Do you know that anyone who have an alternatives can never strive more harder to change their current predicaments because they feels so relaxed either their parents, Uncle, Aunt's and or relatives are there covering them by what thing they needs in life. It would be very difficult for this sets of people to hustle more than their expected level rather they would just depends on their sponsors to come fill it up for them without thinking about positivity.
While I've seen lot of people like that within my environs, I can actually agree with your expressions. There are certain persons who has chosen to be lazy and has missed out from great opportunities with the potentiality of changing their dependant status quos but because they're privileged and promising within their hoods and relatives, they'd just that mindset of what it worths to be self dependant.
Again people are different in thinking and ways of handling things, as usually said not everyone are determined to make success in life because if everyone are chosen to be that then you wouldn't see people doing what it takes to do what they are doing, let say for instance we have people works all kinds of things, you can't call for their services whenever you needs them. That is why today, the rich people don't beg the poor to change their situation rather they would want you to suffer and make some changes in life after which they have seen your efforts from then they would pick up and give you the necessary lift you have been so longing without you going to them to do that.
In here I bet if anyone has ever thought of being poor, of course everyone wants to be rich but such dreams is not only relied on wishes and get the hands folded from motions of chasing that dream.
But anyhow, everyone has actually put an effort to make this riches but while we still have remained poor along the lines is because our efforts seems not enough and somewhere there as time goes by we feel weak and discouraged to continue striving because there's no faith and we don't believe in ourselves. We also fails to understand the that consistencies can as much optimizer our endivoirs to posses and merit that which we've laboured and has been striving.
We fails to be determined in considering that energy and time can be practically resources full to greater outputs.
The bottom line is that, you must show working and show seriousness in life before you could attract destiny helper and what the rich people so much dislike are people who are not making efforts, who are so much lazy, weak and or always depending on them by calling them at every single moment of their lives or when they faces any little challenges they calls them, they so much dislike this so what more as someone who is striving to succeed in life? The best is to show working and believe one day you would meet your destiny helper without having to relent or feels so reluctant. There is a saying that says "The more you work the luckier you become successful", so people should keep pushing.
So practically this this why some has stayed poor and those who had the right key points grew in riches.