Topic: thinking about suicide (Read 1949 times)

Sadly this is what happens to pretty much every thread on bitcointalk now. I doubt half the posters in here even read the op but just the title.

How come this post is still here? When I posted the same topic mine got deleted. Anyways watch this , Logic, Alessia Cara, Khalid - "1-800-273-8255" .
It's a music video for this kind of situation.

you have to find something you love doing, people you love being with and have to set goals to achieve. life is simpler than you think

There is more to life that suicide my friend, I know that life with a lot of problems is not worth living but think of it life without problems is not life at all lets face it there will be challenges along the way but you have to fight back don't do suicide bro. Something or someone in the near future will give life to you I know it be patient and dont commit suicide.

OP - can you lock the thread please?  You are just getting all the idiots posting for their activity now...

Suicide is a crazy thought. Life is precious, it is a miracle. Nothing is pessimistic, the end to negative thinking so both. No matter what happens. Look at life more beautiful.

no, never think about that, i'm not an idiot who turn to despair then decide to end their life

Suicide is not the best option to solve whatever that is bothering you. There is always a way around a problem. Suicide will be the last thing to cross my mind anyway

Don't do it.  There is always a solution.  There will always be someone that will help you.  You have to reach out to the people around you.  Whatever problems that you have now, it is temporary.  Focus on finding the solution.   Happier days will come.  Live to see the rainbow!  Breathe the fresh morning air!  Fall in love!  There are many things that is worth living for!  Stay alive!

don't do it. You still alive because God Loves you think of Him He loves you more than you you love yourself. you are not alone i am very grateful to know your in good health and alive just enjoy. I may not be able to understand exactly how you feel, but I care about you and want to help you in prayers.

Even when people hit rock bottom there are always things to try and look forward to.

If people with illnesses, disabilities can do things people didn't think were possible then you can achieve anything you set your mind to.

It never occurred to me to do that. Because for me life is a journey to be lived to the end

i used to think about it when I was a college student
it happened when I stocked in a hard situation with no help , every body blame u , say ur not trying , ur not good enough
but I found a good friend who helped me get out of depression , so try to find new friends 

Thinking about suicide is not a perfect solution on your problem. You may felt like nobody cares about you but think about hapoiness and be positive. Be with the person you love and live life to the fullest. Please don't think about ending your life like this. Life is beautiful

Please don't be silly and end your life. We live in a very difficult world, but killing oneself is NEVER a solution. There are still thousands of reasons that make living still worth it.

Be thankful for you existed in the first place .

Think about the beautiful eyes you have got
can you appreciate enough for that?
Do good things
You will indeed find happiness
Guide those who have been abused by their upbringing like you and I

Try living for others that care about you

I see that your also residing in the Philippines, well tanya, I really don't think that will happen, because the past is still in the past, I just notice upon checking your facebook, you are already 28 if that is correct, well, if that happens when you are a child, your parents will understand that, My parent was also a very religious person and I believe they will not furious because it happens in the past. God is a God of forgiveness, and if your parents beleives in him, then i think they too is a forgiveness parent.

Having that in your mind is only in a glimpse of a moment. After a while you will start to doubt doing it. S o just let it pass. Continue to live on!

some times 

Listen, I will not be original to tell you it is the greatest sin. However, if you start talking about it, it means that you will not commit suicide. You simply need a supportive person near you, the one whom you will love and  get this love back either.

suicide is not a solution into any problem. just always think that you are not alone. we all have a problem but theres some few people who can handle that situation and i know that you are one of them. but if you really want to commit suicide, would you please make this post activity first.  

Hi Tanya! Dying esp with your own hands does not guarantee happiness in the next life. Instead, the bible speaks about eternal hell for that. You may or may not believe now but when you are there already it may create more pain and there's no turning back. You are not the only one who experienced loneliness or problems. Everyone at some point in their lives felt sad and depress. The joy is waiting when you don't give up. Change the way you think because it starts with the right mindset. Surround yourself with genuine and positive people. And seek God, He is the answer to all our questions. He will remove all your doubts and fears. Will pray for you Tanya. Love you!

