Topic: Why should we observe Every that matters about our kids (Read 152 times)

The environment has a huge influence on our children. And one major environmental influence is the social media. These innocent children needs to be protected from misinformation in these social media platforms. There are many information out there that are wrong and destructive. Our children have been exposed to negative vices like pornography, bullying and suicide through the social media. That's why it is important that parents closely monitor their children's phone use and control the sites they visit as well as the people they communicate with.

Some parents feel that buying phones for their underaged children is a sign of care or love. Even when the child is insisting to own a phone, it is the responsibility of the parents to ascertain if the child is matured enough to handle the negative influences that is related to the internet.

Having a friendship connection with your kid is true, your child won't be feeling uncomfortable telling what they want, what they feel, and what they think about something. They'll be vocal about such incidents and situations and that's a result of having good parenting.
The goal is to have them closer to you as a parent and don't put such barriers from being their parent because when kids feel they're intimidated, they'll start to flee or avoid you at most times because they don't like the approach to them. There's no other person that they should come in when they feel they're in trouble but none other than their parents. They should see you as their hero.

just as you mentioned their kids and their sense of reasoning are not well developed like us.  so their under our leadership till they climb to adult ladder. but since their kids they must be followed up,  from school to their peers, we must know who their teachers are, what kind of friends they should associate with and their movement must be monitored. In Africa our mode training kids are differ from others continents, Africa are more disciplined to kids, when they do wrong Africa parents will flog hell our of the kid, and he/she will never repeat the same mistake again. that is why African children are different, they are respectful and humble. its so responsible of adult to modify the character of the kids don't give them full independent.

To achieve that thing, the parents should starting not only a parent connection with children but also a friendship connection. Their children must feel at a young age that they can be their friends too, where the kids will be open to them about anything that's happening on their life. When you start noticing that your child is being quiet and not so vocal to you, as his parents, you should be alarmed because something might happened already maybe in their schools or they started overthinking things which can lead to stress that is not good for their mental health.
Go outside every weekends or free time, have bonding with them, always complement them and remind them how you love them so much, by small things like that it has a big impact on them. Because they will know that you are there for them in time of need. Do not just observe but go do some action for them as they are your kids and for them to be build and ready for the real world in the near future.

And because they're threatened by the abuser and they think that it's the end of the world for them so they wouldn't call it out and just obey whatever the abuser tends to say.
Being open and always being together with your children will help that observation and it won't let them keep a single thing or two and they'll be able to be vocal with almost everything because they're comfortable with you and they should be because you're their parent.
It will also play in your mind as a parent on why your kid or children aren't too vocal to you and they're keeping secrets to you, in that case start asking yourself why. Don't let their feelings be far away from you.

Children who are still in the process of development, we must observe. From his actions, his behavior in the house. Especially children who are still young, they will quickly be affected by the environment. And lately there's been a lot of child abuse, so we have to be vigilant and keep an eye on it. Don't let children have trauma from their childhood, and impact it until they grow up.

We must observe children, but we must not be too strict with them. We have to motivate him and advise him in a gentle way, and try to be a mother to be a place to tell stories about her child so that the bond between mother and child gets stronger. The environment and association always affect a child, therefore children must be educated so that they are not allowed to be carried away by promiscuity. Especially girls. Women must always be looked after, because in the current era there are many cases that occur.

 Well, basically. We have to observe the child's development, when he is at school or at home.

Children are big gift from God and he provided them a parents to care for them, on this note parents are sole responsible for every attitude the child may develop, because when a child grow he first teachers are his parents. Modifications of character are the responsibility of the parents. Regardless of the age of the child, he's still your boy, watch all his activities and follow up his actions till you die. Don't ever give him the  room of self libration esteemedsly.

Like the saying, children are the future of tomorrow, and it is the right of the parents to look after their children, like monitoring their daily activities, with the way things are going right now is better, is advisable for every parent to always observe their kids, what they do in school, and things they do when they are alone. And another thing a parent should do is to always listen to their kids,  to know when they are passing a message across.

I'm really pleased with all you have said, have said something like this before, that parents should pay a clear attention to their kids, mostly the mothers to their female children (daughters).
As a mother be always open to your daughter, create a friendly relationship with your daughter so she can be able to tell you anything,always urge them to report if they are been humiliated sexually by anyone, and always teach them all you know about sex when they are up to age..

As a parent when your child is back from school, try to ask them what happened in school, ask them who they spoke with and otherwise.

