Topic: Will our girls ever change? (Read 201 times)

If we let our girl children move along with what the society is offering the community today, they may be corrupt because the average teaming youths nowadays are going on wrong pattern with bad orientation that is not good for their age and growth, we must make sure that we are very aware of everything all our children were upto and how they move or deals with other people in the society.


That is when we allow them to move oit with friends that will renders all our efforts on them into waste by teaching them bad morals


It's their own kind of business strategies, they will spend expensive on their hair to be able to look more attractive to their other partners who may because of that find interest in them for a hook up, this is the wayward kind of life many of the girls are living today in the society.


They didn't learn skills or trades right from when they were young, how would they perform well now that they have grown up with thicker skin.

Na true you talk. Majority of the ladies wey dey independent that comport demselve well, you no go see them dey mess around, only few wey the thing dey their body. So there is a relationship here between not being able to take care of yourself and being able to take care of yourself. This na reason wey make e dey important to go school or learn work so that the ladies go fit dey support demselve and not to always depend on men. But really many ladies dey do this wella, regarding men as mugu.

I don't think our girls will everly change. These characteristics listed here is is also common to also our gender. there's is no need putting it only to the girls. Due to  anxiousness or overzealousness of making money, is leading The youth to commit crime on daily basis. And nobody is talking about that. Not to that am in support of the lazyness of the female gender, but just trying to justify equity. The female gender might be bad and lazy but the yohoo boys you made mention of, are they innocent? To be honest I think we the male are creating more problem in the society than the female gender. Yahoo boys have been using Young innocent ladies for rituals on daily basis but haven't heard of a lady using a man for money ritual.

if I get you correctly I think you are talking about fake life putting on a wig that is worth more than your house rent is fake life. Well everybody do what they think is good for them but,  that way that seemeth right unto human being might lead to destruction if they are not careful. They are not into hookup etc because they don't have skill,  most of them do have skill but they like coveting which leads them into doing rubbish. 
However,  talking about woman that don't compare you with other guys doesn't mean she's 100% perfect in fact most of them are more dangerous than the ones that do fake life.

We talking money, all you talk is nonsense; wetin Rick Ross tell Psquare for beautiful onyinye. If we begin reason naija babes matter this forum go shut down. One babe been don bill me on a Wednesday say she never chop since morning and perhaps her father never send her money. Na my good friend oooh, I come explain things to her come give am assurance wey Davido give Chioma say by weekend I go press her the least 3k make she use the wait for her daddy. She no gree she say make i send am 1k now, she need 1k now pass 3k by weekend. I rush send 1k, omo on weekend wey be Saturday as I close work I dey see more than 25 missed calls from her, I called back, she was like you're not keeping to your promises. Where have someone eaten they cake and have it back. So woman matter no be wetin wey suppose the worry you for the moment, after all one day one guy man go carry one keep for house she go dey born pikin dey chop food.

Our economy is one of the reasons that changed the way most of our girls reason because due to the skyrocket of goods, money have no value anymore thereby making people not to be contented with what they have thereby increasing the quest to make money above all odds. I believe that if our economy was in good shape, immorality in most of our girls would have solidly be minimized. Due to economic hardship have made some of our girls to indulge in immoral stuffs just to meet up life obligation so believe that if our economy is stabilized to a unified condition it will deeply change most of the narrative that our girls have.

And again our parents need to treat the girl child with caution and not provoke them to indulge in activities that will endanger their lives in the quest to meet up the standard of the society.

When you say our girls that means you're generalizing the whole female gender which is not suppose to be so because where there are bad ones there are also good ones. Telling you the truth it's really not easy for some girls as well as if some of them don't get involved in some immoral acts they may not be recognized and considering the fact that girls are weaker vessels, they don't have that energy to always carter for themselves at all times.

If not that things doesn't work equally, not only girls but everyone desires to be okay in life and also succeed as others are succeeding. Everyone loves to look good despite the fact that our fingers ain't equal.

This should demonstrate to you that boys participate in this competition as well as girls, When they don't have any employment to perform, most of these boys used to borrowed clothes and cars to oppress other males on the street. Only a 50/50 chance exists with this issue.