I am really scared to tell them because their they are religious people and might renounce me as part of my family. It's not about them me supporting financially because I can provide for my own as of now but the I really feared that what they will be furious because I din't tell them about it back then. And the shame it will bring to our family if our neighbors found out about it.

Hello Tanya,

I'm glad that you are alive and okay. Don't mind the people who are being rude. True or not the important thing is do not commit suicide, you are still young. Life may not be good for you at this time but it will be better soon. Your life is very precious, live it to the fullest. You can still enjoy and even touch others lives.

The antidote to suicidal thoughts is hope, and conversely, hopelessness is their accomplice. Remember, some conditions – like extreme stress, or depression – can cloud a person’s thinking, making hope invisible. People with these conditions may be unable to remember the good things in their life and unable to tap into the good things that may come. But hope does not really die. It just hides. Even amid a terrible storm in the head, it is still there behind the clouds, just like the sun.

Don't ever do that. You will regret it and by the you have done that its too late. I have read that people commiting suicide regret it when they were about to lose their lives.Ending it is not a solution my friend.

Thinking of suicide is only for the weak because there is no problem that has no solution at all.
Besides, taking your own life is a mortal sin.

Tanya, that story is actually not that uncommon. Everyone has skeletons in the closet, but yours isn't something that says anything bad about you. A lot of young children experiment with each other at that age, especially lacking in etiquette (boys can be forceful with eachother), you are not the only one. You were young, that boy was young and also an idiot, but it has nothing to do with your dignity. You have nothing to be ashamed of. I also do not believe that your family will be so ashamed of you, I am pretty sure they have their own dirty laundry to air (you think your family members are perfect? Of course not), they probably even have worse stories than you do. Are they really family if you can't even safely talk to them about this?

Not that you have to tell them, but it's nothing to be so ashamed of either.

Pray for yourself, clean your mind and meditate. Think of the happiest moment with your family and love ones. Committing suicide is not the answer for your problems.

I'm glad your still alive thank goodness, well anyways about your problem, it's really not you fault i think, your just so inocent back then so dont let your past ruin your future, and I know even your own parent will forgive you if ever tell them your situation, I know that its traumatic for you because you suddenly know that its bad, but I really dont consider it as a rape because he have your concent in doing it, the only problem is that you didnt know that its bad and now it haunting you, well consider it as a lesson that to never do such thing again, the guy only take advantage of your unawareness to those kind of things.

Permanent solution to temporay problem. Don't do it.

Tanya, all i can tell you is that in whatever situation you are going through, always remember that suicide is not an option

Many of people suffering stress others are traumatized physically , mentally or sexually. But commiting suicide has downside you wont only hurt yourself but would devastate your family and most of all Death might be worse than life (this is the biggest point I think, I'm scared that it will be much, much worse).

I do not think I can ever consider suicide life is worth linving

  Talking to a psychiatrist is just going to cost you money and most of them are atheists so they won't be much help.  Stay busy by finding something to pour your heart into whether it be a job, charitable work etc.  Spend some time around people who may have problems of their own and be a friend to them.  Read good books, spend some time in prayer and don't be afraid to speak to a priest or nun and tell them your thoughts as most religious have training in spiritual direction.  Find someone nearby who may be hungry and give them some food.  Realize that your situation isn't as bad as you may think it is and spend your life in a worthy cause.

hilariousandco just gave me a red trust regarding this post   I din't know letting out my feelings at that time would get me a red trust. the issue is about I have posted this just to get friends for my facebook profile. That profile is 3 or 4 years old I'm not sure when I created it and it has 800 friends on it. If I have only created this post to get new friends for my facebook profile is don't you think its kinda funny? If i want to increase my friends I can just spam friends request for it or buy it. I think it is not fair to get a red trust rating for the fact that a post on the off topic section not benefiting signature campaigns just for the purpose of letting out my feelings. For those who are wondering right now what has happened to me after I created this topic is that my sister came and talk to me and advised me to get some help from a psychiatrist but I insist that I'm not crazy enough for that and we had a little bit of argument because of it.

