I find that I often get tricked in my personal commitments. Just when I think that I am standing strong, I often fall. I wonder what will happen with this commitment?
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I guess I'm committed to being single. However...
I find that I often get tricked in my personal commitments. Just when I think that I am standing strong, I often fall. I wonder what will happen with this commitment?
I find that I often get tricked in my personal commitments. Just when I think that I am standing strong, I often fall. I wonder what will happen with this commitment?
Relationships are definitely a part of our normal living. Many people around us are in relationships and many prefer to be single. I think this is one of the most annoying questions. Because many people don't want to share their personal things. But I will say I am single so far.
Establish yourself before committing. If you can't be successful at work it will be difficult to keep the promise. I have built my career because the family consists of parents brothers sisters wife and children. Family members share more in happiness and sadness. So it is necessary to maintain relationship with them. So far there has been no problem in my family and I hope to create a brighter relationship in the future.
Still single ,I'm very focused on building a career for myself right now which seems not easy at all and takes alot of time.
Time will come and you have a brighter look in relationship because you wanted to established profit making first before letting yourself into commitment in which for me a best action.
Me and my Wife have been dating for 8 years before finally got married and yes
we are still happily married upto now that we have college graduate already.
Currently single,Never been seriously committed to anyone before. That's my usual normal life
Don't rush mate, if you are young and enjoying life then try to deny from engagement as there is a perfect time for that , better that when you enter a close relationship then you and your partner will be having the same readiness.Goodluck for your future.
Currently single,Never been seriously committed to anyone before. That's my usual normal life
True Relationships are very hard these days ,Many are into relationship for one reason or another that is why there are so much break-up and lack of commitment these days.
Because they don't know what they are entering instead they are engaging in relationship for their own purpose and not considering the partners feeling.I hate relationship that one sided in which what most has now so break up and hurting are keep happening.
Humans are social creatures so people like to be committed and look committed. Now suppose I am alone with no one to ask me anything no one has any authority over my actions no one to tell me why you are doing this. In this way, you may be able to roam freely with an independent attitude but in this case, you have no responsibility, you have no accountability, so any kind of wrongdoing can be committed through it. A halfling and a halfling become fully human when they commit to each other. In this way, they can create an orderly environment through mutual responsibility and accountability free society from degradation, and move towards the light.
Wow😍 i,m married and i'm no singles i'm double 🤗
I don't know whether it is better to remain single, it's up to everyone I guess.
I still enjoy every moment of my girlfriend. Maybe that's because we're not together every day.
I still enjoy every moment of my girlfriend. Maybe that's because we're not together every day.
This is one of the most debatable topics I feel.
There was a time when people used to respect each other and truly stand for one another.
As the time evolves, things have drastically changed. So many relationships nowadays just break because they get bored easily.
Commitment is too much to bear in this generation where you end up heartbroken all alone. Being single is like a free bird out of cage but with certain cons. In the end, we need someone to look out for or the love and care we crave. It's complicated stuff to say whether or not to be single or committed.
The world is getting cursed day by day.
Cheers
There was a time when people used to respect each other and truly stand for one another.
As the time evolves, things have drastically changed. So many relationships nowadays just break because they get bored easily.
Commitment is too much to bear in this generation where you end up heartbroken all alone. Being single is like a free bird out of cage but with certain cons. In the end, we need someone to look out for or the love and care we crave. It's complicated stuff to say whether or not to be single or committed.
The world is getting cursed day by day.
Cheers it is better to be single than to marry the wrong person, and it is better to marry when you have found the right person, most relationships today are only based on materialism, liking appearances and also distractions, this is the wrong thing, to build a married, an couple must be willing to make sacrifices for each other and also respect each other, this is the key to a lasting married life.
i remember what my parents said, it is impossible for us to find a perfect partner, as long as they complement and understand each other.
At 52, I enjoy being single... I prefer short term relationships, get the good before the luggage arrives
But my feet get cold in the winter time. Desperado
But my feet get cold in the winter time. Desperado
Commited on staying single, some people enjoy their time when they are alone rather than being in a relationship.
We have different contentment, some seeks validation from their partners in order to be happy while others are already contented with their freedom, and they could focus more on their self improvement.
We have different contentment, some seeks validation from their partners in order to be happy while others are already contented with their freedom, and they could focus more on their self improvement.
I think its the first relation that is the real loving one. After that things just move on. I still miss the 2.5 month first relation of mine and after alot of years still not able to move on. I don't know about you guys but i think its the first relation that'll remain with you forever, atleast in your memories. And after that i am in relationships but still feel myself single
This is one of the most debatable topics I feel.
