So I was making a donation when I sold most of my Bitcoin at $18,000 to these miners was I
Correct. That's how Bitcoin is designed to work. You choose the transaction fee for your transactions (or you choose software and let that software choose the fee for you). Then miners choose whether or not they want to confirm your transaction at that fee. You can increase the incentive by increasing the fee.
Decentralized mean user can all share the load, fees are not necessary
That is NOT what decentralized means.
But "mediators" would imply trust and we all know that Bitcoin is trustless right
Correct. They are not mediators. They simply create a record of history and provide a proof-of-work.
and I don't mind paying $0.10 per meg like we get with mobile data but that's about all.
Different use case, different value, different price.
Bitcoin is so over priced valuable that it's priced in bytes, not gigabytes
FTFY.
if other coins can maintain the network for $0.001 per transaction then that's the going rate, compete or be replaced.
Cheaper is not always better. Higher value and higher demand result in higher price.
No my understanding is perfectly fine and having 90% of the 20,000 miners being controlled by the ten top
mining pools
The pools do not control the miners. Miners can leave the pool at any time.
is not decentralized at all
Actually, it is.
and that leaving the Lightning Network debate aside.
Are you actually capable of that?
Market forces did not work when it came to Tx fees as they hit $55 per transaction
Market forces worked perfectly. Demand was high, people voluntarily paid higher prices. Higher prices resulted in reduced demand, and the prices came back down. Those that were willing to wait saved money. Those that were not willing to wait paid more for the privilege of fast confirmation.
so obviously it's nothing more than a monopoly.
I don't think that word means what you seem to think it means.
EVO/IOTA/Ripple/RailHash/DAC
Take your pick
No thanks.