Well in the end she insist that she stays in my house for sometime just to keep watch over me. I know I might sound stupid for some but when my sister told me that I felt different. Knowing someone still care for you even though you have did so many things wrong in your life and feel like you don't deserve to live is the greatest thing that has ever happened to me.

And since hilariousandco has gave me a red trust I think I am not illegible anymore to signature campaigns anymore. I don't know if is a blessing or not since one of my relatives talked to me and asked me to join her in her work as well so as of now I am applying for a job at as a customer support service agent near in my town. And I hope to get accepted  

As for everyone who replied helped me here your encouragements really helped a lot. At least I know there are people that din't even know me showed that they cared for me. I know that my problems about having suicidal thoughts are not full gone sometimes it still get into my head but I am fighting it as I want to move on from the experience that I have. since I am not using my real fb on that is link to my account (and going to remove)you wont be able to know who I really am (and also my real gender) so It's a good thing for it at least I can shared with you guys what happened to me that I still cannot get over with. When I was young I was raped by my friend at the age of 12 years old. I was young back then I was raised in a conservative family so things about sex is forbidden to talk about. then I we moved at a far place because my father had a fight with his siblings so he decided to stay away from them for good. then after settling in to our new home I met this boy let just called him boy A. He was a year older at me back then and he was nice so we get along very easily and since his family are members of a church our parents get along as well. then after some time he talks to me about stuff I don't know back then and that is the start of it. I may not tell the details of how I was raped but I know you get the gist of it. then it happened many times and after some time I found out that what he did is wrong. since I think that telling my parents about it they might kill me for the shame I will bring to the family If this thing comes out. So i kept it in my self up to now. since you don't know who I am I think it's safe to tell you about this. And that is the reason I don't trust somebody very easily and that kept bothering me even to this day.

Not of course... that's only for weak and cowards

  You are exactly the type of desperate white knight this thread was created to try exploit. Well done.

Well forward loser, I just do not understand these people. Why should the world have weak and unnecessary people who do not fight for their own happiness. No reason can not be so solved.

Suicide is a great sin. You should not commit suicide. Because it will harm you. Once you think of your parents, they are in pain. If you find everyone unnecessarily, then pray to God that he should forgive you. Take you in the right direction. Protects from suicide

Just pray and ask God for protection and enlighten you for those bad idea's, kneel before Him and accept Him as your Lord God and personal saviour. It will kill your OLD NATURE!  Painless but full of blessings 

I do think of this many times because of depression. There are too much pressure, problem, sadness that just mix up and all i want then is to stop and surrender my life. But you know the best thing to cope up in this situation talk to others if you can't say it within your family. And it is so useful to read inspirational message.

Anytime someone talks about suicide or about wanting to die or disappear, even in a joking manner, the conversation must be taken seriously. A suicide attempt-even if the attempt did not harm the person-also must be taken seriously. Don't be afraid to talk to someone you think may be considering suicide. There is no proof that talking about suicide leads to suicidal thinking or suicide. Once you know the person's thoughts on the subject, you may be able to help prevent a suicide.

How can you end your pain?
Visit someone who can help. Psychologist or therapists can help you trough anything! This is not the easiest, but the best way.
And you wont hurt anybody (not just yourself, but your family / friends / ...).

I've never thought of such a thing but hey, don't take it as a joke when someone tells you he has an intention of committing suicide.

I pray to my allah god hopefully no passing desire to end my life aminnnn

Well everybody gets some dark thoughts sometimes but I like to take the He

Life is a choice and death is a decision.

Life is very beautiful, but not for all.

Maybe when people are 15 years old and doenst resolver their own problems but life Is beautiful never will or think that

I think you don't have the power to death.
at first ,you have some guys to care ,your family and your friend,
looks the guys who was disability ,you are a lucky guy who has health body.
you should good at live to made the people feel good.

If you have nothing to loose, it is not the time to die. It`s the excellent point to start real living because you`re free and you don`t have to care about anything. You can do whatever you want cause everything is better than dying.

