Topic: why men often cheat their women (Read 634 times)

I never cheat my girl, we have been dating for 2 years.

It is done my women's to for same reasons but most of the time the world don't talk like that

Both cheat and there is no proper evidence that men cheat more than women

Its funny how most people think men do cheat mostly because of lust or sexual indiscipline. The greatest desire of everyman is to be respected and given peace of mind.In a relationship, take these two out of the equation, and the man is likely to cheat

Depends on the integrity of the man. I'm 38 and I've never cheated once in my life. I've always let the previous go before moving on.

I guess most of the reasons involve the man feeling like he is not getting something he wants or needs from his relationship. This feeling certainly may not always be accurate. I'm sure that many times men think they will receive something they've been missing from another woman, but they are then disappointed. A man may think that his wife is too old, so he will try to find a younger woman. Sometimes he may find that his feeling have faded not because his wife is older, but because he is older. Another thing that can play a big factor is experience. With a long-term partner you gain a long history. This history usually involves ups and downs. When you have a new partner, you haven't managed to have any negative experiences together yet, so it may seem better at first.

It's simple people! Men are loyal but not faithful.. That's all..

I think men were seen as those who often cheats because it is romanticized by televisions. But there are some reasons that is falsely resonated by men. First is that they felt cold in the relationship, the thing is if they really love their partner, they will find something to bring back what was lost. Another is that they lost their interest, the same thing with it, if they want to make everything be back to what is used to be then do something. Cheating isn't an option to take. It is our decision. And that's something that we all men should do because commitment is enough to stand with those such situations

The following are some of the reasons men cheat in relationships
#As a natural treat to such a person to cheat(being promiscuous)
#when there relationship no longer interest them as a result of the following factors:not romantic enough, dirty 💃, lack of improvement, sickness, etc
#when there partner is on her menstrual period
#during  child birth :here the man trust to look outside for pleasurable sex.

Infidelity is really one of the reasons why a relationship is broken. The reason why many men and/or women cheat differs from one person to another. They may no longer love their partner and they are no longer happy with the relationship. Men cheat maybe because they cannot break the relationship, they think that women should be the one to call it quits, so that is why they cheat to hurt the women and they decide to break up with the men. If a person really loves someone, they will never cheat with them no matter what because they dont want them to get hurt and break the relationship.

Because some women starve their man from sex and some find it difficult to give their man quality sex as ought to . Some women feels sex is just to open leg but unknown to them that romance is an essential ingredients for a good sexual life.... So women don't know how to take care of themselves and as a result of this, plenty men find it difficult to stick to their  women rather cheat on them.

Because woman often do not know how satisfied their man ...,their is 3 factors that are most important for majority of mans and that is: woman need to cook good,be good in bed and be loyal to him ,if she can make all those things then shoudnt be problems and it goes without saying that man need to satisfied his woman too for common healthy relationships

Each and every man wants a good home and good wife.With reference to this,men cheat as a result of their wives not been able to cook very well. Do you know that some men eat in the hotel as result of not having a wife that can Cook palatable meal and as another sexy woman is serving him in the hotel, he will be wanting to befriend the woman and that is where cheating comes in. Some women don't keep their body, undies and the house clean and this scares a man from home because each and every time he remembers home, he becomes bore.some woman are so disrespectful to the point that they nag so much even when they are wrong thinking that the man has no right to beat her.

I think that the primary and the only reason why men often cheat to their women is because those men who have cheated are naturally cheaters. Some would probably argue that the problem is not only with the men but also with the women. But I don't think so. Eventhough their wife do have shortcomings, they won't cheat of theu truly love the woman. They would talk to them intimately rather than cheating. People should not blame women why they are being cheated on because they do not want to experience it since it belittled them and make them feel useless. They shouldn't blame for what their husband did, because it is purely man's sin.

When the spouses live under the same roof for a long time, they often separate from each other and even cease to love. Together they are bored and unbearable, but nobody can dare to divorce in view of problems with the division of property, alimony and banal habit.

There is only one way a woman will stay around, if you have a big dick and know how to use it. Problem solved.

This is because women do not like being told the truth about how they are. They pick quarrels over anything nad everything so for a guy not to go through this ordeal he cheats

various cases because of infidelity, and other women who make a lot of men to harm women, the reason that is not logical and made for men often do because they want to fulfill his desire, sometimes by hurting the woman, then men feel able to vent their lust to women, and should not happen

Some reason why men cheats its  because other women didn't take care their partner in so many ways like preparing food and lact of bonding.But to be fair not only women cheat also men do that by its own way.

Most of the men cant feel any satisfaction in life they are looking for more love more girls and more money oh well i said most of the men because some romantic and loyal men also exist  but very difficult to find you are so lucky if you have found one.