There was a time when people used to respect each other and truly stand for one another.
As the time evolves, things have drastically changed. So many relationships nowadays just break because they get bored easily.
Commitment is too much to bear in this generation where you end up heartbroken all alone. Being single is like a free bird out of cage but with certain cons. In the end, we need someone to look out for or the love and care we crave. It's complicated stuff to say whether or not to be single or committed.
The world is getting cursed day by day. Cheers
There was a time when people used to respect each other and truly stand for one another.
As the time evolves, things have drastically changed. So many relationships nowadays just break because they get bored easily.
Commitment is too much to bear in this generation where you end up heartbroken all alone. Being single is like a free bird out of cage but with certain cons. In the end, we need someone to look out for or the love and care we crave. It's complicated stuff to say whether or not to be single or committed.
The world is getting cursed day by day.
Cheers Commitment. I prefer to know I am for someone and that person is for me and the feeling of being specially loved by someone aside your family is amazingly great.
I love commitment and I’d choose commitment over and over again.
What if I say here that I'm currently still single but committed to a special lady, Marriage is considered an important aspect of life but the majority of the ladies out there are making it hard to settle down with them. At first, I didn't see myself settling with any of these ladies until I met my other half.
Well, that's truly lovely. congratulations on your wonderful life. Happy to hear
Every house has its cross.
Some women indeed watch too much social media or TV, which is all overblown.
And they reflect that in real life.
Some women indeed watch too much social media or TV, which is all overblown.
And they reflect that in real life.
As the saying goes, behind every man's success is a woman's hand. But this does not happen in everyone's life. Because I saw a neighbor of mine who was very happy when he was unmarried, he was living in his family with parents and brothers and sisters very happily and peacefully. Later he got married, and then his life was in turmoil. He also destroys his relationship with his brothers and sisters, just because of his wife. And he gets separated from his family too. And he often had trouble with his wife. One day this trouble escalated and they got divorced. Now think, who was living happily and peacefully with his family when he was unmarried, today he is separated from his family and his wife is not by his side. That is, for a woman, her life has changed from a free bird to a caged bird.
So I think, SINGLE LIFE IS BEST.
So I think, SINGLE LIFE IS BEST.
Singleness has a limit expecially in women. Men may love to be single forever considering how women behaves, but no matter how men may act about marriage when the actual time comes they become more serious than anybody else. but it's just like something of a must or will I put it necessary. Women need men and men need women we need each other just like left and right hand will wash each other. But economic recession is the reason why most men are afraid of marriage. some men find unnecessary excuses to lay off there partner because of poverty.
Sometimes the problem while some people remain single is do to there habit. Social media has made women don't think of anything again. All what they believe now is to have access to post videos of them self on social media flaunting there ass on social media to gain followers. When it comes to marriage they don't have any quality that qualifies them to be in marriage rather only good for fletx. and they will blame there inability of doing what is Wright on men.
Sometimes the problem while some people remain single is do to there habit. Social media has made women don't think of anything again. All what they believe now is to have access to post videos of them self on social media flaunting there ass on social media to gain followers. When it comes to marriage they don't have any quality that qualifies them to be in marriage rather only good for fletx. and they will blame there inability of doing what is Wright on men.
It's so unfortunate that there is no true companionship this days even if there is it's very rare as all what people are interested now is money and no love is attached again and it now looks and appears like being single is better rather than being in a relationship that will abruptly terminate when one of the parties is deeply in love with the other but not withstanding, there was a purpose for creating man and woman of which we can't run away from it totally so any way it is we should try as much as possible to be committed to our partners even if they didn't reciprocate in return as one isn't even completely happy while single and others are being in a relationship and even getting married.
I really enjoy the life being with another person but you have learn how to respect other people ways of living and their choices. Its not hard to live together even if you love that person
It's not difficult to learn to respect someone else
Try this with a narcissist partner, narcissist people doesn't respect anybody but themselves
You are right about that.
I really enjoy the life being with another person but you have learn how to respect other people ways of living and their choices. Its not hard to live together even if you love that person
It's not difficult to learn to respect someone else
Try this with a narcissist partner, narcissist people doesn't respect anybody but themselves
I really enjoy the life being with another person but you have learn how to respect other people ways of living and their choices. Its not hard to live together even if you love that person
It's not difficult to learn to respect someone else
I really enjoy the life being with another person but you have learn how to respect other people ways of living and their choices. Its hard to live together even if you love that person
Still single ,I'm very focused on building a career for myself right now which seems not easy at all and takes alot of time.