Suicide are for cowards and weak only... it's good to be alive if ever you don't know it yet...

Thinking about killing oneself is something which typically happens when you are rather young or very old. I guess you are young. My point is there there is little sense in killing oneself, as anyway you will have for sure the privilege to die, sooner or later. So there is no need to hurry, especially as you never know which interesting surprises could make change your attitude in future.

Don't do it mate. Yeah I don't know what you're going through right now but you should really consider all your options first before before thinking about suicide.

Hi Tanya! I am here I can listen to you. We can talk on fb if you want. I can understand your feelings. I too have thoughts of suicide before. You can share your feeling to me. I am Raymond btw. If you have time please reply.

when i was left by my girlfriend 2 years ago i thought that i cant live without her and decided to end my life, but i found another girl that fill my heart.

There's more to life man, keep going. Try reaching the highest peak of the mountain, the strongest wave of the sea, see if you can find the lost piece of your life. Don't ever give up man, Life goes on. "Fall seven, rise eight times." You must fight because everybody is fighting for their life.

Luckily, people are getting smarter, and hell is now regarded as real as Narnia. 

 

Dont count on the negative happenings in your life. Think of the moments that you had enjoyed and start cherishing them. I know its not easy to forget but you must overcome them and you must realize that there are still people who loves you. Start making friends, theres lot of people experiencing depression nowadays. Its a serious issue. Dont fall to it, fight it! I must say KEEP GOING ON!

yes, all the suicides people are morally weak people who think that after they have passed away they will solve their problems. There, beyond life, you are not praised for this act. All suicides peoples go to hell.

The reason is interesting, and why people even think about it. Is there no way out of the situation, how to solve everything simply. Difficulties in life will always be and if you always think about it, then life like a cat is not enough.

Yes so true you just putting your life into a trash , you just borrow your life instead of killing yourself because of some stupid reasons but its not the main fact that you need to do it. Problems are always be there literally you dont have to focus to yourself or even to that person who hurts alot it is your own consciousness and how does it function well cant you see so many people trying to commit suicide to escape the problem? Is it the only thing to solve our problem? By committing suicide? It is not a solution open your mind and explore the world you can see how life is great and wonderful if you will enjoy it.

No, of course not. But based on the demographic of this forum it seems to be more sensible to go with a younger age. Rich and dumb people are usually into younger playmates, since they bumps their egos.

Anyway, you are probably right. But regardless, I remain by the point that I've raised in my previous post when it comes to how this situation should be handled. Even though I personally don't have any problems with death and believe that there certainly are situations in which suicide could be the best option. The vast majority of people aren't in those types of situations though.

Man you have to fight with this. It is money after all, dont make something that you wouldnt want your children to do. Go out and mix with friends more often

Why not? Do you think all e-whores are 18 or teens? I will assume this story is just bs for reasons stated above.


Death is always an option.

no. thats a very stupid idea, if theres a problem theres a solution. death is not an option.

Possibly. But it wouldn't make too much sense to "e-whore" as a 28 year old. Either way, in situations like these it's better to assume that it's for real. Anyone who sends random people money is a moron anyways, so that shouldn't be a deterrent.

suicide people are usually out of despair, run from the fact that a coward

Op's story is faker than the facebook link in "her" profile. Likely just a sob story to attract white knights to pump up her his friends count or maybe try get some donations.

I know it's a psychological problem but I still think these are cowardly people who have found this method to get rid of the problems in their lives.

Stop it! The sooner, the better.

Guys - this was posted over a month ago.

The OP is no longer in this state of mind.

I should point out the OP believes in hell, so they know if they commit suicide they are condemned there.  :/

what do you think to do that? please you think again why do you want to do that? how you feel the person you care about. try to go to a place that makes you happy, fresh, eliminate negative thoughts.
if you need a friend I'm ready to listen to your complains.

Yeah, somebody have money to choose. We have good workinplace and not too long days

it made me very happy to see that you are still online
i wish you mucho powa and luck.
feel yourself hugged.

