when i see that i generally begin to think cautiously.
there's no name on the otc web of trust for your forum name
http://bitcoin-otc.com/viewratings.php
this would be a good time to point out that the following guides have some useful tips for when trading person-to-person:
http://en.bitcoin.it/wiki/Secure_Trading
http://wiki.bitcoin-otc.com/wiki/Using_bitcoin-otc#Risk_of_fraud
especially since yesterday someone sent their 138 bitcoins without being cautious (i.e., sent bitcoins before receiving payment) and was subsequently defrauded
http://bitcoin-otc.com/viewratingdetail.php?nick=DougJ
And if you'd have asked me, I would have told you that if you had references since I had non, that I would have sent mine first you could have saved your time :p
Trade is done now, and I bought my RAM, so thank you very much gusti!