So is there any good tip of how to get real help for newbies.
To be honest, i've seen dozens of guys (and girls) asking questions in this very subforum. at least 80% of the time, they either get a friendly post back with the help they asked, or they get pointed to a link (usually an internal link to a different topic) where their question was already answered.
In the (maximum) 20% of the cases that did go without a proper answer, it's usually because
- they were rude
- their post was so unsubstantial, nobody could undertstand their question
- it was a clear scam attempt
- it was a clear spam attempt
- their question was so difficult it didn't belong in beginners/help
It is very seldom that i see a polite question that wasn't answered before, formulated in an understandable way that went unanswered (it does happen from time to time, but in my experience, it's seldom)