Worklife would just be an extra reason to be depressed. Most of jobs in employment are terrible.

I think she is not in worklife

I'm pretty sure every single person on earth has thought about killing themselves at least once in their life.

At some point I just decided that it's pointless to even bother anyways. In the worst case scenario dying doesn't end things and you'd end up trapped in an even worse situation once you'd realize that suicide completely failed you.

So in the meantime, you might as well ride the rest of your life out and just see what else there is left to explore that you haven't tried yet. And there's a lot.


Shoot me a PM if you'd like to talk.

I never think about suicide. I may have problems and stressed sometimes in life but I've never thought about suicide. I live alone and have very few friends I don't usually go out. My life is very simple and less complicated because I chose to have this life. Every time I feel sad and empty I just do some stuffs, like online shopping, hunting rare figures from the internet, I also tried to learn stuff that I don't know like crochet, sewing, building cosplay props, making miniatures using polymer clay and Popsicle sticks, painting Now I almost know every stuff lol. I learned a lot of stuff just because I was sad and empty and don't know how to go on with life. There's more to life please try something that will keep you happy.

No way i can't even imagine of suicide no matter how tough the life is you have to live what you have and be happy. And for you i can only say is if you suicide then its the last point but if you live maybe if you live in sadness too you never know when the light of happiness comes and a ray of hope, better think about those people who have nothing still they are living and be thankful to god that he does not give you more pain that peoples suffer, like pain of losing families and everything.last msg is be happy no matter what the situation is never lose hope and believe in yourself that you can overcome tough times.

Please, don't do it. It's a permanent solution for a temporary problem. Think about your friends and relatives, how would they feel when you wouldn't be here anymore. I can tell you, they will feel awful and you would hurt a lot of feelings. Go talk with someone, it can really help. Don't hesitate to send me a PM, I'm there if you want to talk.

we all go through pain points Tanya but we get through it. what i am learning is that we can't always push away our demons but we learn to live with them and control them. with effort it is possible. allgreat people have major psychological problems, but with will, we learn to live with them, not a miserable live but ability to control them among other good things in our lives.

Hey Tanya,

I can't claim to know what you're going through, I'm sure you're dealing with a lot and the world must feel like its against you.

I just want to remind you that you are loved and that everything you're experiencing is only temporary. This too, shall pass.

Love is the common bond between all humans, its what has allowed humanity to grow from nothing into the prosperous society that we live in today.
Love is a powerful thing and you can't ever forget that it will always be poured into you.
From family, friends, random human beings on the internet. You are loved.

I've lost a good friend to suicide and I wish he had at the very least done what you have done today and reached out to somebody. Anybody.

There is so much turmoil in the back and forth conversations that goes on inside your mind and to get it all out there and just tell someone can be a liberating experience.
In doing so you'll realize that it is a part of the human experience to be hopeful for something better. Use that as your guiding light through this dark period in your life. It will get better.

Please message me if you ever want someone to talk to.

Please don't do something you'll regret, please don't do something that will make others feel regret.

The world is here for you 

Most selfish thing anyone can ever do

Dont do it! Everything be alright at the end. Try to find somebody to talk with? Are you in work life?

Suicide is not a solution in every problem, you need to fight in this world. Be strong mate. There are many people who have lot of problems but they never think about suicide. So I will  answer your question that what is the most painless way to kill yourself? My answer is you just need a chair and knots.

Hey Tanya, I hope you are able to read through all the comments here. I don't know where you are from but working in the psychiatric field I would certainly urge you to please try to find help. It is very very important to reach out. You already started by reaching out to this community. I am not sure what your reasons are to come to this point that you are contemplating of ending your life but I want you to take a moment. Though I do not know you personally, I am concerned about how you are and your feelings right now. If you want, you can send me a message if you need someone to talk to. If you are here in the US, please call 1800-273-8255 or you can chat with them as well. Each state and cities also have their own mental health lines and they can connect you to people who can help you. You can also talk to counselors. If you are in the Philippines, the Department of Health in partnership with the WHO has launched a 24/7 hotline. The Hopeline may be reached at (02) 804-4637; 0917-5584673; and 2919 for Globe and TM subscribers. Please also consider the safety plan and that is to go to the Emergency Room. That is what I always tell our patients. Take yourself there and they will find help for you. Here is a list of suicide hotline from around the world. I hope this will be of use to you.