Not that I'm supporting girls that live expensive life because the issue with our girls is that they refuse to have their outfits cut to fit them properly. They fail to realise that living a fake life might lead them to base their decisions on what other people think of them, which is a huge red signal for their way of life.

If we can condemn girls who do hook up, why shouldn't we condemn boys who plus up in the name of wanting to have a better life and change their family's history? Is it necessary to cause harm to someone in order to succeed? It's very bad and you can realise that with common sense even without refering to our religious books.

I hold most parents responsible for this kind of problem since most parents are unable to raise and discipline their children, especially girls.
Parents today want to raised in an English culture while neglecting our own traditional ways which has caused many issues for our girls today. How else are you going to sleep soundly in your home when your daughter is staying outside?

Most of these things happen as a result of improper home training and sometimes peer group influence which have made our girls come to the conclusion that men are the ones that should provide everything for them and so they have become lazy that's why end up selling themselves for money.

Both parties are wrong with their acts and their is really no reason to compete or try to measure up to standards above you.

Your topic dey amuse me oh, "will our girls ever change" e one con be like say na every girl dey do the hookup, for this life everybody get flaws nobody dey perfect, even the ones wey no dey do hookup get flaws, and sometimes if you ask those girls wey dey do hookup why them dey do hookup them go tell you say na money them dey find, no girl wey dey do hookup today dey happy because hookup no be work so no blame anybody. Some dey do hookup because no better home training, see why I say parents get a huge role to play for their children life.

What is happening today for naira I no really blame the girls , even the kind of life style some of our boys they live I don't really blame them .  The performance of the government we get done really influence the mentality of our young ones to live their life any how. Boys dey do bad things to make money while some  girls feel the they can generate money from men. With the thing going on in our country I no dey blame young people the wey dem dey do thongs . If government change their ways immoral lifestyle will reduce.

luckly for me i don catch one for life na so i dey hold am tight like this, i no wan take any chance say i let her go, this one self dey do pass wife, i never even meet the family but las las i sabi the family, i just dey pray make i get money go straight to point no wasting of time. this generation don really wack i swear i just dey feel sorry for some gals.

Op, after reading your post, I come to the conclusion that you are one of those people who judge people by their appearance, as it has already been said by people who have eyes to see that: never judge a book by its cover. So I believe you have come across that statement, so why do you judge girls?

If I am not mistaking, I will not use myself as an example, but I will use the statement "THOSE". Those girls are like a book, so you have to open that book, so you can know what's written inside, and I believe you just come across them and not get close to knowing about them before saying what you are saying.

Sometimes, when we hear some stories about some people, we will feel pity for them and if we are in a better position, we might help. However, most girls have bad characters, but some still have good characters too.
So don't judge because everyone have their own stories to tell.

Just as Roseline492 has said,  you don't generalize it , I am very sure that their are good ones out there, but dem scarce, base on say the country now don almost spoil, hungry dy every where, even the ones wey been good, hunger don make dem change by force because of snr level of shege dem don see.

U know say if things dy ok for this country, de rate ok wakawaka for ladies go reduce, if you observe wela, Any lady we get her own money no dy misbehave anyhow, na all dos girl wey dey carry hungry waka, nai dy collect anyhow from guys

OP I don't really understand the kind of message you are trying to convey, and secondly try not to generalize in times of this approach you are trying to make, I no that most ladies or rather women tends to leaves to other people standards when actually they cannot afford it were as giving people the mindset that women are disguising in nature which is partially true because in as much as we have bad one we also have the good ones so let's not try to generalize it.

The idea say "nobody really de reason you" don affect our girls negatively on a serious note

The majority of girls are just concerned about competing with themselves and will go as far as doing anything just to measure up with there fellow girls

You go see girl when never see better food chop with wig when de more expensive than her house rent all in the name of measuring up

Most of them no even de skilled and the only thing when them think say de reasonable for them to do na to go into hookup or date guys when de ready to pay for those frivolous expenses.

After we go hear say street boys don use them plus up and we go de blame those niggas when on a normal this girl no even wan help themselves.

I know say somehow, it's almost their nature now that they love to be spent on but the fact say so many of them don became very lazy and dependent on others de very bad

If you try see girl when no de into hookup and no de too compare you to her friends boyfriend, hold am strong oh! Her kind no plenty again for market.