3) Ask for his coin address and always search it on blockchain.info or www.cryptocoinexplorer.com to verify if his address has the amounts he is claiming.
Thank you all in advance for the assistance.
You need to get the address he claims he owns. Then you can check on a blockexplorer how many coins that address contains. But that is not enough since he could tell you a random address he doesn't own.
You might either ask him to send you a satoshi from that address as proof that he owns the address or ask him for a signature signed with that address. You can check that signature then at http://wallet-2sx53n.sakurity.com/#verify and make sure that the address he signed with is the one he claims to own.
If you did so then you can be sure that he really owns these coins.
Not that proof of ownership is a very good system for building trust. No trust should be given until proper dealing happened. Until then, use escrow.
That's right. Don't trust the person that he will pay after you sending something. Better use an escrow. You only can trust that this person controls the amount of bitcoins he claims to control.