Argentina: +5402234930430

Australia: 131114

Austria: 017133374

Belgium: 106

Botswana: 3911270

Brazil: 212339191

Canada: 5147234000 (Montreal); 18662773553 (outside Montreal)

China: 85223820000

Croatia: 014833888

Denmark: +4570201201

Egypt: 7621602

Finland: 040-5032199

France: 0145394000

Germany: 08001810771

Holland: 09000767

India: 8888817666

Ireland: +4408457909090

Italy: 800860022

Japan: +810352869090

Mexico: 5255102550

New Zealand: 045861048

Norway: +4781533300

Philippines: 028969191

Poland: 5270000

Russia: 0078202577577

Spain: 914590050

South Africa: 0514445691

Sweden: 46317112400

Switzerland: 143

United Kingdom: 08457909090

USA: 18002738255

I honestly hope all is well for you now.

YO MAN, LISTEN UP FOR A MINUTE IF CAN PLEASE. I WAS LITERALLY IN YOUR BOAT 7 YEARS AGO AND I DIDNT DO IT. NOW LOOKING BACK WAS BEST DECISION I MADE. SO MUCH TO LIVE FOR PLEASE CONSIDER YOUR

FAMILY, FRIENDS, AND ALL THOSE WHO CARE. YOU WILL BE MISSED EVEN IF YOU DONT THINK SO. YOU ARE A GEM & ARE AMAZING PLEASE SEE THAT BEFORE ITS TOO LATE. LOVE SURROUNDS YOU! MUCH LOVE  

I never wanted too, suicide mostly for very dumb man, they never think about someone who still loving him, dont think about that

if you have parents or people you care about remember them
if you have a religion then meditate on the teachings of your religion

Suicide is not a cowardly solution.  It takes a lot of guts.  That fact that you are crying means you still want to live.  Go talk to someone!

The most painless way to die is by Inert gas asphyxiation.  You fall asleep quickly and painlessly, and then die in your sleep.


https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Inert_gas_asphyxiation

Always remember that your present situation is not your final destination. The best is yet to come.

Please don't even consider that Tanya. I can promise you that there will be times when you are happy and make it all worth it. There will be bad times as well. but it is ok, they will pass and make you stronger. Just because you currently don't have a reason for existence now doesn't mean you won't later. You will look back one day and think about how doing something like that would be really stupid. You will have something to fight for one day, I can promise you that.

Look, life is not that long anyway. You are lucky to be alive and be able to do whatever you want. You will be dead forever and alive for only few more decades. There is no reason to trow away only thing that you will ever get. Enjoy it, protect it, it is your life, you are lucky to have it.

I don't know what made you think this way, but I can assure you that it won't last. People get used to everything, it is impossible to be bummed out forever (unless you have a problem with dopamine creation in which case you would need some medication). Better times will come, trust me.

thank you so much for that words. As of now I am crying because I feel glad that someone cares for me even though you don't even know me.

Tanya, everyone hits the bottom of the barrel at one time or the other, but one thing is sure, no matter what you may feel or may be going through now, it is temporary. It may be difficult for you to see that right now because you are just fed up of living. But see your feeling as temporary, it will pass and better days will come. I pray for you that God will give you a fresh hope and will to live, i pray that everything that has made life not worth living for you will fade away and that you will find joy in living again. in Jesus name

Hello~
Well, if it's your decision...well...you may inject air in your vein...
But you can always change your decision, remember it! You should try different activities in your life, start singing, become a volonteer for peoople in need and so on...

I know guys that this is not the right forum to discuss this but i don't know who else to talk to. I am really thinking about killing myself. I know I am a coward by thinking that this is the solution but I don't have the will to live on.  so what is the most painless way to kill yourself?