True Relationships are very hard these days ,Many are into relationship for one reason or another that is why there are so much break-up and lack of commitment these days.
Maybe because most of them are not looking for true love or right relationship instead they are just for partnership and the bad thing is that they are pushing it to marriage and this is the reason why they are ending breaking up or even badly like separation or divorce .
committed (lat relationship) can also work very well 
This is one of the most debatable topics I feel.
There was a time when people used to respect each other and truly stand for one another.
As the time evolves, things have drastically changed. So many relationships nowadays just break because they get bored easily.
Commitment is too much to bear in this generation where you end up heartbroken all alone. Being single is like a free bird out of cage but with certain cons. In the end, we need someone to look out for or the love and care we crave. It's complicated stuff to say whether or not to be single or committed.
The world is getting cursed day by day. Cheers
There was a time when people used to respect each other and truly stand for one another.
As the time evolves, things have drastically changed. So many relationships nowadays just break because they get bored easily.
Commitment is too much to bear in this generation where you end up heartbroken all alone. Being single is like a free bird out of cage but with certain cons. In the end, we need someone to look out for or the love and care we crave. It's complicated stuff to say whether or not to be single or committed.
The world is getting cursed day by day.
Cheers In as much it's between male gender and female gender is all about choice, although your not far from Truth alot of commitment is involved, at certain point in life one may deem it necessary to engage on despite challenges and what it will cost him, at this point many measure have been put in place with deep research of failure of others to avoid being a victim. Also proper examining oneself if is capable to handle the situation because there is a popular saying that an unexamined life is not worth living.
True Relationships are very hard these days ,Many are into relationship for one reason or another that is why there are so much break-up and lack of commitment these days.
Exactly well said
True Relationships are very hard these days ,Many are into relationship for one reason or another that is why there are so much break-up and lack of commitment these days.
I respect everyone's opinion specially in relationship thing because we have facing different
experiences with different people but for me I am a happily wedded guy for more than 20 years now and
stay happy and inlove with my wife and our children.
maybe the single thing issue is for those who cannot commit themselves completely in which
they cannot put down their ego and pride to choose the women/men they love because sometimes this
is also the main reason why failure steps in relationship .
experiences with different people but for me I am a happily wedded guy for more than 20 years now and
stay happy and inlove with my wife and our children.
maybe the single thing issue is for those who cannot commit themselves completely in which
they cannot put down their ego and pride to choose the women/men they love because sometimes this
is also the main reason why failure steps in relationship .
What if I say here that I'm currently still single but committed to a special lady, Marriage is considered an important aspect of life but the majority of the ladies out there are making it hard to settle down with them. At first, I didn't see myself settling with any of these ladies until I met my other half.
You don't have to be marrying that easy , sometimes we thought that love is enough to get married but its wrong , we need to have same likes , same point in life and also same ways of planning the future.
because even if how we love each others but we have different interest in life then the relationship will end like what OP is calling here.
because even if how we love each others but we have different interest in life then the relationship will end like what OP is calling here.
I think commited is better. You need some support in your life
But you also need to support them in their life? once you committed meaning you also accept the responsibility towards that opposite gender .if you are only looking for support(not financially) then try to find those in your family and friends instead of finding that in relationship that might end to nothing but heartbreak.
I think commited is better. You need some support in your life
I did always enjoy my single life. There is not a person to ask you questions about where you are, what you are doing, when you will be back.
But it is also nice to be committed with someone. If she is a person that you care for with your heart it is a good feeling for us men to have it.
But it is also nice to be committed with someone. If she is a person that you care for with your heart it is a good feeling for us men to have it.
Both life is good and enjoyable. Just that committed life is enjoyable if you are with the right person. The funniest thing in committed life is that, no matter how enjoyable a committed life is, there will still be something you will miss in your single life after being committed.
It’s true. Nowadays, it feels like commitment is a heavy load and many relationships break just because people get bored. Being single is like being a free bird, but there's a catch. Eventually, we all want someone to care for us. It's a messy choice between the solo life and having a partner but that doesn’t mean that you have to rush.
The important thing is that before making a commitment, we need something called mental preparation, so that problems such as broken relationships and boredom can be avoided. If you are not ready, be a free bird because happiness does not always have to be accompanied by commitment, because even in commitment there is no guarantee of happiness. Rushing is not good, but to prepare, we have to hurry because commitment is important, apart from looking after us in old age, we also have to have offspring to continue our generation.
