Actually are you being serious or trolling right now? I want to rip my hair out knowing that, I thought later on this year it would have been activated as their are a bunch of nodes on testnet. Maybe I am underestimating how grand of a project it is, but still that dampened by day right up. Oh well, at least alts can party for another 2.5 more years than I originally thought possible

Unless he has a crystal ball and doesn't use it to get rich, he's trolling. He cannot know what's going to happen. The lightning network is growing exponentially. For now it's "only for advanced users", but I don't think it'll need too much until a business with b*lls will make it live for its customers.
He's not wrong. LN is still in development/testing phase which is long process, especially since LN use language which is harder to use than other language. Surely no one wants encounter fatal bug or zero-day exploit because developer rush LN development to make people happy.
Also, even when LN is ready for mainnet, we also still need to wait for more user-friendly Bitcoin wallet which support Lightning Network and surely it will take some times just like SegWit adoption.
There are few business which already use LN to pay their services with very low fees (1 satoshi or less).