Topic: Some things just won't work out. (Read 288 times)

DeathAngel  what you said is nothing but the truth, no body can achieve it easily without a realistic target, many failure today is as a result of unrealistic expectations or Target. We can say we learn from mistake but not all mistake is Worth learning, any mistake that have take your happiness and possibly give emotion Truman should not be given room to occur at first place. Setting the right goal and achieving it at appropriate time give more healthy life and joy even if life is deem to be short on earth.

We just need to the best we can do for ourselves and not to bothered what people will say if we are not able to reach their expectations. One I thing I know for sure is that people's opinions doesn't matter and if you give attention or care about people what people will have to say . Just be yourself and focus on your target , people will always have what to say but it doesn't matter and it can not change anything for you to make things better.

I believe that life is all about getting the right information or the right connection at the right time as success most times isn't measured by how hard we struggle to achieve our goals but rather dependent on being on the right track, being on the right track simply just mean being at alert to know about things that are happening in the environment and giving the right solutions to some problems that might arise in the society.

You should have realistic targets though because otherwise, you are setting yourself up for failure. I could say I want to be a billionaire or I want to play for the Lakers. Realistically though, no matter how hard I try it is extremely unlikely I would achieve either of those goals. Set yourself realistic targets & work hard to achieve them.

Failure is an illusion. You only fail when you quit.

As humans we have a relatively short life. Let’s say the average age of death in 75 to 80, it’s not a long time is it. Life isn’t about how much money you have or what car you drive. True happiness comes from creating a family, having a good group of friends, enjoying yourself whenever possible. You can have all the money in the world but still be miserable. Make the most of every day if possible because we don’t know when our time is up.

People often consider what society approves to be the norms for being successful. Most of us have gifts that will fetch us a fortune but because we believe its not societally accepted as a standard we tend to want to do awway with it.  If we can handle our crafts and believe in ourselves, we'll excel in our areas.

I don't have much to say about this. I was born and grew up in an environment which really close to poverty, I have witnessed a lot of dreams withered and succumb to reality, but also I have watched people who had privilege in list just wasted their resources for nothing. What I have learn is, fortune play a big role besides hardwork, no matter what we do, no matter how hard you work, if you are not fortunate enough, if the fate is not on your side, you may not gonna work. I might sound like a pessimistic person, but that's what I think based on my experiences so far, eventho I think like that, if we stop working hard, we will not have chance at all against fate.

>If by being rich you mean having lots of money, ofcourse we don't need that to succeed, even though we can always get alot of it when we need it. In regards to the part on high intelligence and power, that in other words could mean "recognized and famous people are not necessarily powerful or very intelligent". I think those recognitions kind of lower intelligence and power when they get into the heads of the recepients . It's better to just avoid them by being discreet in our good works or giving glory to the ONE who made the good works possible

> in regards to being yourself, that is tricky part considering the fact that most people have been corrupted to be what they were not originally created to be. They have been programmed into something else by the kind of information they consume. That corrupted part is not their true selves but of the corruptor. So it's safer to tell them to be who they were created to be else they take up  false selves/personalities such as homosexuals, filthy singers, movie groomed scientists, false economists etc. They need healings to discover their true selves.

 Obviously certain people learn through mistakes, failure, trail and error. But we here don't pray for that. We are called to be perfect by our CREATOR, as it's written "be ye perfect".
And Ofcourse, we don't quit. It's hard to quit what gives you alot of satisfaction, happiness and joy no matter the challenges faced. People who quit are clearly missing this.

People always expect the best in us, especially if we are born with intelligence privilege. And those who are less fortunate, people will expect them to fail and suffer. But the truth is, some things just don't work out. You don't need to be rich to succeed and prosper, just like you don't need high intelligence and power to be famous and be recognized. You just have to be yourself. It's okay to lose or fail at some point. Life is not a matter of how much you gained or how much you lose. What's more important is that despite of your failures and losses, you never dare to quit. And you still face them with lots of courage and passion.