It's hard to admit that our generation is something else, very far away from what it used to be back than when relationships was respected and commitment a thing of value.
Now its even better to remain single and run the sex shit 😇😇
Now its even better to remain single and run the sex shit 😇😇
It's because of the influence in many aspects like in social media, in the entertainment industry and with so many others.
If your partner is with into those matters and getting the confirmation from those places, you're unlikely going to be happy with how he/she will respond to your relationship.
Yes, that person can easily get bored because of how the standards becomes no more a standard or the standards become higher than the typical one that has been set before.
If your partner is with into those matters and getting the confirmation from those places, you're unlikely going to be happy with how he/she will respond to your relationship.
Yes, that person can easily get bored because of how the standards becomes no more a standard or the standards become higher than the typical one that has been set before.
I think the reason why we need to be single is because as long as you're single you're mentally healthy and as long as you're committed you're stuck in that place. Of course to live the single life constantly
one thing to be taken here .
Never be in Serious Relationship until you have complete capacity to give them more than enough in living
Money First before marrying anyone .
Never be in Serious Relationship until you have complete capacity to give them more than enough in living
Money First before marrying anyone .
While i do agree that the current generation has become more free in choosing their partners, we can not deny the negative impacts it possess more and more people seem to not give as much importance to romantic pursuits or relationships anymore and everything is considered way too casual
At the same time, i do believe that this mindset has some good impact if controlled properly
Because this current generation is very opinionated and goal-oriented, they know exactly what they want and are able to choose their partners in accordance to their lifestyle and needs
At the same time, i do believe that this mindset has some good impact if controlled properly
Because this current generation is very opinionated and goal-oriented, they know exactly what they want and are able to choose their partners in accordance to their lifestyle and needs
It’s true. Nowadays, it feels like commitment is a heavy load and many relationships break just because people get bored. Being single is like being a free bird, but there's a catch. Eventually, we all want someone to care for us. It's a messy choice between the solo life and having a partner but that doesn’t mean that you have to rush.
As long as the commitment or an intimate relationship with the opposite gender is done within a marriage which is between a husband and wife. The relationship needs to work according to the way it's designed to work otherwise it fails.
Marriage is union between a man and a woman to become one body/flesh. It comes with rules that make it work. The man and the woman need to be compatible enough and follow the rules if they want to have a long-lasting happy marriage life. And it's also important for marriage to happen at the time designed for both genders to meet each other and be joined together as one which is called the Right Time to Marry. No need to say I will marry next year, say instead I will marry at the right time, LORD Willing.
Marriage is union between a man and a woman to become one body/flesh. It comes with rules that make it work. The man and the woman need to be compatible enough and follow the rules if they want to have a long-lasting happy marriage life. And it's also important for marriage to happen at the time designed for both genders to meet each other and be joined together as one which is called the Right Time to Marry. No need to say I will marry next year, say instead I will marry at the right time, LORD Willing.
I did always enjoy my single life. There is not a person to ask you questions about where you are, what you are doing, when you will be back.
But it is also nice to be committed with someone. If she is a person that you care for with your heart it is a good feeling for us men to have it.
But it is also nice to be committed with someone. If she is a person that you care for with your heart it is a good feeling for us men to have it.
in this i agree sometimes in a relationship that does not need marriage I mean we can show love and affection , we can be together day and night but not with matrimony of marriage so there is no obligation completely .
we are obliged to love but we are not obliged to commit our self in that manner .
and also sometimes being single allows us to choose partners here and there because we are not committing our self to any one that serious.
we are obliged to love but we are not obliged to commit our self in that manner .
and also sometimes being single allows us to choose partners here and there because we are not committing our self to any one that serious.
This is one of the most debatable topics I feel.
There was a time when people used to respect each other and truly stand for one another.
As the time evolves, things have drastically changed. So many relationships nowadays just break because they get bored easily.
Commitment is too much to bear in this generation where you end up heartbroken all alone. Being single is like a free bird out of cage but with certain cons. In the end, we need someone to look out for or the love and care we crave. It's complicated stuff to say whether or not to be single or committed.
The world is getting cursed day by day. Cheers
There was a time when people used to respect each other and truly stand for one another.
As the time evolves, things have drastically changed. So many relationships nowadays just break because they get bored easily.
Commitment is too much to bear in this generation where you end up heartbroken all alone. Being single is like a free bird out of cage but with certain cons. In the end, we need someone to look out for or the love and care we crave. It's complicated stuff to say whether or not to be single or committed.
The world is getting cursed day by day.
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