From my observation of many relationships, some of which have weathered the storms of time and those that have bent to the pressures which eventually led to their splitting. Every relationship has its ups and downs as it consists of two human beings who are fallible. Males in relationships however usually take their fallibility to a next level by allowing their selfish and greedy desires  get a greater part of them which eventually eats up into the relationship.
Men who cheat on their women are usually those who are  in search of variety of experience in terms of relationship this undermines the relevance of the other party.
 

One major reason why men cheat is their inability to resist temptations by other women. Actually women cheat more than men, just that women are very secretive so they hide theirs and men do show off with their new girlfriends

its an easy answer but let me explain it. Relationship is the boundary we let our loved once in, but when someone else breaks those boundaries we get angry.But what is the real purpose of these boundaries?Did we have ever thought on this. With the boundaries we do not allow other people to take decisions them self and we put our decision on them instead (i.e. we capture their freedom). it causes their heart to fill with pain and sadness and when they breaks these boundaries then we get angry. but if we respect each others freedom then no one will ever cheat on anyone again. it matters on freedom of body but it should be freedom of soul.think yourself.

Why not derive this from first principles?

Reason for having sex: Making babies
Reason for having sex with multiple women: Making more babies. If a man impregnates 10 women, he can have 10 babies. Note that a woman cannot have 10 babies by sleeping with 10 men.
Reason for wanting more babies: Higher chance of one surviving and passing on genes.
Reason for women wanting the man to stay with her and not sleep around: The man can provide resources for the baby, increasing the chance that her baby will survive. Having children with more women means splitting resources between them. As humans get more intelligent they need even more resources before they can become independent and survive on their own.
Reason for man cheating on woman (from a biological perspective): Raise a few babies and have some more on the side that you just allow to grow and hope they survive in case your main family still doesnt make it.
Reason for women cheating on men (from a biological perspective): Hard to get a highly attractive man to stick by and not cheat or leave. Easier to get a less attractive man but cheat on him in order to get the genes from a more attractive man. Women are most likely to cheat when they are in the most fertile phase of their cycle.

There are more advantages to a relationship where partners don't cheat on eachother besides the exchange of resources:
* Higher mutual trust
* Lifelong bonding and opportunity to learn more about yourself and to know another person on a deeper level.
* Continuity along the many decades of life and its ups and downs.
* Division of labour. Each member in a family can specialise in different tasks which must be performed.

There are also advantages to society:
* Having many orphaned or single parent children is a resource burden since they must still be fed, clothed and housed
* Children without stable families are more likely to commit crime and engage in reckless and self destructive behaviours, and will generally be less productive members of society.
* Since one man can impregnate many women, but one woman can only be impregnated by one man, there is a high chance that without monogamous relationships, a few men would get all the women and most men would be left without the possibility of reproduction, meaning they would have less to live fore and less reason to care about the future, and more to gain through risky behaviours such as engaging in violence to obtain status or women.
* Ability to transmit knowledge and culture down though the generations leading to a long term improvement and multiplier effect.

So there are many reasons to cheat and many reasons to avoid it. The struggle with life is learning how to avoid temptations which feel good in the moment but which in the long term will tear families and society apart. It is each persons responsibility to try to be the best person they can be for their partner, to avoid the relationship falling apart, and to choose the right person in the first place, to make you want to keep it together.

Wow, Interesting topic over here. Men tends to cheat due to several reasons, some of my reasons are:
1. When communication becomes ineffective between the two.
2. When women start not feeding their men, yes, you might be surprise this is a factor but really true. The way to a man's heart is truly his stomach.
3. When women start not pay attention to her appearance anymore. They become less attractive to their men.
4. When women start to cheat, some men will also pay back by cheating.
5. When women become fat and change physically, some men will always go for cute baes. LOL.

I think one woman is not enough for a man.A man need to enjoy some number of women and feel good.Because as a man you cannot be locked down by one woman forever.The women are so beautiful so it is not easy to just stay with one.Men need to explore more women.

It is so sad that 95 percent of marriage experience cheat,  this sometime is as a result of the life the man lived in his youthful age, a man  that sleep around with women  in his youthful age will fine it difficult to remain faithful to his wife because sleeping around is his habit.  Sometimes it is as a result of the attitude of the woman that cause the cheating. Some women are never submissive to their man they usually turn down his request  and will never accept anything their he  instruct them to do.

I had this conversation with my friend yesterday,

ever since the star of mankid, men have this urge to always want the prime and optimal mate, hence the urges to always look at diff girls, once the guy is happy with his optimal mate he has to fight off every urge he might get.

Now,

Dont fuckin cheat. Its not hard likeee if she is annoyin just end it.

