Topic: Why Celebrity Marriages Dey Quick Break for Naija? (Read 195 times)

Sometimes I feel like the idea of marriage is no longer being appreciated by this generation anymore. As knowledge is increasing people are finding it more difficult to live together as no one is willing to subject him/her self to the compromise involved in marriage.

The matter about break e don dey trend everywhere and I believe say na actually the thought of most females as dem dey claim say dem no wan be house wife and na independent woman dem wan be. Many of the women sef dey after the wealth of the man and nothing else and our Nigerian have grown found of the act.

The break up matter no be only celebrities dey experience am, e dey reach everybody like breakfast. The point wey you torchlight make sense but I just want add say wetin dey also cause some of these break ups na peer pressure. Some celebrities dey rush into marriage, dem no dey take their time check the partner character before them settle down.

Another thing wey dey cause break up na abuse. The man fight act all nice and later him go turn tigger dey punch him wife like punching bag. For example if the late gospel musician wey sing Ekwueme been break up when the husband dey abuse her, e for dey good. So any person wey go break up because of abuse, I support am because life matters.

One thing about celebrity marriage e just dey like television wey people dey watch no privacy at all.Some men wey marry celebrities wan prioritize their privacy and if dem no get wetin dem want in turn e dey lead to divorce.I watched one video wey one celebrity dey talk say she no fit marry man wey she rich pass,dis one sef na one major reason why celebrities dey experience divorce for their marriage because due to their fame, status and wealth some go wan use am oppress the husband.And also before I conclude make I just give one instance again wey one TikTok influencer talk say she no go fit leave TikTok for any man wey wan marry her because na from TikTok she dey get her moni so in this case some celeb no go fit submit to the terms and conditions of their spouse and e dey lead to breakup.

The one wey pain me pass na the marriage oath for better for worst till death do us part. After person pikin take this oath finish the next day  e go Dy with another woman Dy cheat on en wife. But the major cause of divorce na wealth because WHO NO GET HOPE TO SURVIVE NO GO FIT LEAVE HIM PARTNER EASILY. some enter the marriage because of the already established wealth and fame, so after gathering enough dem go just leave the marriage.
As  for the women celebrities, imagine how tiwa savage wan take stay submissive and humble to husband wey she get money pass and life Dy sweet her. Last last na divorce for freedom.

One of the thing that make celebrity to break up their marriage quickly is loss of the flesh because, they will not take their time to study the person they are about to marry very well before going ahead to such person for marriage but after marriage when they no longer see those things they use to play with are no longer attracting them again, they will begin to look for new person to marry and break up the first marriage. Secondly, Celebrity don't want someone that will know their secret which is another thing that make them to break up their marriage quickly with some people because, the moment you feel he is my husband and is my responsibility to know everything about my husband personal details, you will see another side of the man which it will lead to breaking up of the marriage and likewise the women too.

The thing wey dey inside be say many people wey dey marry these days focus more on the ceremony rather than the marriage itself, which start after the ceremony.
Status marriage these days na just to elevate career and dey known as person wey do heavy wedding.

I no blame those wey dey divorce, because them fail to understand say two captains no fit dey same boat. Wherebeit the man talk and the woman no agree because either her status dey bigger or she get more influence and money, how you expect such a man even if na celeb too, to cope in such a case. It's always about the manly pride.

E better to marry someone from different backgrounds and career than fot same place where see finish don dey.

Many things dey cause why marriages no dey last. This days people are not going for love but instead they are going for marriage just to get only what attracted them. People just want to be with partners that are famous with money and they do not care if they are compatible in character.  Both gender don't really know what they want from marriage that is why we keep having failed marriage everyday. During the days of our parents we go for Real love.

This na good question,why celebrity marriage no dey last?yes because celebrities na person wet everybody wants to mingle with, whether na man or women, because of their way of life and na e make their marriage no dey last because no be everybody no fit live with the celebrities life,.

Reasons why some people no go fit live with the celebrities life style:(1) because some celebrities the use because of say many people the follow them, because of that they no go listen to their wife or husband 's discussion or advise and they feel say no one has rights to control them,(2) because of say them na celebrities them no get time for their family again,every day appointment, travelling all the time,.(3) celebrities no dey get one wife or one man, and because of that they go get plenty children from different women..

So many things they make celebrities marriage no dey last ....

