responses I got were not helpful to me. Almost every day, I return to this thread for inspiration and guidance. Thanks for all your help. I will be locking the topic now.