Men often cheat their women because of that they do not walk a right way or if they do not agree to a right way otherwise if women has another relationship and they will spend their time for them so that men often cheat their women.

I think men often cheat because they can't resist temptations. My mom is a perfect wife and she gave everything just to protect our family, she even serve our father like a king but still her efforts isn't enough. My father still cheated on her despite of everything. My dad wasn't strong enough to resist temptation that she looked at other woman.

Men cheat their women because maybe he can't control his feelings. Maybe his not contented in their relationship or maybe his not happy.

Men often want to have relationship with multiple women, so they cheap their women.

Men often cheat their women because the women don't always satisfy their men. They may not do the right thing at the right time, so because of this, they will fund some that will do it better than thier women.
Many women don't cook at the right time, they don't clean the house and many don't turn up wen it's bed time. So thus are the reasons why men cheat on women

If we talk about often, biologically men has less control on impulses compared to women. Most bar fights that happen are caused by men right?

Men often makes decision, stupid or good (often stupid) based only with these impulses. But the good thing about it is that sometimes being reactive affects our reflex with immediate danger.

Because mostly men have to cheat at work for long time, so after few years of cheating in work he starts to cheat in relationship.

Men cheat for very different reasons. For instance, some men use cheating to keep an emotional distance between themselves and a woman’s heart. Men who are more frightened of emotional intimacy than women sometimes distract themselves by getting busy — but not too close — with other women.

Men Cheat to their women because
*They want out of a relationship
*They think it makes us a man
*They have low self-esteem
*There’s something lacking at home/they’re bored
*There’s been a breakdown in communication.
*Don't get what they want from women

1. Having less Sex.
2. Nagging.
3. A woman’s neglect of the man.
4. A woman’s neglect of herself .
5. Variety.

sometimes cheating of some person from his /her partner were involved from deeper action and  reason ,why men are tempted to be cheated ?maybe because some person are not responsable to keep their pledge and obligation from their marriage  life

Men often cheat their women because of their being not contented with them. It is not about the lackness of women,  it's about the weakness of a men. 
If men is truly faithful with his women,  they won't cheat whatever reason or situation it is.

To be honest I think men are cheating to their women because they are not having enough attention or love ,
That also goes to women they also cheat because of the same reason but I think if you are going to cheat because of it why don't you just break up.

From what I have seen, the ultra-religious men are the ones who are crazy after sex. In my hometown, I have seen ultra-religious Muslims frequenting red-light districts. As a matter of fact, these people represent the majority of the clients in brothels.

I believe its a normal nature oof men to always want more than a woman. But religion has helped men to some extent in sticking to only one wife. But most men still secretly have affairs outside. I think only God can help a man not to cheat

Cheating in a relationship is, of course, not monopolized by either gender. Men cheat, women cheat, and according to studies, they have different reasons for doing so.

I don’t think we can necessarily just say “men cheat for this reason, and women cheat for this reason,” though. Each individual person and scenario brings about a reason or reasons of its own. That being said though, I think we need to be careful of blanket statements like all men cheat or all women cheat.

Men are born polygamous and we must accept the fact that all of us has the capability to be unfaithful to the one we trully love. Temptation and opportunity drives some one to commit a sin or to cheat. It is not just men, but also women who cheat in terms of relationship.

Men should respect woman. Having an intimate relationship with your partner is not a basis that a woman loves you. We should not look for the outside beauty of a person.  what is important is the beauty behind their appearance.  Beauty will fade but good character will last forever.

It's the nature of men to be polygamous.  They are not contented with one partner.  They want to try every dishes serve to them.  If a man truly loves the woman, he will not look to other woman. Be honest with your partner. Be fair to them.  I'm sure man will not also like if the woman cheated them.

many men cheat women because the relationship is less open and not understand each other so that there arises feelings that are bored lazy, and want to change partner with others, when a man finds another woman who is able to fill the boredom then the possibility of the man to cheating is very big, and after the relationship occurs then more and more deceitful words to women, and the case of deceiving this woman will continue until the man realizes his mistake is

A combination of factors may cause men to cheat on their women:
1. When their ladies nugs too much. Thus, when the lady complains of cheating anytime she sees her boyfriend or husband with another women. They may be mere friends, but a nugging wife would push so many complains till it becomes true
2. When the ladies becomes unattractive. some ladies are so neat when there are not yet married. Immediatly they get married, they change their way of dressing and that dimishes the guy's interest in her

Men cheat women for many reasons.They don't even know why they do it themselves.It's the worst thing about a woman.It's a big humiliation for a woman.Men can't have a long relationship with one person, this is the big problem for men.They immediately seek a raplacement in another woman.There are exceptions.Some people would never foor their woman.Everything depends on what a man is.

