Relatedly, I get 1 closed friend way get hand work & almost everyday him dey go out 4 work dey earn him pays bt me in no get job and no skill acquired apart from me being a schoolar.
If this my guy no go work, me & am dey dey together morning til night. Him dey pettily rogger me at times we chop on 1 plate together.
Somtimes I talk of me going to find job, him go tell me say no, guy u big pass this job na while in som him go say... Guy nothing the salary go do u cuz e too small.
As him dey talk so oftenly I dey reason this guy Inside me say... This guy want beta 4 me at all? Cuz him never ask me a day to teach me him sklil or find me a job but always there to discourage me from getting job abi him dey enjoy me being home and asking him 4 penny at times?
And yet him no dey com up with any means of income 4 me oh.
Then I get to decide not to dey tell this guy my ways about after realizing say time no dey wait 4 me again. Na so til I fine myself a job & I kept my source unknown to him cuz him be like descended success blockage to me.
Summary>>> Learn to believe on ur self & consult were complicating but must be mindful of bad energies & negative influences roaming around against ur success.
No fear to do ur unusual or doing new tins. There is always a protocol breaker and it could be u.
Topic: "They said..." Mentality leave you in poverty and ignorance. (Read 101 times)
Have you met people who are always with the right information but are always not ready to act on it because of the rumors they've heard from people about those things?
Some persons had good business ideas but because they've heard certain thing about people that have previously done such business, you will see them make statements like " I been hear say this one or that one de involved in that business oh" and before you know, big dream done die like that and them no go wan proceed with the business.
No be only rumors shah but, the scare they get from the competition and that no mean say, the competition physically assault them or something like that o but, the loud progress and resources way dey available to the competition dey sometime give new investors for the field headache and heartbreak. You ho get good and better plan way fit blow you but the fear say. Person don see better and gain ground for the field and fit even crush you at anytime no go even let you start. Just like that, you don discourage finish and your idea go just dey stock in your head.Some persons had good business ideas but because they've heard certain thing about people that have previously done such business, you will see them make statements like " I been hear say this one or that one de involved in that business oh" and before you know, big dream done die like that and them no go wan proceed with the business.
That na to say, you no be risk taker and no ultimately believe in watin you fit archive. Competition no suppose hinder progress but to push you to do betters who knows, before the big brand go even notice you to press you, you don gain ground for a certain area and grow from there. No let fear of expressing your ideas hinder your progress.
You need to understand that their are some people that are very negative in nature, they can never tell you the positive side of things, they will always look for excuses for you not to do it.
Some people if you ask dem about their business dey don want to tell, in every business there is a secret and that is the reason why dey don't discuss it out. So don blame them for acting in that manner. Asking one person about a business you want do is not that enough, you have to ask so many people so that dey share their own experience and also in and out of the business. The best I think for someone to do if really he/she want to learn about business is to join them as their boy from there you will be learning it gradually.
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So my honest advice is that if you are really convince on what you want to do, just act on it, taking advice from negative minded set of people will only bring you discouragement and loss of interest.
All this negative mindset are part of the challenges of becoming a successful people, you have to prepare yourself for all that will come or you hear, so don't let all this discourage you, some always said this just to scare you or test you to see whether you are ready or not.
You need to understand that their are some people that are very negative in nature, they can never tell you the positive side of things, they will always look for excuses for you not to do it.
So my honest advice is that if you are really convince on what you want to do, just act on it, taking advice from negative minded set of people will only bring you discouragement and loss of interest.
So my honest advice is that if you are really convince on what you want to do, just act on it, taking advice from negative minded set of people will only bring you discouragement and loss of interest.
Have you met people who are always with the right information but are always not ready to act on it because of the rumors they've heard from people about those things?
You can't blame them, just like you can't take one side of story to conclusions. People have reasons why they fear, they do so because the economy is hard and you don't want to make any financial mistake as the country is hard, any financial mistake that you make now will hit you hard and might take time before you bounce back depend on how stable you have been. So, if people are afraid, there is a reason and could also be that they are just been careful.
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Some persons had good business ideas but because they've heard certain thing about people that have previously done such business, you will see them make statements like " I been hear say this one or that one de involved in that business oh" and before you know, big dream done die like that and them no go wan proceed with the business
Do you know that running a business is very hard and difficult? If it's that easy, I believe everyone who has money will venture into a business but they don't because nothing is guaranteed if you want to run a business. All business ideas are good ideas untill you put them into practice, that's when you will know which is good and which is bad and because others are doing it successfully doesn't mean you of you try it, you will succeed. There could be a secret to there success they will not tell you.
Didn't you see people that are into poultry farming and fish farming, despite the complains from other farmers like rate death rate, cannibalism and economic downturn, there are more people that are still doing well in this business while.the rest suffer in it. I know some good friends that has stop have been in poultry business a while now but stop for some reasons and it's not financial, the economy alone is just not favorable for doing business now.
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Some people don even decide say them no de go school because of say them don hear say jobs no de again
Abi you wan talk of people when no go wan make investment because of wetin people de talk?
The truth is that peoples experience teaches and guides us to make informed decision but sometimes if we are not ready to make our personal research and also dare to take some risk, we will be only known for our brilliant ideas that never came to reality.
As you de listen to wetin people de talk, try to distinguish between discouragement, advice and a deliberate transfer of failure mentality to you.
Una weldon o
Not going to school to acquire knowledge is only excuse from a person who is not ready to go, there is no better reason you will say that will justify not going to school, you need it even if you might not use the certificate, you need education to go many places, you will not do well in some areas if you don't go to school or maybe they want to be a successful rich man that people will cheat with common things because of ignorance of knowledge.
Have you met people who are always with the right information but are always not ready to act on it because of the rumors they've heard from people about those things?
Some persons had good business ideas but because they've heard certain thing about people that have previously done such business, you will see them make statements like " I been hear say this one or that one de involved in that business oh" and before you know, big dream done die like that and them no go wan proceed with the business.
Some people don even decide say them no de go school because of say them don hear say jobs no de again
Abi you wan talk of people when no go wan make investment because of wetin people de talk?
The truth is that peoples experience teaches and guides us to make informed decision but sometimes if we are not ready to make our personal research and also dare to take some risk, we will be only known for our brilliant ideas that never came to reality.
As you de listen to wetin people de talk, try to distinguish between discouragement, advice and a deliberate transfer of failure mentality to you.
Una weldon o
Some persons had good business ideas but because they've heard certain thing about people that have previously done such business, you will see them make statements like " I been hear say this one or that one de involved in that business oh" and before you know, big dream done die like that and them no go wan proceed with the business.
Some people don even decide say them no de go school because of say them don hear say jobs no de again
Abi you wan talk of people when no go wan make investment because of wetin people de talk?
The truth is that peoples experience teaches and guides us to make informed decision but sometimes if we are not ready to make our personal research and also dare to take some risk, we will be only known for our brilliant ideas that never came to reality.
As you de listen to wetin people de talk, try to distinguish between discouragement, advice and a deliberate transfer of failure mentality to you.
Una weldon o
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