There are numerous ways that they lead to divorce because most women behave normally when they are not married to the person they want to marry; they do not even react in a disrespectful manner toward their husbands. However, once they are married, they exhibit certain changes. They will produce something that spoils their husband's mind rather than something that makes him happy. We also know that men differ from one another since some men are patient enough to put up with their wives' bad behavior or unhappiness in order to continue living together without divorcing. Divorce problems are widespread worldwide, not only in Nigeria.
It is true mostly understanding is a common causes of breakups between women and men, and some divorces occur when a girl does not have interest in the person who has proposed to her from the start. Even if they marry each other, the males will never have access to her, which will eventually lead to divorce. And some issues that lead to divorce come from some guys, because when they start proposing to some lady, they will be impressed in them and tell them they have so many things, even what they don't have, It is wrong for a man to lie to his wife about his physical attributes, which is why most marriages fail.

Op is not only celebrities that have problems in their marriages; it is everywhere. Marriage is not something we should rush into if we are not ready for it; it might end in divorce because we are not ready to give up on the lifestyle that will make our marriages successful.  Secondly, anything your partner does when you guys are still dating and you are not okay with it, complain to him or her so that next time he or she will not repeat it. And if you complained when you guys got married, it would lead to problems because you were okay with it before you guys got married. For instance, if your partner cooks food and there is not enough salt in the food, you can just use a good approach and tell her to add more salt to the food if he or she is warning the food.

I wanted to say the same thing. These days, it's not just celebrity marriages. The reason why OP is talking about celebrity marriage might be due to the fact that those are the marriages that everyone knows. I know 3-4 couples that have since split in my local environment and this is exactly the reason why MummyZee's story became very famous as very little % of women today can stick with a man when the going gets tough.

The problem is not just women — I'm just saying most cases I have seen and heard about are attributed to women.

This issue of divorce is just normal and any marriage that lacks understanding will not even last for long, understand na the common thing wey couples need, the example wey you set like receiving night calls about work or project, if understand dey for the marriage that one no suppose be problem, sometimes this celebrity life wey we dey view dey happen for everywhere, sometimes even your neighbour fit dey face same challenge but since it has to do with a celebrity every news will come out open and bloggers always dey ready to spread the news.
Some will say after marriage the wife should stop working cause the marriage lack trust and this one fit spoil marriage too. Aside from all this to be honest some married people like to flirt around and that's very wrong, I believe say na wetin some people dey experience before them file for a divorce.
The simple truth here is marry who you go understand and avoid wetin go bring wahala, Mercy Johnson na perfect example, Regina and Etomi dey set the example well say no be all celebrity marriage dey spoil.

This is caused by the life they live, they just want to live a life if their own without any control or interference, the life of a celebrity is very difficult because of several schedules and if you are not use to this you can continue with such, celebrities most time do some dirty stuffs that why most the can either get pregnant or impregnate their girlfriends to born fit them, they don't want to be committed in any stuff that might tie them down in anyway, but the major reason for quick breakup or divorce as the case may be in celebrity marriage is mostly infidelity and lack of trust among them, remember both party knows the game they play and understanding won't be given a second thought.

Leaving the life of a celebrity is not quite easy because anything wey them do eyes go see, talk, or carry the matter come for social media since the person na public figure.

I think sae, no be only celebrities wey dia marriage d quick break for the society wey we d live so.. There are other people wey no be celebrity wey dia marriage d break also, even a day or week after their wedding, and we no go know about that just because they are not celebrities or it wasn't posted on social media like Facebook or Twitter(X).

Marriage breaking quick no be all about being a celebrity that caused it, it's all about the parties involved. How the view their marriage to be with high expectations of who controls and provides for the family. When there are misunderstandings in that area, there are very tendency sae the marriage go explode soon. You know how celebrity lifestyle d, dem go carry am come social media or their fans go talk about am

This is even common among common folks in the world not just Nigeria.
Been a celebrity doesn't really play that big of a role
There are ones especially the old who are still happily married.
The major reason to me is that it's a trend.
It's what's reigning "we ain't compatible no more let's divorce"
This in respect to our country wasn't common in the time of our forefathers
If there's any misunderstanding
It's cleared up and everybody try to make compromise for the future of their kids.
Court marriage is good and all but I believe it's over stepping on our tradition.

Pray for the right partner
And marry your friend.

I have seing it when you're been specific about Nigeria as a case study, this is something that happens everywhere and we l know it, people got married and later are into divorce wether they are rich, poor or being a celebrity or not, but considering the aspect of the celebrities, we can say that most of them really lack what it takes to find true love, tolerance and adaptation for a new life, it happens with both the men and women in this situation, the way we see them appearing in public isn't the real them in reality, most of them lack many exposures in which we are opened to, yet they choose being selfish over thier partners to the extent of not minding their marriage being at stake.

Normally when two career-driven individuals come together as husband and wife, it's very difficult forbthe marriage to last long because most of the time, they will both focus on their individual works and might not be able to take care of the home as they ought to.

Most marriages that breaks easily involves the two parties being public figures and at the same time paying attention to what the public are saying. If a celebrity marries someone that isn't in the public space, it's very rear before they break up and this has nothing I do with other normal factors that can course couples to break up o.