The biggest reason why men often cheat their women because men don't find what they want in their women. But then why they fell in love in the first place? Why they got married if at the end one of them will cheat? Sometimes we just don't realize that maybe our partner feel dissapointed. Let's take a look at ourself, what we have done wrong. Maybe we are too busy with our job, with the kids, so we never pay attention to them anymore.

Perhaps that was the case many years ago, but it is no longer true. Nowadays the women are more cunning and money-minded compared to the men. They know how to take advantage of the laws and provisions.

because women are easy and willing to be deceived

All other reasons are stated already why men cheat on their partners. All i can think of is peer pressure from friends is another reason. Men tend to cheat on their partner because his friends are cheating and he is tempted to act and do the same.

Correct! Men are selfish because they think their own feelings but the feelings of their partner they didnt think, How selfish they are! They will find another girl even if they  have relationship to other girl? what if you break up with your gf first before you find another women?

Because they are selfish and immaturity.and have a close friend who also cheater.friends can heavily impact decision to give in to temptation.

Men cheat their woman because :
1. In times of trouble, men are selfish. He just wants to find pleasure for a moment.
2. He is not grateful to have a partner. Or maybe he's tempted by other women who are more beautiful / more everything.
3. Communication. Distance is the cause men cheat their woman,  Because with distance will affect communication. If the relationship distance is close, they will be easier to meet. Different with long distance relationship.
4. Satisfied, because the feelings of the heart will also affect behavior.

What makes man cheat his wife
1 distance between the two partners
2 unsatisfied
3 disagreements

Man often cheat their women and woman often cheat man.
Why?
Many reasons but main reason is that we all first want to receive love before we give love.
Other side feel the same and because nobody is ready to give love unconditionally, our relationships dying.

not all men are cheaters. possible reason is that their partner are no longer into making herself attractive to them. as we all know, an attractive woman can be a head turner to most men. how much more if you no longer find your partner attractive? i am attracted to beautiful and sexy women, why not?

I think that the common reason why men cheat is because they are not satisfied or contented with their partners. Some people chose to part ways because they of the common mistake which is cheating. Sometimes, men are too weak to resist temptations. Those who can't conquer agaisnt such temptations leads them to worst scenarios that might break even their families.

1. avoid conflict,
Many men are lazy to mock women or enter a conflict, then they will cover it with lies. They prefer to create a state of peace and calm.
2.Leave From Difficult Conditions
3. Consider Their Couples Stupid

Men cheat when they notice a change in their women's character.  But naturally, some men are players ,so they play around with women

I do not think that only men are cheating the women because men can not go on cheating without the participation of women. This is not reliable. I am just curious if the op is a woman and victim by such unfaithful act of a man. If I am right,  then you should consider that not men are just the unfaithful but also the opposite, without their participation nothing unfaithful act from men will be done.

Lol. Right! Women cheat as much as men do and their reasons are sometimes even more unreasonable. Cheating can be caused by various circumstances but usually end up with the same heartbreaking result.

sometimes women prefer to be lied to than our honesty. And sometimes they just want to be spoiled without want to know what is really going on.

Coz we love puss !
Really what kind of question is that...

For the same reasons that women cheat on men.

There are many reasons why men often cheat their women. First, is that men were not contented with their woman and find another that will satisfy their needs. Second is that they were not happy anymore with their girl and find someone that would make them smile and running away from problems. Lastly is falling out of love, i guess its really important that you are open to one another so that you will knlw if you are still in love with each other.

You forgot to tell me that men are provoked to cheating by women, too. This temptation and men cannot resist it. But I do not believe that this applies only to men. In treason involved two parties. Women deceive men no less. They are better at hiding it. I guess cheating is the norm that we don't want to admit it.

Several factors that cause men to cheat are;
1. No longer happy in the relationship. they are not getting what they want at home.
2. They find their partner unattractive and they start looking for another woman
3. They are insecure
4. They self centered/selfish

Because maybe cheating is the nature of most men. if his partner fails to give what he wants and unsatisfied, Men looking for another girl to satisfy his needs, and sometimes men is no longer happy with in the relationship. He is going to cheat in order that women will give up and give the men freedom.

Men cheat on their women when their women fails to satisfy them in one way or the other. Also beauty makes most men cheats

In the relastionship matter infidelity is a common issues of thier society today, anger, insecurity ,dishonestly and unrealistic expectation are he root of some reason why men cheated to women as they partner ,regarding to their feeling and particular moment fails to understand that expectation are not met and seeks external fulfilment to one person ..definitly anger to their partner are the most common  reason occure infidelity caused he want to hurt her/him in such cases ,sometimes it seems to know that man does not keep the lie or secret about the cheating because he wants to his partner about it,