His life is not destroyed, he is just living a different kind of life now. Perhaps he has a nice girlfriend, healthy food and plays video games 2 hours a day.. we can only speculate, but to live in Russia does not mean your life is destroyed.
Anyway, about what it is really about in the end: dragnet surveillance.
These guys (and many others) do not agree:
(tor is an anonymity network)
People do care, for example there is a recent phenomena of 'revenge sex', in which some people post nudes/sexual videos of their ex gfs. There has been some legal trials and all on these matters. People care about (some) of their data, most of them are just a little naive.