Another serious factor that courses celebrity marriage to break up is unnecessary comparison, intense cheating from both parties and also when one of the parties mostly the men decides that the wife should slow down in chasing her career and focus in building the home.  Any marriage that none of the people involved want to compromise their belief system or work routine for the other, the chances of the marriage working id very slim and this is one of the major course of failed marriage among celebrity.

I will list them out without wanting to explain too much

- Marriage and family values are fast declining in our modern world. People especially celebrities no longer see marriage important anymore.

- I think these folks have may have a cult of divorcees. You see that most of the are the really successful ones. Because ones you are divorced, you can sleep with anyone who is rich enough to fund your lifestyle home and abroad.

- They never loved themselves from the start. They marry majorly for the attention, the glam of the wedding ceremony, they want their wedding to be the talk of the town. After their goal has been achieved, they divorce.

- They are copying the western world Hollywood celebrities.


These are some of the best thoughts that comes to mind when I think of a response to the topic.

Weather celebrities or not any marriage that lack the basic principles of lasting marriage will definitely break for we who believe in the scriptural guidelines of husband loving their wife and wife being submissive to husband if this is not in place it hard for the marriage to stand two captain can't pilot the ship at the same time,if the two head wife is claiming to be the head and husband the same nothing can work on that marriage. The only about celebrities break is how they are exposed to social media that make people hear it faster than other any marriage that lack trust can't stand, because many women that lack trust their marriage the last, because it's this trust that will conote your character that's why the Bible say wise woman build her he but the foolish destroy theirs with their hand.

Already @Charles Tim has already said my mind. The reason why most celebrities marriage does last is because they lack respect. One bad habits about women is that when they have money they see no reason to be controlled by a man. They feel that why are they being controlled by man Afterall what the man has they also have it. The reason behind why celebrities marriage don't last is because of:

1. Lack of respect: most women after they got married to there husband they refused to respect their husband because they think they also have money. Which will lead to divorce.

2. Can't cope with celebrity lifestyle: marrying a celebrity is always a dream, but when the dream comes into reality they become angry because not what they expect was what they saw. For example, amale celebrity will always be with several women for a music shoot and the female partner become jealous and Start monitoring there fellow. And it always Leed to conflict and dont often end well.

3. Marriage for celebrity endorsements: some celebrity marriage is for music endorsements and after the deal is off, everyone find there way.
4. Marriage contract for fame: some marriage was for fame after being famous they don't care if the marriage last or not. But people will count them as a wife or X wife of one popularly celebrity.

5. Some were do to wedlock: some where able to have kid for a particular celebrity. Some marriage was a result of just being a baby mama for particular celebrity due to fun and being uncarefull and it ended as a mistake. even if the lady becomes popular but it was not a planned marriage.

It is not only celebrities that divorce themselves, Nigerians generally with females able to be independent on their own and do not have submission to husband like the olden days are the cause of breakup. Celebrities are independent and they will not want to be submissive to their husband. In Nigeria that we are now, parents wants their children to have good education, to be a public figure and that can not help some marriages. But females becoming more relevant in the society is good. But the more they become independent, the higher the divorce rate. But it is still good that the divorce rate in Nigeria is still less than 3%. Most married people like separation instead of divorce.

Why Celebrity Marriages Dey Quick Break

Celebrity Marriages Dey always dey as public marriages Wey everybody eyes dey to pick fault or learn or to make news. That thing dey most times make the marriages luk like sey personal marital life and privacy no dey again for celebrity Marriages for Naija.

-Wetin Dey Really Cause De Breakup?
Only few celebrity Marriages Dey survive breakage because of submission from the woman and commitment from from the man. Celebrities na public figures Wey everybody dey like to associate with. And partners Wey no fit understand and accept the challenge of jealousy and insecurity go end up for breakup.

Many female celebrities dey more appealing to de public or fans therefore fir dey receive some kind of calls Dem Wey de husband no go like. Deals and business calls Wey Dem dey receive, de wife or de husband fit suspect am to be extra marital affair.

Another problem na de problem of submission and commitment as I don talk before. Some kind of men dey feel intimidated when de wife get monie pass am or famous pass am so, decision making go come be problem. The man go feel intimidated  bcus of dat, for dat dey man go dey like to oppress de female for decision making side for the family. Many times na accusation of unfaithfulness and undue oppression dey cause the break up.

Finally, make celebrities leave celebrities when e com to marriage but, den when celebrities marry lower class e dey also end up for oppression.

Nevertheless, maturity na de most important thing for marriage. Check out Mercy Johnson, Tuface Idibia, na the most mature celebrity couples Wey dey committed to marriage vows.

Wetin you think say dey cause celebrity Marriage break ups?