This is why it's important to have a bond with your children. You'll give them sometimes what they're asking especially if it's making them happy so that you can also ask them certain questions.

And, they won't hide things from you as a parent.

There are techniques to do that so that your kids will always be open and will tell you quickly if something is bothering or hurting them. True, observe your kids and if there's something wrong or odd, you should take care of it and facilitate their feelings.

When a kid keeps secret from you, it's no good. That's why treat them not just your kids but also your best of friends and show how you really love them.

Children are like tender plants that needs to be tendered to make them grow and bear fruits in the future. If children are not well groomed they might end up becoming misguided and unproductive. Most of the criminals and abnormally behaved adults in the society are products of a dysfunctional upbringing.

Every parents must be close to thier children so that they can always open up and tell them what the are going through everyday. Children should be able to freely communicate with parents without any form of reservation or secrets. A child should be able to inform his parents when he is been bullied in school and the parents should take immediate action. They must visit the school and ascertain where the bullying is coming from and it should be handled immediately. Parents should also observe when their children are showing some abnormal signs. An example is that when you child that was always happy to go to school suddenly becomes scared and doesn't want to go anymore. It might be a sign that he is been bullied.

It is not every relative that is welcomed in my home. I don't trust anybody with my children. I can't allow you to stay alone with my daughter because you are my brother. If you have a close relationship with your child she will always tell you what maybe an uncle is doing or did to her. Also your girl child must know about sexual molestation. She must know when the touch is getting out of hand. She must know the part of the body that nobody should see or touch.

Every child has a gift or talent. And if you spend quality time with your children, it will be easy to identify them. It is the responsibility of the parents to support and guide their children to develop these talents. Currently, there is no skill that cannot be developed using social media platforms like YouTube.

Live by example so that your kids can imitate your lifestyle because children learns fast by copying what they see their parents doing. Another way is to bring them up in a God fearing way, if you are the type that goes to church everyday, involve them into church activities where they will be guided properly on how to live a holy life. Caution them when they do wrong and tell them the implications of their actions,know their peer group and friends that they move with,so that they don't end up making friends with mannerless children.

The best method to go about these things is to make your kids your best friends so that they will be able to relate everything to you including what uncles and close relatives have done to them. If you make your kids to be scared of you, many things going around in the lives of your children you will be very unaware of them and the ending result will not be nice to you.

It's too bad a bunch of kids never make it to home, because they are aborted.

Thank for given justice to this, children remain children till they take full responsibility of themselves, parents must always observe the children and the peers they associate with. The day you feel your children are big and you aren't concern about their well-being or their character then be ready to deal with any outcome of irresponsible

All this is your own fundamental research that you try to impose on people sure you are sharing your knowledge your thoughts concerning children and their parents that is all something limits or chance will you give to a woman especially kills because when you give the kids a multi space it will make it them to lose interest and spoil a player stage 4 that is why do they need to be hold very Ramzan

Well, from your topic sounds like a question and your points like you're trying to teach us here. OK. Children are responsibility of parents to guide and mode their efficacy of characters and intellectual prowess. You can intermediate good behavior anywhere is found. If you as a parent trained your child properly, I don't see need to be panic about a child be bully in school, a child with good moral vibes find time for things that are important and not looking for some junks behavioural children to play. Is from play before bully, but if a child is smart he or she knows who to avoid in school, so that's your responsibility to give them what morals they represents outside.

Coming down to relative abuse of female children, I don't understand. No normal human being will abuse a child and no normal parent will allowed a child around abnormal people. This also balls back to training and upbringing. Children are smarter than adults if they gets good background upbringing. You can't try will jokes with smart children, they know who their relations are like. They observed, detect, calculate, and monitor your presence if you're a funny relatives. So that's your work as a mother to put children in a right direction.

Finally, as I said earlier every good child has a way of applauding his or herself. All they wants to see is the morals you as a parents you deposits on them. We should learn to give children good characters, character is everything. With this they will always makes you proud, as for compliments they deserved it when you deserved it as parents.

There are many things happening now at many homes ,mother's should pay good attention to our kids and some certain behaviours too. Things we should be concerned about our children
1 bullied in school
2 some relatives who abuses females ,such as uncle's
3 to know when kids are comfortable with some certain things ,we should also give our kids right to compliment in some cases like kids bringing out creative acts and suggestion

So let's talk more ETC ??