So doing a shamir backup phrase an then storing the address but I was wondering if theres anyone out there whos got a detailed method on remotely creating a shamir phrase "securely?" was going to be doing 10 of 10 phrases but not quite sure the best method to do this for working strictly remotely ?
As already said by others, it isn't safe to do it online or in a remote connection. I wouldn't do that. You should use any tool solely in an offline and disposable environment.
I use TAILS for this and don't allow a TOR connection to be active rendering TAILS to be completely offline. After shutdown TAILS has forgotten everything. Import/export of safe scripts and data can be done with an additional USB stick before shutdown of TAILS.
As tools you can have a look at the provided three scripts here:
https://iancoleman.io/ (download the scripts, verify, use only the offline versions!)
Or you choose some other verified tools. Electrum e.g. can import SLIP-39 but not create it.
You should thoroughly test your recovery! To my knowledge SLIP-39 is not commonly adopted by other wallets. Trezor T can create and import it, Electrum can only import it. I'm not aware of other wallets to use it.
With 10of10-shares you have no redundancy whatsoever. That makes no sense to me, except that none of the shares reveals any details as a normal non-SSS split-setup would do. You loose any single 10of10 share, you loose all data as you can't recover anymore.
Do you mind to explain your 10-of-10 setup?